fbpx

For Survivors of Narcissistic Relationships, Love Addiction, and Codependency Seeking Real Healing...

And lasting healing & happiness again through one of the world’s most comprehensive and effective healing systems designed specifically for survivors of narcissistic abuse, love addiction, and codependency…

GET ACCESS NOW

Marshall Burtcher

Mentor To Survivors Of Narcissistic Relationships

The HEAL Yourself Membership

The HEAL Yourself Membership​

[COURSE ONE]

HEAL

COURSE DETAILS:

  • 12 In-depth Trainings Covering The Following Topics:
    • Being You Fearlessly
    • Validity of Your Experiences, Feelings, Wants & Needs
    • Real Power Through Accountability
    • Belonging As You Are
    • Deeply Loving Ourselves
    • Being Loved Genuinely
    • Loving Others Openly
    • Your Genuine Meaning, Worth & Purpose
    • Trusting Ourselves
    • Trusting Others Again
    • Resiliency To Rejection
    • Choosing You First
  • Includes over 20 hours of in-depth video training and comprehensive PDF guides for each module
  • 20+ Guided MP3 Healing Practices that help you Release the Shame, Fear, Guilt, and Fatigue, then Integrate And Embody your true self
  • Supportive Guides for Healing The Anger, Injustice, Sadness, Grief, and Sense of Being Crazy
  • Time Commitment:
    • Class: 1 – 2 hours once a week
    • Practice: 30-minute meditation practice 3-to-5 times a week

HEAL THE EMOTIONAL TRAUMA WITHOUT DROWNING IN THE PAIN

Narcissistic abuse and neglect programs shame, fear, guilt, and fatigue into our emotional relationship with ourselves, with love, and with others. 

Our needs are turned into weapons, our feelings turned into landmines, and our very identity discarded by the gas-lighting, dehumanizing criticism, denialism, shaming, and objectification we experience with the narcissistic individual.

HEAL reverses this impact through it’s simple 3-step psychosomatic process called The HEAL Process.  Here’s what The HEAL Process does:

  • Leads you through a release of shame, guilt, fear, or fatigue regarding a specific relationship experience
  • Guides you into an integration of love and compassion towards the part of you that experienced that painful outcome
  • Leads you into embodying who you are now that the shame, fear, guilt, and fatigue have been released from your sense of worth and identity

 

This is all achieved through gentle guided meditations that create safety first and allow you to flow and feel as much as you’re comfortable.  The result is your freedom, confidence, and self-worth being restored at the emotional level.   You feel it.

[COURSE TWO]

FROM ADDICTION TO CONNECTION

COURSE DETAILS:

  • 8 In-depth Trainings Covering The Following Topics:
    • Understanding The Two-Cycle Relationship and Intermittent Reinforcement
    • Restoring Peace Through Nervous System Regulation
    • Realizing You through Individuation
    • Deepening Your Peace Through Somatic Processing
    • Creating Sanity Through Sane Making
    • Making Yourself Real To You
    • The WHAT-HOW-WHO Relationship Process
    • Nurturing Your Needs
    • Building Secure Attachment
    • Staying Sober
    • Ending the Attachment Distress (the cravings and the intense obsessing)
  • Includes over 18 hours of in-depth video training and comprehensive PDF guides for each module
  • 20+ Guided MP3 that help you break free of the fantasy, calm the cravings and euphoria, heal the attachment distress, and reconnect you with your peace and sanity
  • Exclusive access to The SANE MAKER, The Attachment Distress Regulator, and The Legitimizer
  • Time Commitment:
    • Class: 1 – 2 hours once a week
    • Practice: 20-minute meditation practice 3-to-5 times a week
    • Practice: 5-minute clearing practice 3 times a week

FREE YOURSELF FROM THE TRAUMA BOND

You’ve been trauma bonded to your abuser.  This happens through the Seduction-Abuse-Discard and Euphoria-Distress-Discard cycles. 

Do you feel crazy?  Do you wonder what is real?  Do you struggle with intense cravings, obsession, and fixated thoughts on the narcissistic person?  Do you feel like maybe you’re the narcissist?

If so, you’re dealing with the Trauma bond (also called Love Addiction).  This is a result of the Seduction-Abuse-Discard & Euphoria-Distress-Discard cycles described above.  

