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Are you:

Seeking a low-cost, proven solution for healing codependency?

Ready to join my work and discover real healing and freedom from your codependency?

The Solo Course Bundle Is For YOU.

Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You

The Solo Course Bundle Is For Survivors Seeking:

  • To trust themselves again
  • Freedom from craving and aching for the toxic relationship
  • Sanity and clarity about what is real and actually happening
  • To know who they are, love who they are, and be confidently themselves
  • Build healthy relationships and keep them

The Bundle Achieves This By Getting You Into The Four Courses That Make This A Reality Through Gentle, Simple Trainings.

Those Four Courses Are:

  • The Self-Trust Course™
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy™
  • The Know Yourself Strategy™
  • The Relationship Strategy™

 

Each course takes you through uncovering your programming, healing and soothing your emotional pain, and guiding you through discovering life beyond codependency.

Here’s how:

INTRODUCING THE SOLO COURSE BUNDLE

Survivors experience long-term well-being, happiness, new romance, marriage, better jobs, and more satisfaction – all because they had the right tools, the right support, and the right knowledge at the right time.

They followed a specific set of trainings that led them through restoring self-trust, taking back their personhood, discovering who they are, and building healthy, compatible relationships.

This approach targets core areas of one’s life and persona that were attacked and harmed through the abuse and neglect they experienced, including:

    • Their experience of what is real
    • Their emotional validity
    • Their senses and personal awareness
    • Their gut and intuition
    • Their sense of personal power and legitimacy
    • Their limits and boundaries
    • Their personhood and sense of identity
    • Their self-worth and value
     

The codependent impulses of people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, controlling outcomes, being a perfectionist, feeling on edge and “walking on eggshells” are transformed into peace, confidence, clarity, and love of Self.

All through having the right knowledge, the right tools, the right support, at the right time.

These 4 Courses Create:

The Right Knowledge Through:
 
  • 4 in-depth courses focused on restoring Self-Trust, Healing the Trauma Bond, Discovering Yourself, And Creating Happy Relationships (of all types)
  • Additional Supporting Courses to help meet needs, discovery nervous system soothing and care, and build relationship skills
 

The Right Tools & Practices Through:

  • Somatic Tools for soothing distress, pain, and anxiety
  • Meditative tools for tuning into yourself so you can hear and know your own voice and value
  • Practical exercises that help you get used to living from confidence
  • Specialized trainings that help you apply specific skills that improve your life and happiness
 

The Right Support Through:

  • Email Support
  • Online Community Support
 

The Right Time Through:

  • Clear structure and order between courses so it is easier to grow, explore and succeed

I Have Two Intentions For You When You Join The Bundle:

1) That you experience the power having the right knowledge, the right practices, the right support, at the right time
 
AND
 
2) You experience real change in your personal daily life as you learn the knowledge and apply it to your life through the proven practices that put that knowledge to work for you

My desire is that you experience your happiness and well-being without having to be codependent.

Because, when you don't know how to care for your needs, your emotions, or how to safely be yourself...

You lapse back into people-pleasing

You seek out familiar kinds of relationships

Repeat old wounds and traumas

Condemn yourself and lose faith in yourself

Turn away healthy friendships and relationship opportunities

Suffer in isolation and loneliness

You can experience happiness, safety, and peace and be yourself, too.
 
You can feel confident, safe, and at enjoy being the person you are.
 
All you need is the right knowledge, the right tools, and the right support, at the right time.

I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident, even after 10 years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…

Once I learned what I teach in the Membership, I no longer needed to be codependent. 

My self-trust as allowed me to experience resilient peace, confidence, and freedom of being myself. 
 
My nervous system’s soothing allowed me to face discomfort and take risks that brought me more happiness
 
The love and like I have for myself allowed me to feel the freedom of being myself without significant concern about what others thought.

Teaching this is one of my most favorite activities I do.

Because it creates change so quickly and deeply for survivors like you and I.

Join the 700+ students who have experienced my trainings and experience for yourself more freedom, peace, and care.

