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Are you:

Seeking a proven path to freedom, peace, and well-being after codependency?

Seeking a low-cost, go-at-your-own-pace direction for your healing?

Ready to join my work and discover real healing and freedom from your codependency?

Get The Heal For Real Bundle

The Heal For Real Bundel Is For Codependents Seeking:

  • To trust themselves again
  • Freedom from craving and aching for the toxic relationship
  • Sanity and clarity about what is real and actually happening
  • To know who they are, love who they are, and be confidently themselves
  • Build healthy relationships and keep them
 
And Want To:
 
  • Go at their own pace through independent study
  • Reduce cost without reducing results

The Heal For Real Bundle Achieves This By Getting You The Four Courses That Make Healing & Freedom From Codependency A Permanent Reality.

Those Four Courses Are:

  • The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings ($597)
  • The Actually Heal Trainings ($597)
  • The Nurture Course ($497)
  • The Indomitable Worth System ($2000)
 

Each course takes you through healing your self-doubt, ending the trauma bond, restoring your true self, and building healthy, happiness relationships in your daily life.

This happens through these four steps:

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STEP ONE: HEALING THE PAIN THAT CAUSES CODEPENDENCY

Fawning is a response your body has toward danger when that danger is a person.  It is where you try to please and appease the person in hopes they won’t harm you anymore and maybe even love you more.

This is especially present when the dangerous person is a parent or spouse whom you love. 

This causes the core codependency behaviors of people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, toxic accommodation and tolerance, fixing and enabling habits, perfectionism, and even a strong desire to merge with the dangerous person in order to feel whole, worthy, lovable, and complete.

When this inevitably fails, you are left with that gutting emotion of being discarded, unworthy, and unlovable.

I guide you through this pain using specific practices, including:
 
  • Body-based calming practices that help you feel safer and safer being in your present moment
  • Building emotional space and capacity to feel emotions, sooth your pain, and access your inner wisdom
  • Restore legitimacy to your experiences and feelings so you can detect boundaries, gut instinct, and your own voice again
  • Regulate and sooth distress and pain from loss, discard, and abandonment
  • Soothe and heal the emptiness and loneliness from neglect and being unseen and unmet by others and yourself
  • Identifying and neutralizing codependent fantasies
  • Identify and trust your lived experience
  • Restore sanity through identifying what is real
  • Restore your sense of personhood and personal power
  • Start nurturing your needs in healthy ways
 

This liberates you from the grip of euphoria, fantasy, and trauma bonding and anchors you back to your core self, power, and adulthood.

This is achieved through the Essential Codependency Healing Trainings.

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STEP TWO: HEAL YOUR PERSISTENT, STUCK PAIN AND EXPERIENCE REAL PEACE AGAIN

Chronic emotional pain and unproccessed energy in the body creates relapses in codependency, leading to despair, frustration, and hopelessness.

Bringing this pain to rest and peace sets the body free from it’s fears and tension, creating deeper relief from codependent behaviors and from persistent fears.

This is achieved through gentle practices that do not require you to drag up and process your past.  Instead, we process what is showing up emotionally now with gentle tools that soothe and bring to rest the pain you carry.

This is achieved through the Actually Heal Trainings.

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STEP THREE: HEAL LONELINESS WHILE CREATING BELONGING

Codependency often comes with deep loneliness, emptiness, and a sense of not belonging.  One’s needs go unmet, driving shame, fear, and guilt.

Nurturing your needs and creating meaningful connections helps you exit the people-pleasing and perfectionism impulses of codependency.  You experience a sense of being known, valued, and loved as you are.

This is achieved through the Nurture Course.

 

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STEP FOUR: MASTERY OF YOUR INDOMITABLE WORTH

Codependency teaches us to seek our worth through performance, approval, perfection, and transactional love. We get trapped in cycles of self-esteem building and self-esteem implosions.

This step frees you from transactional worth and guides you in discovering and integrating your real worth.

I help you achieve this through very specific practices, including:

  • The Discovery Practice
  • The 3-step Liberation Practice that liberates your worth from the meanings and conclusions you’ve created about yourself
  • The Embodiment Practices where you learn how to be your real, true self as your worth
  • The Expression Practices where you learn how to live as your indomitable worth in your daily life
 

This is how you be your worth and let it guide your life.

This is achieved through the Indomitable Worth System.

