… Even if therapy or self-help as failed you in the past.
With the right knowledge, practices, and support, real peace and freedom become your new normal.
Live Classes start Sunday, March 12, 2023. Click below to get your seat!
Many codependents struggle to see results in their efforts to heal, especially in therapy and self-help. They blame themselves for it, concluding they’re not doing enough, trying hard enough, or just dont’ deserve to heal.
If this is you, you need to hear this…
It is a knowledge problem and an experience gap.
Therapy had been addressing the symptoms, not the cause, of my codependency.
Most therapists, coaches, mentors, and codependents think that codependency is what needs to be healed, stopped, transcended, etc. .
Reality is this:
Codependency is a result of what you’ve been through, not who you are. It is the SYMPTOM.
What you’ve been through has trained your body and brain to respond to relationships with people, places and things with a specific dominant reaction.
This dominant reaction is called “Fawning.”
This is the cause of codependency.
What is fawning?
It is the impulse to please another or appease them so you can feel safe, feel connection, and even have a sense of identity.
It shows up as:
To end your codependency, you must have the right knowledge and practices that give you the experiences that make the change real.
This is what I help codependents do.
Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another
I’ve learned over the past 14 years of healing my own codependency what is required to find relief and begin experiencing the peace, freedom, and well-being we are each naturally worthy of having. This is what I aim to help you begin to experience through…
I have three intentions for you when you join the Essential Codependency Healing Trainings:
I want you to leave these trainings experiencing the reality that you are worthy, whole, and are healing.
Understanding your codependent impulses, connecting to reality, and soothing your fawn response make this possible for you.
I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident, even after 10 years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…
I was missing the essential steps of understanding what my codependency was trying to get me in my life and soothing the fawning response so I could connect with my own healthy aggression.
I found confidence, peace, and power I never knew when I discovered this essential piece of healing.
Understanding the actual cause of codependency helps you understand why it is happening, and allows you to intervene and reprogram that cause through body-based soothing practices, so the impulse for codependent behaviors is reduced and eventually replaced with confidence and inward security.
Codependency depends on fantasy to survive. Your health, happiness, and well-being depend on reality to thrive.
I gently, softly guide you through identifying your fantasies, identify reality, and begin trusting and integrating that experience.
We often feel powerless when we’re in our codependent impulses. This is because power has been given to those outside of ourselves.
To heal, we must reclaim our personal space and autonomy so we can access our power.
In this training, I guide you in discovering and embodying your 2 Rights and tapping into what your REAL power and responsibility are.
Much of codependency is an attempt to try to feel valuable, worthy, and lovable. This seeking of worth outside yourself leaves you exposed to painful rejection, manipulation, and love-bombing.
This training guides you into experiencing your real worth and inspiring the natural, inward love you have for yourself to come alive. This deepens your safety and freedom from abuse, love-bombing, and manipulation.
Codependency has had you enmeshing and blending with other people. This has caused you to lose contact with your own sense of self. This leaves you struggling to know what you really want, like, need, hear your own voice and wisdom, and worth.
This training gives you the essential skill and practice to help you distinguish yourself from others and start to really know yourself and hear yourself. This deepens your sovereignty, safety, power, and well-being.
You likely didn’t grow up learning how to discern healthy and unhealthy people, nor how to identify trustworthy and available individuals. You likely learned the “take a leap and hope it works out” method.
This training guides you in detecting trustworthy people based on eight specific behaviors, giving you the power to detect safe people and unsafe people.
Codependency seeks connection through people-pleasing, perfectionism, and avoiding conflict. This leaves you trying to force things to work with people who are likely not really compatible with you.
This trainings gives you my 3-step model for detecting COMPATIBLE people where connection can happen organically and naturally. This eliminates the frustration and mystery around finding quality friends, employment, clients, and romantic partners. You can even use it on material items!
Get your questions answered and get support at the end of each training during the live Q&A period.
Get support, answers, and guidance from Marshall throughout your healing journey via email.
Get support, guidance, and celebration from fellow students and Marshall in the exclusive Student Community. You are not doing this work alone!
This 8-week course takes you through discovering your emotional needs, knowing and understanding them, and then nurturing them. This helps heal deep loneliness, emptiness, and a sense of disconnection and emotional isolation.
This library of over 40+ tools and meditations will assist you in deepening your peace, freedom, and well-being post-codependency.
This mystery bonus adds for additional trainings to take your healing deeper!
There are Prerequisites to attend this course:
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.