You can break free from this and be at peace, have your sanity back, and have healthy belonging and connection again.   Here’s how FROM ADDICTION TO CONNECTION helps you achieve that:

  • Restore peace through nervous system regulation using somatic practices that naturally calm your mind and body, often fast
  • Restore sanity by training you how to identify and receive reality using specialized guides that help you make sense of what is really happening
  • Restore connection with yourself and with healthy others through my Nurture Process™ and the What-How-Who Process™ for building healthy, safe relationships

 

This is achieved through the gentle Connection Practices that ease your pain, increase your peace, and comfort your distress. 

[COURSE THREE]

NURTURE

COURSE DETAILS:

  • 4 In-depth Trainings Covering The Following Topics:
    • The 10 Core Needs
    • How Needs Are Fulfilled Within You
    • How Needs Are Fulfilled Within A Relationship
    • The WHAT-HOW-WHO Approach To Choosing Healthy People
    • The 7 Elements Of Trust
    • The A.R.C. Method For Connecting With Others
  • Includes over 6 hours of in-depth video training and comprehensive PDF guides for each module
  • 5+ Guided MP3 Healing Practices that help you nurture your needs in safe, painless, and fulfilling ways
  • Time Commitment:
    • Class: 1 – 2 hours once a week
    • Practice: 15-minute meditation practice 2 times a week
    • Practice: 2 workbook assignments exploring your needs; about 10 minutes each

EXPERIENCE REAL EMOTIONAL FULFILLMENT

The biggest hurdle in healing is getting our needs met.  NURTURE makes this complex journey simple and straight-forward.

Nurture takes advantage of your brain’s ability to create emotional “reference points” and using an exclusive psychosomatic process, trains your brain to fulfill its needs through internal emotional experiences and healthy external experience.   Here’s how NURTURE helps you achieve that:

  • Guides you into feeling and identifying your 10 core needs
  • Guides you in creating a new emotional experience of your needs being met that is within your subconscious mind
  • Guides you in choosing healthy people to receive your needs with and helps you build that connection

 

This results in you emotionally experiencing the fulfillment of your emotional needs in safe, playful, fulfilling ways.

Your Healing Is Accelerated By The 5 Features

Your Healing Is Accelerated By The 5 Features

[FEATURE ONE]

GO-AT-YOUR-PACE

THERE'S NO RUSH!

My courses are self-paced regardless of they’re the live edition or the recorded edition.   They’re designed to adapt to your lifestyle and needs.  This is achieved with my Building-block™ course design (means they work like following a recipe).

This means:

  • You can stop at any point and focus on that step till you’re ready to move to the next step and STILL SUCCEED
  • There’s no time pressure or expectation.  Most students take their time and have wild results despite going slowly
  • Real results happen because of the PROCESS, not the knowledge or understanding you gain.  Do the processes, get the results!

[FEATURE TWO]

FULLY DIGITAL

WATCH & LISTEN FROM ANYWHERE YOU HAVE INTERNET ACCESS

My courses are designed to be used from the smart phone and the desktop computer or laptop. 

This means:

  • You can log in via the Kajabi App and resume or start your course at any time
  • Listen to the course via MP3 edition or watch the video
  • Print nothing; the PDF’s are a guide; use a notebook or digital document to track your results
  • Do the practices from the convenience and privacy of your smart phone. Most practices take about 20 minutes 3-to-5 times a week.

[FEATURE THREE]

LIFE-DESIGNED PRACTICES

HOMEWORK DESIGNED FOR REAL LIFE

One of the biggest barriers to my own success and healing was the tools & practices given to me didn’t mesh with life.  They felt separate and incompatible. 

I fixed this by creating practices that you easily use in real life.  This allows students to:

  • Practice their homework real-time and gain big, lasting shifts fast
  • Reduce perfectionism and the pressure to “do the homework”
  • Realize they can and do heal and grow with gentle consistency in practicing the homework
    Succeed
  • Homework includes meditations, some workbook exercises, and practices you employ in your day-to-day life

[FEATURE FOUR]

REAL-LIFE SUPPORT

THE COMMUNITY HAS YOUR BACK

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me.  What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

I provide you with this support through:

  • Email support from my staff and I (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of 1800+ survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself
  • Options for affordable 1:1 sessions or access to the Bi-weekly Live Group Mentoring

And You Won't Do This Alone!

And You Won't Do This Alone!

LIVE MENTORING HOURS™

ACCELERATE YOUR HEALING & HAPPINESS WITH LIVE GROUP SUPPORT & COACHING

Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings. 