 

Heal For Real While Experiencing More Self-Trust, Confidence, And Freedom

All That Is Required Is Your Commitment To Taking The Classes And Doing The Practices

THESE FOUR STEPS ARE TAUGHT THROUGH THESE FOUR COURSES:

COURSE ONE

$597.00 value

The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings guide you through understanding, detecting, and healing the cause of codependency: the body’s please-and-appease response (or Fawn response).
  
This is utterly essential to ending your use of codependency.  It helps you:
 
  • Regain safety and power to create that safety
  • Reconnect to your emotions, reactions, and the wisdom they have for you
  • Connect with reality, see through fantasy, and make more powerful choices for yourself
  • See and execute your personal boundaries without shame or guilt
  • Tap into your worth and start to know yourself
 
This course is 8 modules in length.

 

COURSE TWO

$597.00 value

The Actually Heal Trainings teaches you how to access, process, and integrate the emotional pain you carry.  You will start experiencing more peace, freedom, rest, creativity, and liveliness as your pain is healed.
  
This is crucial to your long-term success post codependency, as it empowers you to:
 

 

  • Process any emotion or experience you have, preventing future states of being stuck emotionally
  • Release any trauma bonds or emotional enmeshment you have
  • To understand what your pain is trying to tell you and then nurture the need it brings you
  • Stop fixing, analyzing, or trying to change yourself
  • Embrace, care for, and nurture your peace
 

This course is 8 modules in length.

COURSE THREE

$497.00 value

The Nurture Course guides you through meeting, understanding, and nurturing your emotional needs.  You will develop skills to meet those needs within yourself and within your healthy relationships.  This helps reduce loneliness, emptiness, and isolation, and experience increases in feeling connected, valued, and like you belong.

 
You learn and master:
 
  • What your 10 core needs are and how they get fulfilled
  • Nurturing your inner children and soothing inner loneliness
  • Nurturing connections with others and allowing them to contribute to you
  • Soothe pain and distress
  • Increase belonging and well-being
 

This course is 8 modules in length.

COURSE FOUR

$2000.00 value

The Indomitable Worth System™ is specialized in helping you take your Innate Value deeper by helping you discover, liberate, embody, and express your Indomitable Worth.
  
This step is your transition from codependency into your Personhood. 
 
You learn and master:
 
  • Discover your Indomitable Worth
  • Detect and follow your own voice through your Indomitable Worth
  • Liberate your worth from the trauma of the past
  • Embody your worth and who you are as that worth
  • Express and integrate this into your daily life
 

This course is 11 modules in length.

YOU'RE SUPPORTED THROUGH EACH COURSE WITH...

UNLIMITED EMAIL SUPPORT

EMAIL GUIDANCE AND SUPPORT

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me. Knowing I could email my mentor at any time, even years later, for guidance and help brought me a sense of peace and support in my healing.

This is what I provide you when you enroll:  lifetime access to email support from me, Marshall Burtcher.

ON-LINE COMMUNITY

COMMUNITY FEEDBACK AND SUPPORT

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  What makes the difference is a warm, supportive community that students could turn to with questions, needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

Marshall provides you with this support through:

  • Email support from my staff and Marshall (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of fellow survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself

COURSE FEATURES:

COURSES COME WITH:

  • Unlimited attendance to live classes for each course when they’re taught
  • Video and audio versions of the trainings
  • Printable PDF homework guides and class slides
  • Follow-along MP3 and video versions of tools and practices that guide your healing and growth
  • Online access via PC or Smartphone

TIME INVESTMENT:

  • Module trainings average about 2 hours in length
  • Trainings come with printable PDF version of the slides for note taking
  • Homework is 20-30 minutes a week on average
  • It is always go-at-your-own-pace

ARE THESE COURSES A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?

These Courses Are Designed For Individuals That:

  • Are willing to do the work in a self-study, independent fashion
  • Identify with being a codependent, people-pleaser, fixer, “nice”, or over-achiever
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • That are struggling to get process in their own therapy and healing
  • That are seeking more peace, freedom, and happiness
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back

There Are Prerequisites For These Courses:

  • Must be in therapy, seeking a trauma therapist, or willing to find one if Marshall advises it
  • Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

GET THE HEAL FOR REAL BUNDLE BELOW

GET THE BUNDLE TODAY

$3600
$ 597
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Lifetime Access
  • The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings ($597)
  • The Actually Heal Trainings ($597)
  • The Nurture Course ($497)
  • The Indomitable Worth System ($2000 Value)
  • Lifetime Email and Online Community Support
  • Lifetime Access To The Recorded Classes

REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

REAL PEOPLE SHARING THEIR JOURNEY

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.