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Ready For Connection, Understanding, And Cooperating

And if you’re currently looking at dating again, you can feel more confident, clear and capable fast.

If you want relationships and friendships where you feel confidence in communicating, connecting, and building intimacy I can help.

Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You

Marshall Burtcher

Mentor To Survivors Of Narcissistic Relationships

HAVE YOU BEEN...

Fearing you’ll repeat the same mistakes as in past relationships?
Wondering how you’ll handle your needs and wants to be close to them without driving them away?
Wondering how to keep yourself in a relationship without givinn yourself up or being smothered?
Struggling to figure out how to communicate so they hear and understand you?
Fearing conflicts and differences will sabotage your relationship again?
Avoiding relationships because they all feel doomed to fail?

THIS IS YOUR PAST TALKING

This is entirely NORMAL.

If you’ve been through narcissistic abuse and bad relationships, these fears and concerns are utterly legitimate.

Those things happened and you ended up paying a deep cost because of them.

And yet, part of you wants connection, intimacy and satisfaction in your friendships, family, and relationships.

This is also very, very normal.

This is your love and desire talking!

You see, what you needed and wanted in those relationships wasn’t the problem.

Your needs and wants are good.

The big challenge in building relationships that result in connection, intimacy, and love isn’t our desires.

It is a combination of two factors: Your skills and Who You Choose.

Both of these factors are in your control.

All you actually need is the skills and practices that create connection, intimacy and satisfaction with the right-fitting person.

My students achieve this outcome repeatedly.

They each needed:

THEY NEEDED...

A PROVEN PROCESS TO FOLLOW: Love addiction is rooted in severe neglect of your core needs and a belief that only a special other can complete you. You need a step-by-step process that helps you undo the neglect, restore your sense of connection to yourself, heal the loneliness and bring healthy connection back into your life.

THE RIGHT KNOWLEDGE: Survivors of narcissistic abuse and codependency comes from a different world than those who haven’t been through that hell.

This means you need the correct knowledge at the right time to make the correct changes and choices that result in lasting healing for yourself.

THE TOOLS & PRACTICES THAT ADDRESS THE CORE CHALLENGES: Neglect and experience with healthy communication, attachment, a d conflict have set you up for failure. We end this cycle of failure by giving you the right knowledge and practices that reshape how you bond, communicate, and advocate for yourself.

THE CORRECT EXPERIENCE & TIMING: Understanding your experiences helps you make wiser choices. To have that right understanding, you need to have the correct experiences in the correct time. Survivors build confidence and clarity fast when they know how to respond to the milestones in relationships as well as how to walk the path to those milestones.

A SAFE HAVEN: Survivors need real-time, active feedback on their experiences. A strong community coupled with bi-weekly live mentoring beyond the classroom helps them succeed fast and maintain their growth and achievements.

ON-GOING RELIABLE RESOURCES & REINFORCEMENT: Most survivors I’ve worked with needed consistent access to support, feedback, cheer-leading, and celebration as they ventured into the world and experienced life. Knowing someone has your back makes adventure and risk so much safer.

FROM THE MOUTH OF STUDENTS...

IF YOU WANT TO CREATE CONNECTION, INTIMACY, AND SATISFACTION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS, I CAN HELP

I’ve found most survivors are drowning in a sea of information. They lack structure, support, and direction. This cycle of disappointment and failure ends when they have the right structure, support, and knowledge.

Survivors begin to heal, find peace, and find sanity again when they have the practices, support, and tools that are tailored for their unique journey.

I help them achieve this through The Relationship Strategy™ Course.

INTRODUCING THE RELATIONSHIP STRATEGY™

The Relationship Strategy™ is built for codependents and survivors of narcissistic abuse that are ready to master their skills in building secure adult attachment, kind communication, and safe conflict in their relationships and personal lives.

The Relationship Strategy™ targets attachment distress, communication confusion, and conflict struggles by helping you regulate, build, and practice healthy attachment, comprehension, and cooperation.