Come Join Us In This Adventure

Experience The Power Being Really YOU

The Solo Course Bundle Guides You In Creating A Life Of Happiness And Well-being Through Four Steps:

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STEP ONE: GENTLE WARMING OF SELF-TRUST

Codependency tends to compel a person to jump in 100%.  This comes from the all-or-nothing, black-or-white binary thinking that trauma activates in the brain (btw, this isn’t a bad thing. It’s kept you alive!).

This often shows up as, “I’m gonna totally trust myself 100% now!” or “I’m gonna totally accept myself 100% now”.

This habit is one of the first major roadblocks to experiencing lasting freedom.

I get you around this through a my approach called, “Bit-by-Bit”. 

The “Bit-by-Bit” Approach helps you gently experience new things in small quantities.  This makes it safer for your nervous system and your body, and results in deeper, faster shifts than you’d otherwise experience.

This applies deeply to building self-trust.

Right now, it is likely that trusting yourself feels unsafe, scary, and even painful.  This is warranted and reasonable to feel.  Your dominant experience of trusting yourself has resulted in being harmed, gaslit, abandoned, rejected, and more.

Healing your relationship with self-trust must go gently, slowly, and at YOUR pace.

I help you do this through:

  • Guided mp3 practices with the Bit-by-Bit Approach built in
  • Single-focused practices for each module so you only focus on one thing at a time
  • Gentle go-at-your-pace trainings and course design

 

I use these principles to guide you in experiencing trust in 6 core aspects of your life:

  • Trust in the legitimacy of your awareness
  • Trust in the validity of your senses
  • Trust in the legitimacy of your emotions
  • Trust in the validity of your perceptions and experience
  • Trust in the authenticity of your capacities and limits (aka boundaries)
  • Trust in the goodness and validity of your needs and wants
  • Trust in your Personal Power, choice, and action
  • Trust in your intuition, sense of things, and hunches

 

Students and clients leave this step feeling deeply clear and confident in the legitimacy and veracity of their lived experience and awareness.  Say goodbye to feeling crazy, confused, foggy, and uncertain.

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STEP TWO: HEALING THE TRAUMA BOND

The nausea, the pounding heart, the sense of panic and distress, the gutting sensation – these are all results of what I call “attachment distress”. 

This distress results from having your sense of connection and access to the other person threatened or actually severed.

This leaves you feeling shattered, lost, emptied, and frozen. 

I guide you through warming, thawing, and then healing this distress using specific practices, including:

  • Somatic grounding practices
  • Building emotional space and capacity to feel
  • Bringing legitimacy to your experiences and feelings
  • Regulating and comforting your distress and pain at losing them or feeling separated from them
  • Restoring trust in your lived experience
  • Help you pop the codependent fantasies and connect with reality
  • Take back and occupy your Personhood

 

This liberates you from the grip of the trauma bond and the core codependency survival response called “Freeze-Fawn”.

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STEP THREE: DISCOVERY OF WHO YOU ARE

Codependency emerges when we don’t have a solid sense of real Self. 

This step helps you discover who you are through understanding your:

  • Innate Value as a person and a being
  • True Voice as a person and an authority in your life
  • Genuine Vision of who you are and what you desire in your world

 

I help you achieve this through very specific practices, including:

  • The Innate Value Retrieval Practice
  • The Innate Value Activation Practice
  • The Innate Value Rooting Practice
  • Tuning In Your Voice Practices
  • The Lensing Practice
  • The Presence With You Practice
  • Intuition Listening Practice

 

This is how you come to know, love, and live who you really are.

 

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STEP FOUR: CREATE HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS

This is where you graduate from codependency and build interdependency in healthy, compatible, happy relationships of any kind (friendship, romantic, and so forth).

I help you achieve this by teaching you how to:

  • How to detect and build on organic compatibility using my WHAT-HOW-WHO Model of relating
  • Build relationships on consent and privilege, eliminating the toxic habit of entitlement and obligation
  • Navigate building secure attachment and bonding through recognition, reassurance, and safe conflict and communication
  • Build conflict habits that create understanding, intimacy and outcomes that serve all involved
  • Build communication habits that create comprehension, clarity, and care

 

This is how you come to experience relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued.

