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Ready To Feel Worthy And Lovable And Shed That Shame, Guilt And Worthlessness For Good?

And if you’re currently working on healing that shame, guilt, or fear, I can help you make big progress fast!

It all starts with reclaiming your natural innocence…

Marshall Burtcher

Mentor To Survivors Of Narcissistic Relationships

HAVE YOU BEEN...

HAVE YOU BEEN...

  • Feeling shame for having wants and needs?
  • Believing your feelings are a burden?
  • Obsessing over how things would be if you were a different person?
  • Condemning yourself for mistakes you made?
  • Fearing mistakes and judgment?
  • Paralyzed by the fear of judgment?
  • Punishing yourself for not knowing “better”?

THIS IS INTERNALIZED CONDEMNATION SPEAKING

THIS IS INTERNALIZED CONDEMNATION SPEAKING

Condemnation is the act of turning something into a weapon that defines a person’s worth, lovability, and character.

If you grew up with abusive parents or had an abusive, narcissistic spouse or partner, you’ve lived under their wrath and condemnation.

Its power comes from the belief that they’re right, you’re wrong, and that you have no innocence in the act.

What if they’re wrong?  What if all those things you’ve felt shame, guilt, and condemnation for are not evidence of something wrong with you?

What if they’re simply part of innocence?

FROM THE MOUTH OF STUDENTS...

FROM THE MOUTH OF STUDENTS...

IF YOU WANT YOUR JOY & CURIOSITY BACK, I CAN HELP YOU

IF YOU WANT YOUR JOY & CURIOSITY BACK, I CAN HELP YOU

You can discover for yourself your innate innocence.

This will free you from your attachment to shame, guilt, and fear.  You will stop suppressing your brilliance.

You will start seeing your realness, your validity, your wholeness again.

You will feel that playful, light, expressive child self again.

I help you achieve this through my 5 practices I call, “Reclaiming Innocence”.

INTRODUCING RECLAIMING INNOCENCE™

INTRODUCING RECLAIMING INNOCENCE™

Reclaiming Innocence™ is built specifically for survivors of codependency struggling to untangle themselves from the shaming, the guilting, the name-calling, and condemnation of mistakes, discoveries, and being themselves.

IT ACHIEVES THIS THROUGH 3 STEPS:

IT ACHIEVES THIS THROUGH 3 STEPS:

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STEP ONE: UNDERSTANDING INNOCENCE

You will be able to let go of judgment, shame, guilt, and condemnation fast as you see how innocence is really our first nature.  I help you discover this through mental understanding AND, most importantly, experiencing it for yourself.

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STEP TWO: RECLAIMING INNOCENCE THROUGH BODY-FELT PRACTICE

Innocence isn’t a mental concept.  It is a living state within your body.  Using my special practice approach, I help you tap into and discover the innocence that is alive within you, even when mistakes are made, you feel fear, or you have a need or want.

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STEP THREE: LIVING FROM INNOCENCE

I help you begin to adopt innocence as your first reference point to yourself as you respond to the world around you.  This will help you reshape your programmed responses, judgments, and points of view into more loving, healthy habits.

THIS RESULTS IN YOUR ABILITY TO...

THIS RESULTS IN YOUR ABILITY TO...

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SHED SHAME AND GUILT FAST

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START NURTURING YOURSELF IN KIND, LOVING WAYS QUICKLY

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IDENTIFY WHAT IS REAL SO YOU ARE NO LONGER MANIPULATED

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WALK AWAY FROM WHAT DOESN'T WORK FOR YOU DESPITE WHAT YOU FEEL FOR THEM

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BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE, SELF-RESPECT, & SELF-LOVE

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IDENTIFY AND KNOW YOURSELF MORE AND MORE

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BUILD HEALTHY LOVE FOR YOURSELF

AND YOU HAVE YOURSELF BACK - SHAME AND GUILT FREE

COURSE INFORMATION

COURSE INFORMATION

Course Details

The course information is outline below:

    • Length: 5 Modules Taught Over 5 Weeks
    • Each module includes a 1-hour training & live practice of reclaiming innocence
    • Weekly practices take around 10 minutes on average a day
    • Classes are provided in video and MP3/audio format

The Modules

You will explore innocence in:

Module One:
Topic: Judgment, Condemnation, and Innocence

Module Two:
Topic: Mistakes & Perfectionism

Module Three:
Topic: Needs & Wants

Module Four:
Topic: Being & Feeling

Module Five:
Topic: Cultivating Innocence

INCLUDES POWERFUL SUPPORT COURSES...