The Relationship Strategy™ has one objective: To help you experience more connection, intimacy, and satisfaction in all your relationships

IT ACHIEVES THIS IN 3 STEPS:

STEP ONE: BUILD SECURE ADULT BONDS BASED ON ORGANIC COMPATIBILITY

Attachment is the highway on which all your needs and wants are met and reciprocated by the other. It is where we feel the most safety and the most dread and vulnerability in a relationship.

I teach you how to build secure bonds with others through:

– Identifying trust patterns in their behavior
– Regulating proximity (closeness) anxiety
– Regulating seperation (space) anxiety
– Building constancy and routine that auto-regulates the bond, even in times of conflict, confusion, upset, and low capacity

You exit this step empowered in nurturing your attachment needs, respecting theirs, and knowing how to connect and nurture each other.

STEP TWO: COMPREHEND EACH OTHER

Communication is a major challenge we all wrestle with. We make it highly complex, confusing, and fuzzy.

I teach you how to communicate in a way that results in clarity, connection, understanding, and respect.

I do this through teach you:

– How to be direct, clear and simple
– How to voice concerns and complaints without accusations, assumptions, or judgments
– How to confront confusion and get clarity
– How to listen and comprehend yourself and them

You exit this step understanding how to navigate communication in ways that result in more understanding, clarity, and honesty. This empowers you to make honest choices you want to make and live with.

STEP THREE: BUILD INTIMACY, NOT PROBLEMS

Conflict is scary. It is charged with intense memories of violence and abuse.

This wasn’t conflict – it was harm.

Healthy conflict is SAFE. And I teach you how to create safe conflict through:

– Regulation of your activation states (fear, anxiety, panic)
– Using breath, space, and time to navigate conflict
– Applying Deepened Communication to conflict so it creates intimacy, not division
– Building outcomes that work for you and them

You exit this step understanding what conflict is and isn’t, how to build safe conflict, and how to emerge from conflict with solutions, clarity, and intimacy.

THIS RESULTS IN YOUR ABILITY TO...

ENJOY SECURE ATTACHMENT

GET MORE OF WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE

ENJOY REAL INTIMACY

FEEL SECURE AND SAFE WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE

CONFRONT CHALLENGES AND BUILD CONNECTION OUT OF THEM

FEEL SAFE IN CONFLICT

FEEL SEEN, HEARD, AND VLAUED

AND ENJOY MORE CONNECTION, INTIMACY, AND SATISFACTION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

COURSE INFORMATION

The Course Details

- Length: 12 On-demand Modules Taught Over 12 Weeks
- Lifetime Access To Live and Recorded Classes Each module includes a 2-hour training & weekly practices for homework
- Weekly practices take around 20 minutes on average a day
- Classes are provided in video and audio (mp3) format
- Includes access to over 24+ hours of training, comprehensive PDF guides for the practices, and 20+ MP3 tools, including guided meditations, release tools, and more

The Course Modules

Module One:
Topic: Foundation of Healthy Relating (Compatibility, WHAT-HOW-WHO)

Module Two:
Topic: Operational Trust

Module Three:
Topic: Consent, Privilege – The New Way Of Relating

Module Four:
Topic: Structure of Connection and Value SYstems

Module Five:
Topic: Building Connection: Power & Ownership In Relationships

Module Six:
Topic: Building Connection: Attachment Systems

Module Seven:
Topic: Building Connection: Communication Systems

Module Eight:
Topic: Building Connection: Conflict Systems

Module Nine:
Topic: Navigating New Connection

Module Ten:
Topic: Navigating Existing Connections

Module Eleven:
Topic: Navigating Attachment, Conflict, and Communication

Module Twelve:
Topic: Navigating Change and Endings

THIS COURSE IS...

FULLY DIGITAL

WATCH & LISTEN FROM ANYWHERE YOU HAVE INTERNET ACCESS

My courses are designed to be used from the smart phone and the desktop computer or laptop.

