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Experience Real Peace and Freedom...

… Even if therapy or self-help as failed you in the past.

With the right knowledge, practices, and support,  real peace and freedom become your new normal.

Live Classes start Sunday, March 12, 2023.  Click below to get your seat!

Many codependents struggle to see results in their efforts to heal, especially in therapy and self-help.  They blame themselves for it, concluding they’re not doing enough, trying hard enough, or just dont’ deserve to heal.

If this is you, you need to hear this…

It is a knowledge problem and an experience gap.

 
It is not, and never has been, a YOU problem.
I’ve personally experienced the painful, often discouraging, struggle of getting real freedom from my codependent impulses of people-pleasing, rescuing, perfectionism, and playing the martyr.
 
I’ve also worked with over 700 codependents who faced the same struggle.  You, I and them all faced the same aggravating, heart-breaking problem: getting pulled back into our codependent impulses despite all the work we’ve done.
 
Here’s what I discovered:

Therapy had been addressing the symptoms, not the cause, of my codependency.

Most therapists, coaches, mentors, and codependents think that codependency is what needs to be healed, stopped, transcended, etc. .

Reality is this:

Codependency is a result of what you’ve been through, not who you are.  It is the SYMPTOM.

What you’ve been through has trained your body and brain to respond to relationships with people, places and things with a specific dominant reaction.

This dominant reaction is called “Fawning.”

This is the cause of codependency.

What is fawning?

It is the impulse to please another or appease them so you can feel safe, feel connection, and even have a sense of identity.

It shows up as:

  • Intense feelings of affection towards people after they stop hurting you
  • A sensation of getting small and submissive in response to someone’s attention or action towards you
  • An impulse to please, appease, or regulate them emotionally so you feel safer and lovable
  • A sense of connection when they approve of you or you make them feel good
 

To end your codependency, you must have the right knowledge and practices that give you the experiences that make the change real.

This is what I help codependents do.

I want to help you experience real, lasting peace...

And more joy, peace, and safety being you...

Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another

I’ve learned over the past 14 years of healing my own codependency what is required to find relief and begin experiencing the peace, freedom, and well-being we are each naturally worthy of having. This is what I aim to help you begin to experience through…

I have three intentions for you when you join the Essential Codependency Healing Trainings:

1) That you begin to experience more peace, more clarity, and more sanity
 
2) That you begin to feel real power in being able to build a future you like and want to live
 
3) That you begin to feel and experience more love and trust in yourself

I want you to leave these trainings experiencing the reality that you are worthy, whole, and are healing.

Because, when you don't experience that peace and healing can happen for you...

You lapse back into people-pleasing

You seek out familiar kinds of relationships

Repeat old wounds and traumas

Condemn yourself and lose faith in yourself

Turn away healthy friendships and relationship opportunities

Suffer in isolation and loneliness

You can feel confident, safe, and at peace without codependency.

Understanding your codependent impulses, connecting to reality, and soothing your fawn response make this possible for you.

I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident, even after 10 years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…

I was missing the essential steps of understanding what my codependency was trying to get me in my life and soothing the fawning response so I could connect with my own healthy aggression.

I found confidence, peace, and power I never knew when I discovered this essential piece of healing.

I am excited to help you to experience the same.  Quickly.

Come Join The Adventure Of Discovering Life Beyond Codependency

Heal And Creating More Peace And Well-Being At The Same Time

I will guide you in making that your reality through these 8 essenital trainings:

THE 8 ESSENTIAL TRAININGS

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TRAINING ONE: UNDERSTAND THE CAUSE, SOOTHE THE CAUSE

Understanding the actual cause of codependency helps you understand why it is happening, and allows you to intervene and reprogram that cause through body-based soothing practices, so the impulse for codependent behaviors is reduced and eventually replaced with confidence and inward security.

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TRAINING TWO: RESTORE YOUR SANITY AND REALITY

Codependency depends on fantasy to survive. Your health, happiness, and well-being depend on reality to thrive.

I gently, softly guide you through identifying your fantasies, identify reality, and begin trusting and integrating that experience.

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TRAINING THREE: EMBRACE YOUR PERSONAL POWER

We often feel powerless when we’re in our codependent impulses. This is because power has been given to those outside of ourselves.

To heal, we must reclaim our personal space and autonomy so we can access our power.