INCLUDES POWERFUL SUPPORT COURSES...

COURSE ENROLLMENT INCLUDES ACCESS TO:

The HEAL YOURSELF Strategy ($497)

HEAL CODEPENDENCY AT ITS ROOT

Go deep on healing the core cause of codependency: the trauma bond.  You are guided back to yourself through 3 simple steps: restoring your safety, sanity, and self.

This is all achieved through 24 modules that gently guide you in adopting simple practices that set you free and empower your natural well-being and happiness.

The BE CALM System ($197)

REGULATE AND CALM YOUR ANXIETY AND DISTRESS

The chaos, crazy-making, and roller-coaster of emotions and intensity is why you feel anxiety.  The BE CALM System empowers you with tools that calm your mind and body quickly.  They help you have power and have a say in what you feel

These tools are built on Peter Levine’s Somatic Experiencing trainings.  You will feel more calm and grounded.

LIVE MENTORING HOURS™ ($4999/yr)

ACCELERATE YOUR HEALING & HAPPINESS WITH LIVE GROUP SUPPORT & COACHING

Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings. 

Live Mentoring Hours includes:

    • Access to The Live Mentoring Hours Vault.  Watch over 2 years worth of custom trainings for past students
    • Access to The Bi-weekly Live Mentoring Hours that happen on Tuesdays @6PM MDT and Thursdays @ 11am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way

LIVE & ON-LINE COMMUNITY (Priceless)

THE COMMUNITY HAS YOUR BACK

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me.  What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

I provide you with this support through:

  • Weekly check-ins via email on your progress
  • Email support from my staff and I (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of 2500+ survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself
  • Bi-weekly live group support to give you the personal touch yo need in your journey

 

ALL COURSES & TRAININGS ARE:

FULLY DIGITAL

WATCH & LISTEN FROM ANYWHERE YOU HAVE INTERNET ACCESS

My courses are designed to be used from the smart phone and the desktop computer or laptop. 

This means:

  • You can log in via the Kajabi App and resume or start your course at any time
  • Listen to the course via MP3 edition or watch the video
  • Print nothing; the PDF’s are a guide; use a notebook or digital document to track your results
  • Do the practices from the convenience and privacy of your smart phone. Most practices take about 20 minutes 3-to-5 times a week.

PRECISION FOCUS DESIGN

THE RIGHT KNOWLEDGE & TOOLS YOU NEED

Each course is broken down into a series of small trainings.  These trainings build on each other (think legos).  As you advance through each training, you place another block in your healing, freedom, and peace. 

You will exit each training and each course with a new skill-set and the understanding of how to apply it to your life.

GO-AT-YOUR-PACE DESIGN

THERE'S NO RUSH!

My courses are self-paced regardless of they’re the live edition or the recorded edition.   They’re designed to adapt to your lifestyle and needs.  This is achieved with my Building-block™ course design (means they work like following a recipe).

This means:

  • You can stop at any point and focus on that step till you’re ready to move to the next step and STILL SUCCEED
  • There’s no time pressure or expectation.  Most students take their time and have wild results despite going slowly
  • Real results happen because of the PROCESS, not the knowledge or understanding you gain.  Do the processes, get the results!

Got Questions? Get Answers

CONFIDENCE IN YOUR CHOICE IS WHAT MATTERS FIRST

Join me live every Tuesday at 5PM Mountain Time (Boise Idaho) to get answers you have about my courses, memberships, how I work as a mentor, and even support for what you’re facing.

You can talk with me personally via my secure Zoom Group call or shoot me an email and I’ll get right back to you.