This means:

You can log in via the Kajabi App and resume or start your course at any time
Listen to the course via MP3 edition or watch the video
Print nothing; the PDF’s are a guide; use a notebook or digital document to track your results
Do the practices from the convenience and privacy of your smart phone. Most practices take about 20 minutes 3-to-5 times a week.

DESIGNED FOR EFFECTIVENESS

THE RIGHT KNOWLEDGE & TOOLS YOU NEED

Each course is broken down into a series of small trainings. These trainings build on each other (think legos). As you advance through each training, you place another block in your healing, freedom, and peace.

You will exit each training and each course with a new skill-set and the understanding of how to apply it to your life.

DESIGNED TO GO AT YOUR PACE

THERE'S NO RUSH!

My courses are self-paced regardless of they’re the live edition or the recorded edition. They’re designed to adapt to your lifestyle and needs. This is achieved with my Building-block™ course design (means they work like following a recipe).

This means:

You can stop at any point and focus on that step till you’re ready to move to the next step and STILL SUCCEED
There’s no time pressure or expectation. Most students take their time and have wild results despite going slowly
Real results happen because of the PROCESS, not the knowledge or understanding you gain. Do the processes, get the results!

GOT A QUESTION?

Get An Answer

CONFIDENCE IN YOUR CHOICE IS WHAT MATTERS FIRST

Get answers to your questions by submitting your question to me and I’ll get back to you within 48 hours.

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YOU EXIT THE COURSE WITH:

HEALTHY ADULT ATTACHMENT: You know what your attachment style is and you know how to mature and care for it within your relationship and within yourself.

DEEPENED COMMUNICATION: Instead of talking at each other, you understand how to hear them, and how to be heard by them. This creates predictable comprehension and intimacy.

SAFE CONFLICT SKILLS: You understand how to navigate conflict that results in more understanding, connection, and intimacy.

PERSONAL POWER: You’ll know how to use your Personal Power for your well-being and happiness, increasing your satisfaction with your life.

SELF-CONFIDENCE: Instead of questioning yourself, you’ll be rooted in a living self-trust that you can know and live what is real and valid for you.

MORE SATISFACTION: You’ll be able to connect with and enjoy more people in ways that matter to you and them, creating mutual satisfaction.

ENROLL BELOW

UPGRADE EXPIRES IN:

Days

Hours

Minutes

Seconds

ONLY FOR THE MONTH OF JUNE 2025:

6 MONTHS ACCESS TO WEEKLY GROUP CALLS ($497 value)
THE RELATIONSHIP STRATEGY: THE FOUNDATION FOR HEALTHY RELATING ($2000 value)

$997

$ 349 Lifetime Access

The Actually Heal Course ($997)
The Indomitable Worth System ($2000)
The Self-trust Course ($1250)
The Practice Sessions Library ($997)
The Be CALM System ($297)
Codependency Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
The Student Community ($997)

Payment plans through Klarna and Affirm available on purchase page

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COMMON QUESTIONS ANSWERED

HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS THE RIGHT COURSE FOR ME?

Ask yourself this question and listen to you body’s response: “Will this course get me where I want to be?”

If you find yourself heavy and confused, then your answer is no.

If you find yourself light, expansive, and clear, then your body’s answer is yes.

That answer is what I call your “intuitive answer”.

Trust your inner guidance.

WHAT IF I GET STUCK OR GO SLOWLY?

This is anticipated in the design of all my courses. You see, this course is teaching you new practices and a new lifestyle. It will take time to adopt, explore, and experience what you learn.

You can go at your pace and you’ll always have support and guidance along the way.

WHAT IF I DECIDE IT ISN’T FOR ME AFTER ENROLLING?

I recommend not enrolling if you’re wrestling with this question. Instead, share with me your concerns or questions by messaging me here: https://www.facebook.com/freetheself

There are no refunds.

I’M IN THERAPY. WILL THIS INTERFERE?

All my courses are built on cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and somatic therapies. This means it will likely be compatible with your therapy and enhance what you’re learning there.