And lasting healing & happiness again through one of the world’s most comprehensive and effective healing systems designed specifically for survivors of narcissistic abuse, love addiction, and codependency…
Mentor To Survivors Of Narcissistic Relationships
Narcissistic abuse and neglect programs shame, fear, guilt, and fatigue into our emotional relationship with ourselves, with love, and with others.
Our needs are turned into weapons, our feelings turned into landmines, and our very identity discarded by the gas-lighting, dehumanizing criticism, denialism, shaming, and objectification we experience with the narcissistic individual.
HEAL reverses this impact through it’s simple 3-step psychosomatic process called The HEAL Process. Here’s what The HEAL Process does:
This is all achieved through gentle guided meditations that create safety first and allow you to flow and feel as much as you’re comfortable. The result is your freedom, confidence, and self-worth being restored at the emotional level. You feel it.
You’ve been trauma bonded to your abuser. This happens through the Seduction-Abuse-Discard and Euphoria-Distress-Discard cycles.
Do you feel crazy? Do you wonder what is real? Do you struggle with intense cravings, obsession, and fixated thoughts on the narcissistic person? Do you feel like maybe you’re the narcissist?
If so, you’re dealing with the Trauma bond (also called Love Addiction). This is a result of the Seduction-Abuse-Discard & Euphoria-Distress-Discard cycles described above.
You can break free from this and be at peace, have your sanity back, and have healthy belonging and connection again. Here’s how FROM ADDICTION TO CONNECTION helps you achieve that:
This is achieved through the gentle Connection Practices that ease your pain, increase your peace, and comfort your distress.
The biggest hurdle in healing is getting our needs met. NURTURE makes this complex journey simple and straight-forward.
Nurture takes advantage of your brain’s ability to create emotional “reference points” and using an exclusive psychosomatic process, trains your brain to fulfill its needs through internal emotional experiences and healthy external experience. Here’s how NURTURE helps you achieve that:
This results in you emotionally experiencing the fulfillment of your emotional needs in safe, playful, fulfilling ways.
My courses are self-paced regardless of they’re the live edition or the recorded edition. They’re designed to adapt to your lifestyle and needs. This is achieved with my Building-block™ course design (means they work like following a recipe).
This means:
My courses are designed to be used from the smart phone and the desktop computer or laptop.
This means:
One of the biggest barriers to my own success and healing was the tools & practices given to me didn’t mesh with life. They felt separate and incompatible.
I fixed this by creating practices that you easily use in real life. This allows students to:
Taking the leap on your own healing is scary. I know it was for me. What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.
I provide you with this support through:
Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings.
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The THRIVE Strategy™ Library Trainings get you access to classes that enhance the results you’ve achieved in HEAL, FROM ADDICTION TO CONNECTION, and NURTURE and take your happiness deeper into your well-being and daily life.
Thrive Strategy™ achieves this through:
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Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.
Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.
I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.
My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desperately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.
I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first. Without being loved, I was not lovable.
This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.
The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded. I call it “The Discard Trauma”.
Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness with my unique, effective approach to healing.
Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency from your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.
Classes: 1.5 hours once a week
Daily Practices: 15-60 minutes a day depending on the course
Yes, it does. My courses are built on mindfulness-based practices and cognitive exploration exercises.
Yep. I encourage you to! Students report massive results doing the practices 3 times a week or less sometimes. The trick is to be CONSISTENT and FOCUSED in your follow-through.
Reach out to our staff and we’ll get you more direction for your situation!
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