Make that happen here:

YOU WILL EXIT Reclaiming Innocence™ WITH:

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YOUR WHOLENESS: You’ll feel more wholeness in your body, as if you’ve found yourself again (and you did in a very real way).

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GREATER PEACE: You’ll know how to calm your mind, by returning to your innocence and being able to cultivate your inward connection.

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RETURN TO CREATIVITY: Through innocence, you’ll find your play, curiosity, and child-like joy;  this inspires creativity, flow, and discovery.

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SOBRIETY: You’ll see that your mistakes were not a product of flaw, but a part of discovery and growth.  You’ll see the shame and guilt were never yours and never required for your well-being.

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YOURSELF: You’ll know how to connect with yourself, nurture your intra-connection and your inner world with you, how to keep yourself (aka sobriety), and how to be in your innocence.

HOW TO JOIN:

Reclaiming Innocence™ requires a HEAL Yourself Membership.  You can get yours below:

GET LIFETIME ACCESS

SINGLE PAY:
$497

PAYPLAN 2: $250 For 2 Months

PAYPLAN 3: $167 For 3 Months

IF THIS IS OUT OF REACH FOR YOU, APPLY FOR A SCHOLARSHIP

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Meet Your Mentor

Meet Your Mentor

Who's Your Mentor?

Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.

Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.

I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.

My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desperately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.

I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first.  Without being loved, I was not lovable.

This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.

The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded.  I call it “The Discard Trauma”.

Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness with my unique, effective approach to healing.

Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency from your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.

COMMON QUESTIONS ANSWERED:

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HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS THE RIGHT COURSE FOR ME?

Ask yourself this question and listen to you body’s response: “Will this course get me where I want to be?”

If you find yourself heavy and confused, then your answer is no.

If you find yourself light, expansive, and clear, then your body’s answer is yes.

That answer is what I call your “intuitive answer”.

Trust your inner guidance.

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WHAT IF I GET STUCK OR GO SLOWLY?

This is anticipated in the design of all my courses.  You see, this course is teaching you new practices and a new lifestyle.  It will take time to adopt, explore, and experience what you learn.

You can go at your pace and you’ll always have support and guidance along the way.

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WHAT IF I DECIDE IT ISN’T FOR ME AFTER ENROLLING?

I recommend not enrolling if you’re wrestling with this question.  Instead, share with me your concerns or questions by messaging me here: https://www.facebook.com/freetheself

There are no refunds for subscriptions.

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I’M REALLY BAD WITH TECHNOLOGY AND COMPUTERS.  WILL THAT GET IN THE WAY?

All my courses are designed to be accessed through email.  If you’re comfortable with using email, you can do the courses.

All live classes are through the ZOOM app.  Links to the ZOOM classrooms are in all class emails and titled “Link to Classroom”.  Click the link and you’ll be entered into the classroom.

If you have difficulties, reach out to support here: support@freetheself.com and we’ll help you get it working.

The only issue we do not troubleshoot is email delivery.  We recommend having a GMAIL, HOTMAIL, MSN, YAHOO account for the class emails.  Other email services may block or move to spam course emails.

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I’M IN THERAPY. WILL THIS INTERFERE?

All my courses are built on cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and somatic therapies.  This means it will likely be compatible with your therapy and enhance what you’re learning there.

Got Questions? Get Answers

CONFIDENCE IN YOUR CHOICE IS WHAT MATTERS FIRST

Join me live every Tuesday at 5PM Mountain Time (Boise Idaho) to get answers you have about my courses, memberships, how I work as a mentor, and even support for what you’re facing.

You can talk with me personally via my secure Zoom Group call or shoot me an email and I’ll get right back to you.

Make that happen here:

Results From Students...

Results From Students...

START HEALING TODAY:

GET LIFETIME ACCESS

SINGLE PAY:
$497

PAYPLAN 2: $250 For 2 Months

PAYPLAN 3: $167 For 3 Months

WANT EVERYTHING I HAVE TO OFFER & SAVE YOURSELF THOUSANDS?

CHECK OUT THE EVERYTHING FOREVER MEMBERSHIP