Live Mentoring Hours includes:

    • Forvever access to The Live Mentoring Hours Vault.  Watch over 2 years worth of custom trainings for past students
    • Forever access to The Bi-weekly Live Mentoring Hours that happen on Sundays @ 11AM MDT (-7 GMT) and Tuesdays @ 6PM MDT (-7 GMT)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way

THRIVE Strategy™ Library

GO DEEPER WITH BI-MONTHLY TRAININGS IN HEALING AND HAPPINESS

The THRIVE Strategy™ Library Trainings get you access to classes that enhance the results you’ve achieved in HEAL, FROM ADDICTION TO CONNECTION, and NURTURE and take your happiness deeper into your well-being and daily life.

Thrive Strategy™ achieves this through:

    • Access to the Bi-monthy live trainings that focus on one specific topic at depth, giving you both understanding and practice that makes the difference in your life
    • Access to the Library of past trainings that support your growth and well-being
    • You can even REQUEST A SPECIFIC TRAINING and get a class made just for you!

You Get All This By By Getting The HEAL Yourself ™ Membership

You Get All This By By Getting The HEAL Yourself ™ Membership

Choose The HEAL Yourself Membership That Is Right For You:

Monthly Membership

MONTHLY FOR $49

The Heal Yourself Monthly Membership Gets You Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership

 

Membership Details:

  • Renews every month
  • Low-cost, high-return option if you’re fiscally tight
  • You can cancel anytime
  • No Refunds

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$49.00 A MONTH

Yearly
Membership

YEARLY FOR $397

The Heal Yourself Yearly Membership Gets You Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership

 

Membership Details:

  • Renews every 12 months
  • Great for students ready to commit, save money, and grow
  • You can cancel anytime
  • 14-day refund period

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$397.00 A
YEAR

Lifetime Membership

FOREVER FOR $597

The Heal Yourself Lifetime Membership  Gets You Forever Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership
  11. Special upgrade pricing for other Memberships
  12. Special 1:1 session pricing

 

Membership Details:

  • One-time Investment
  • Ideal if you’re wanting to move forward and maintain your healing
  • 14-day refund period

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$597
FOREVER
PAYMENT PLANS

Meet Your Mentor

Meet Your Mentor

Who's Your Mentor?

Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.

Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.

I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.

My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desperately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.

I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first.  Without being loved, I was not lovable.

This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.

The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded.  I call it “The Discard Trauma”.

Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness with my unique, effective approach to healing.

Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency from your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.

Got Questions? Get Answers!

Results From Students...

Results From Students...

Be Free Of The Craving, The Crazy, And Find Your Happiness Again

Be Free Of The Craving, The Crazy, And Find Your Happiness Again

Choose The HEAL Yourself Membership That Is Right For You:

Monthly Membership

MONTHLY FOR $49

The Heal Yourself Monthly Membership Gets You Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership

 

Membership Details:

  • Renews every month
  • Low-cost, high-return option if you’re fiscally tight
  • You can cancel anytime
  • No Refunds

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$49.00 A MONTH

Yearly
Membership

YEARLY FOR $397

The Heal Yourself Yearly Membership Gets You Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership

 

Membership Details:

  • Renews every 12 months
  • Great for students ready to commit, save money, and grow
  • You can cancel anytime
  • 14-day refund period

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$397.00 A
YEAR

Lifetime Membership

FOREVER FOR $597

The Heal Yourself Lifetime Membership  Gets You Forever Access To:

  1. The HEAL Course
  2. The FROM-ADDICTION-TO-CONNECTION Course
  3. The NURTURE Course
  4. The THRIVE Strategy™ Life skills Trainings Library
  5. Access to live classes & trainings
  6. Bi-weekly Live Group Support called “Live Mentoring Hours” where you can talk with Marshall live in a group format
  7. BONUS: The RapidHEAL™ Guides Library of healing tools
  8. 12 months of email support
  9. Lifetime access to The Community
  10. Access to new courses and trainings when added to the Heal Yourself Membership
  11. Special upgrade pricing for other Memberships
  12. Special 1:1 session pricing

 

Membership Details:

  • One-time Investment
  • Ideal if you’re wanting to move forward and maintain your healing
  • 14-day refund period

ENROLL TODAY FOR:

$597
FOREVER
PAYMENT PLANS