In this training, I guide you in discovering and embodying your 2 Rights and tapping into what your REAL power and responsibility are.

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TRAINING FOUR: TRUST YOURSELF AGAIN

Distrust is learned.  It was taught to you by the reactions and gaslighting you received from those you trusted and relied on.
 
Healing distrust is central to restoring your safety, sanity, and your personhood.  I teach you how to nurture trust within yourself quickly, gently, and deeply in this training.
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TRAINING FIVE: LOVE YOURSELF AGAIN

Much of codependency is an attempt to try to feel valuable, worthy, and lovable. This seeking of worth outside yourself leaves you exposed to painful rejection, manipulation, and love-bombing.

This training guides you into experiencing your real worth and inspiring the natural, inward love you have for yourself to come alive.  This deepens your safety and freedom from abuse, love-bombing, and manipulation.

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TRAINING SIX: KNOW YOURSELF AGAIN

Codependency has had you enmeshing and blending with other people.  This has caused you to lose contact with your own sense of self.  This leaves you struggling to know what you really want, like, need, hear your own voice and wisdom, and worth.

This training gives you the essential skill and practice to help you distinguish yourself from others and start to really know yourself and hear yourself.  This deepens your sovereignty, safety, power, and well-being.

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TRAINING SEVEN: PICK SAFE PEOPLE

You likely didn’t grow up learning how to discern healthy and unhealthy people, nor how to identify trustworthy and available individuals.  You likely learned the “take a leap and hope it works out” method.

This training guides you in detecting trustworthy people based on eight specific behaviors, giving you the power to detect safe people and unsafe people.

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TRAINING EIGHT: BUILD REAL CONNECTION

Codependency seeks connection through people-pleasing, perfectionism, and avoiding conflict.  This leaves you trying to force things to work with people who are likely not really compatible with you.

This trainings gives you my 3-step model for detecting COMPATIBLE people where connection can happen organically and naturally.  This eliminates the frustration and mystery around finding quality friends, employment, clients, and romantic partners.  You can even use it on material items!

SUPPORT AND GUIDANCE INCLUDED

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LIVE IN-CLASS Q&A

Get your questions answered and get support at the end of each training during the live Q&A period.

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UNLIMITED EMAIL SUPPORT

Get support, answers, and guidance from Marshall throughout your healing journey via email.

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ONLINE STUDENT COMMUNITY SUPPORT

Get support, guidance, and celebration from fellow students and Marshall in the exclusive Student Community.  You are not doing this work alone!

BONUSES THAT AMPLIFY YOUR PEACE

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NURTURE ($497 value)

This 8-week course takes you through discovering your emotional needs, knowing and understanding them, and then nurturing them.  This helps heal deep loneliness, emptiness, and a sense of disconnection and emotional isolation.

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THE CODEPENDENCY HEALING TOOLS LIBRARY ($197 value)

This library of over 40+ tools and meditations will assist you in deepening your peace, freedom, and well-being post-codependency.

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MYSTERY BONUS!

This mystery bonus adds for additional trainings to take your healing deeper!

COURSE DETAILS

LIVE CLASS DATES AND TIMES

    • Live Class Start Date: Sunday, March 12, 2023, through May 7, 2023
    • Class Time: Sundays, 12pm Mountain Time
    • Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
    • Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
    • Course Length: 8 total modules. Go at your own pace in taking each module
    • Unlimited, Life-time Access: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 and never expire
    • You do not have to attend the live classes to succeed!
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COURSE FEATURES

    • Includes PDF guides and MP3 recordings of tools and classes
    • Unlimited access to class recordings and to live classes when taught
    • Unlimited support via email and the online student support community
    • You do not have to attend the live classes to succeed!
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COURSE PREREQUISITIES

There are Prerequisites to attend this course:

  • Must be in therapy or seeking a trauma therapist or be willing to find one if advised
  • Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

ENROLL BELOW!

LIFETIME
ACCESS

$1488
$ 149 Lifetime Access
  • The 8 Essential Trainings ($497)
  • BONUS: Decoding Your Codependency ($297 value)
  • BONUS: Nurturing Your Needs ($497 value)
  • The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
  • Complete Guide With All Practices And Tools
  • Unlimited Access To The Live And Recorded Classes
  • Video & MP3 Versions Included

REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.