THESE FOUR STEPS ARE TAUGHT THROUGH THESE TRAININGS:

Step One Course:

$750.00 value

The Self-Trust Course guides you through restoring your first natural state: Trusting Yourself.
  
This is critical to healing codependency as self-trust helps us:
 
  • Regain our ability to believe our lived experience
  • Reconnect to our emotions, reactions, and the wisdom they have for us
  • Acknowledge and follow our own values, self-sense, and intuition
  • Restore boundaries and our personal sovereignty

 

Learn how The Self-Trust Course™ makes this happen for you here:

 

Course Overviews:

Step Two Course:

$497.00 value

The Heal Yourself Strategy™ guides you through restoring safety, sanity, and sovereignty after narcissistic abuse, neglect, or chronic codependency through parentification.
  
This essential step helps you:
 
  • Start to build real, lasting, reliable safety emotionally, physically, and relationally
  • Detect and break through fantasy and codependent distortions
  • Detect and embrace reality
  • Break the trauma bond through restoration of safety, thawing freeze, and re-engaging your healthy aggression as you step out of fawning
  • Understand and nurture your core emotional need
  • Regulate and sooth your attachment distress
  • Recognize, embrace, and occupy your Personhood, personal authority, sovereignty, and take back your power
 

Learn how The Heal Yourself Strategy™ makes this happen for you here:

Step Three Course:

$1250.00 value

The Know Yourself Strategy™ guides you through discovering your own value, voice, and vision for your life and who you are.  This results in you knowing, loving, and living YOU.
  
This step is your transition from codependency into your Personhood. 
 
You learn and master:
 
  • Detecting your own voice from out of the mess of programming and other people’s input
  • Detecting and following YOUR yes and no impulses
  • Coming to feel, trust, and follow your own Innate Value
  • Being able to create clarity, answers, and direction in your life
  • Taking up the space of being you in bold, secure fashion.  You feel safe being yourself
  • Come to like, love, and trust yourself more
 

Learn how The Know Yourself Strategy™ makes this happen for you here:

Step Four Course:

$1500.00 value

The Relationship Strategy™ guides you creating organically compatible relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued for who you are.
  
This is where you graduate from codependency into interdependency.
 
You will learn and master:
 
  • How to detect and build on organic compatibility using my WHAT-HOW-WHO Model of relating
  • Build relationships on consent and privilege, eliminating the toxic habit of entitlement and obligation
  • Navigate building secure attachment and bonding through recognition, reassurance, and safe conflict and communication
  • Build conflict habits that create understanding, intimacy and outcomes that serve all involved
  • Build communication habits that create comprehension, clarity, and care
 

Learn how The Relationship Strategy™ makes this happen for you here:

YOUR JOURNEY THROUGH EACH OF THESE STEPS IS SUPPORTED THROUGH:

EMAIL SUPPORT

GET ANSWERS AND GUIDANCE VIA EMAIL

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me. Knowing I could email my mentor at any time, even years later, for guidance and help brought me a sense of peace and support in my healing.

This is what I provide you when you enroll:  lifetime access to email support from me, Marshall Burtcher.

ON-LINE COMMUNITY

THE COMMUNITY HAS YOUR BACK

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  What makes the difference is a warm, supportive community that students could turn to with questions, needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

Marshall provides you with this support through:

  • Email support from my staff and Marshall (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of fellow survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself

IS THIS A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?

The Solo Course Bundle Is Designed For Individuals That:

  • Identify with being a codependent
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • That are struggling to get process in their own therapy and healing
  • That are seeking more peace, freedom, and happiness
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back
  • Willing to do the work in a self-study, independent fashion

There are Pre-requesites for The Solo Course Bundle:

  • Must be in therapy or seeking a trauma therapist
  • Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

YOU CAN START TODAY FOR:

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$ 997
00
Lifetime Access
  • The Self-Trust Course™
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy™
  • The Know Yourself Strategy™
  • The Relationship Strategy™
  • The Support Courses
  • Lifetime Email and Online Community Support
  • Lifetime Access To The Recorded Classes

REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

REAL PEOPLE SHARING THEIR JOURNEY

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.