And if you’re currently working on healing that shame, guilt, or fear, I can help you make big progress fast!
It all starts with reclaiming your natural innocence…
Mentor To Survivors Of Narcissistic Relationships
Condemnation is the act of turning something into a weapon that defines a person’s worth, lovability, and character.
If you grew up with abusive parents or had an abusive, narcissistic spouse or partner, you’ve lived under their wrath and condemnation.
Its power comes from the belief that they’re right, you’re wrong, and that you have no innocence in the act.
What if they’re wrong? What if all those things you’ve felt shame, guilt, and condemnation for are not evidence of something wrong with you?
What if they’re simply part of innocence?
You can discover for yourself your innate innocence.
This will free you from your attachment to shame, guilt, and fear. You will stop suppressing your brilliance.
You will start seeing your realness, your validity, your wholeness again.
You will feel that playful, light, expressive child self again.
I help you achieve this through my 5 practices I call, “Reclaiming Innocence”.
Reclaiming Innocence™ is built specifically for survivors struggling to untangle themselves from the shaming, the guilting, the name-calling, and condemnation of mistakes, discoveries, and being themselves.
You will be able to let go of judgment, shame, guilt, and condemnation fast as you see how innocence is really our first nature. I help you discover this through mental understanding AND, most importantly, experiencing it for yourself.
Innocence isn’t a mental concept. It is a living state within your body. Using my special practice approach, I help you tap into and discover the innocence that is alive within you, even when mistakes are made, you feel fear, or you have a need or want.
I help you begin to adopt innocence as your first reference point to yourself as you respond to the world around you. This will help you reshape your programmed responses, judgments, and points of view into more loving, healthy habits.
The course information is outline below:
You will explore innocence in:
Topic: Judgment, Condemnation, and Innocence
Topic: Mistakes & Perfectionism
Topic: Needs & Wants
Topic: Being & Feeling
Topic: Cultivating Innocence
The chaos, crazy-making, and roller-coaster of emotions and intensity is why you feel anxiety. The BE CALM System empowers you with tools that calm your mind and body quickly. They help you have power and have a say in what you feel
These tools are built on Peter Levine’s Somatic Experiencing trainings. You will feel more calm and grounded.
Taking the leap on your own healing is scary. I know it was for me. What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.
I provide you with this support through:
My courses are designed to be used from the smart phone and the desktop computer or laptop.
Each course is broken down into a series of small trainings. These trainings build on each other (think legos). As you advance through each training, you place another block in your healing, freedom, and peace.
You will exit each training and each course with a new skill-set and the understanding of how to apply it to your life.
My courses are self-paced regardless of they’re the live edition or the recorded edition. They’re designed to adapt to your lifestyle and needs. This is achieved with my Building-block™ course design (means they work like following a recipe).
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YOUR WHOLENESS: You’ll feel more wholeness in your body, as if you’ve found yourself again (and you did in a very real way).
GREATER PEACE: You’ll know how to calm your mind, by returning to your innocence and being able to cultivate your inward connection.
RETURN TO CREATIVITY: Through innocence, you’ll find your play, curiosity, and child-like joy; this inspires creativity, flow, and discovery.
SOBRIETY: You’ll see that your mistakes were not a product of flaw, but a part of discovery and growth. You’ll see the shame and guilt were never yours and never required for your well-being.
YOURSELF: You’ll know how to connect with yourself, nurture your intra-connection and your inner world with you, how to keep yourself (aka sobriety), and how to be in your innocence.
Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.
Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.
I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.
My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desperately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.
I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first. Without being loved, I was not lovable.
This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.
The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded. I call it “The Discard Trauma”.
Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness with my unique, effective approach to healing.
Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency from your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.
HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS THE RIGHT COURSE FOR ME?
Ask yourself this question and listen to you body’s response: “Will this course get me where I want to be?”
If you find yourself heavy and confused, then your answer is no.
If you find yourself light, expansive, and clear, then your body’s answer is yes.
That answer is what I call your “intuitive answer”.
Trust your inner guidance.
WHAT IF I GET STUCK OR GO SLOWLY?
This is anticipated in the design of all my courses. You see, this course is teaching you new practices and a new lifestyle. It will take time to adopt, explore, and experience what you learn.
You can go at your pace and you’ll always have support and guidance along the way.
WHAT IF I DECIDE IT ISN’T FOR ME AFTER ENROLLING?
I recommend not enrolling if you’re wrestling with this question. Instead, share with me your concerns or questions by messaging me here: https://www.facebook.com/freetheself
There are no refunds for subscriptions.
I’M REALLY BAD WITH TECHNOLOGY AND COMPUTERS. WILL THAT GET IN THE WAY?
All my courses are designed to be accessed through email. If you’re comfortable with using email, you can do the courses.
All live classes are through the ZOOM app. Links to the ZOOM classrooms are in all class emails and titled “Link to Classroom”. Click the link and you’ll be entered into the classroom.
If you have difficulties, reach out to support here: firstname.lastname@example.org and we’ll help you get it working.
The only issue we do not troubleshoot is email delivery. We recommend having a GMAIL, HOTMAIL, MSN, YAHOO account for the class emails. Other email services may block or move to spam course emails.
I’M IN THERAPY. WILL THIS INTERFERE?
All my courses are built on cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and somatic therapies. This means it will likely be compatible with your therapy and enhance what you’re learning there.