Ready To Experience Clarity, Relief, And Actual Change Regarding Your Codependency?
If you’re currently in therapy, you can experience real, lasting healing and relief.
If you want to end the constant fawning, people-pleasing, and sense of helplessness, I can help.
Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You
Ready To Experience Clarity, Relief, And Actual Change Regarding Your Codependency?
If you’re currently in therapy, you can experience real, lasting healing and relief.
If you want to end the constant fawning, people-pleasing, and sense of helplessness, I can help.
Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You
For Survivors Who’ve Been Struggling To Get Free Of Codependency’s Grip, Who Have Been Stuck In Therapy, Or Feeling Defeated In Their Efforts…
You need to hear this…
You’re efforts have mattered, even if you feel you’ve failed.
You’re not stupid or inept. You’re brilliant.
And you’re not even the problem.
We Were Not Being Guided To The Root Cause Of Their Codependency…
Most therapists, coaches, mentors, and codependents think that codependency is what needs to be healed, stopped, transcended, etc. .
Reality is this:
Codependency is a result of what you’ve been through, not who you are.
And what you’ve been through has trained your body and brain to respond to relationships with people, places and things with a specific dominant reaction.
This dominant reaction is called “Fawning.”
This is the cause of codependency.
What is fawning?
It is the impulse to please another or appease them so you can feel safe, feel connection, and even have a sense of identity.
It shows up as:
- Intense feelings of affection towards peo ple after they stop hurting you
- A sensation of getting small and submissive in response to someone’s attention or action towards you
- An impulse to please, appease, or regulate them emotionally so you feel safer and lovable
- A sense of connection when they approve of you or you make then feel good
To end your codependency, you must soothe your fawn response and get reconnected to reality and your personal power.
This is what I help codependents do.
I want to help you experience real, lasting relief from your codependency...
And experience more joy, peace, and safety being you...
Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another
I’ve learned over the past 14 years of healing my own codependency what is required to find relief and begin experiencing the peace, freedom, and well-being we are each naturally worthy of having. This is what I aim to help you begin to experience through…
THE HEALING CODEPENDENCY ESSENTIAL TRAININGS
Students share that they feel more clear about their codependent impulses, are able to shift to interdependent options, feel more free from fawning, and more powerful in their own body and personhood.
My students follow a specific approach that gently guides them in understanding their codependent impulses, the needs that drive those impulses, and how to fulfill them while disengaging the fawning impulse that activates their codependency.
This approach utilizes a “bit-by-bit” technique that helps the mind, body, and nervous system adapt to the changes happening in their lives.
This approach targets core areas of one’s life and persona that were attacked and harmed through the abuse and neglect they experienced, including:
- Their experience of what is real
- Their sense of personal power and legitimacy
- Their limits and boundaries
Self-doubt, distrust of self, and the codependent behaviors of people-pleasing, fawning, playing small, and being invisible end – naturally.
All by soothing the fawn response and reconnecting to reality and personal power.
In this 4-module training, you are gently guided through decoding your codependency, connecting with reality, soothing your fawn response (aka people-pleasing impulse), and taking back your personal power and authority.
You aren’t doing this alone, either. You and your fellow survivors aid and support each other in shifting into one’s own advocacy and healing aggression.
This is what we do in The Healing Codependency Essential Trainings.
I Have Two Intentions For You When You Join The Healing Codependency Essential Trainings:
My desire is that you experience the healing power connecting to your healthy, assertive self.
Because, when you don't...
You lapse back into people-pleasing
You seek out familiar kinds of relationships
Repeat old wounds and traumas
Condemn yourself and lose faith in yourself
Turn away healthy friendships and relationship opportunities
Suffer in isolation and loneliness
You can feel confident, safe, and at peace being the person you are.
I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident, even after 10 years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…
I was missing the essential steps of understanding what my codependency was trying to get me in my life and soothing the fawning response so I could connect with my own healthy aggression.
I found confidence, peace, and power I never knew when I discovered this essential piece of healing.
Teaching this is one of my most favorite activities I do.
Because it creates change so quickly and deeply for survivors like you and I.
Join the 700+ students who have experienced my trainings and experience for yourself more freedom, peace, and care.
Come Join Us In This Adventure Discovering Who We Are Beyond Codependency
Experience Who You Are Without Fawning
Here's how I will guide you in making that your reality:
TRAINING ONE: UNDERSTAND YOUR CODEPENDENT IMPULSES
Codependency is our best attempt at meeting our core needs.
Understanding how your need to please, fix, control, avoid conflict, blend in, be small, or be perfect connects to your needs for safety, connection, and identity will help you see better ways to get those needs met.
I guide you through identifying these impulses, what needs they are addressing, and map out new, healthy alternative actions and behaviors to use.
TRAINING TWO: END THE FANTASY, CONNECT WITH REALITY
Codependency depends on fantasy to survive. OUr health, happiness, and well-being depend on reality to thrive.
I gently, softly guide you through identifying your fantasies, identify reality, and begin trusting and integrating that experience.
TRAINING THREE: SOOTHE THE FAWN RESPONSE
The impulse to please, to shower love on an abuser that stopped harming you for a moment, and the feeling of responsibility for their pain are all signals of fawning.
Fawning is trying to protect you. It believes you are unsafe with this person (or many persons), so it seeks to create safety for you through pleasing and appeasing others.
We soothe this impulse through nervous system care, euphoria breaking, and reconnecting to our inward safety spaces.
I guide you through this powerful series of practices, helping you experience who you are beyond the fawn response.
TRAINING FOUR: TAKE BACK YOUR PERSONHOOD
THE TRAINING DETAILS:
The Training Details:
- NEXT LIVE CLASS DATES: August 15, 2022 through September 19th, 2022
- RECORDED CLASSES: Immediately available once recorded
- Day and Time: Mondays @ 11am and 6pm Mountain Time (Boise Idaho, USA)
- Length: 4 Modules taught over 4+ weeks (2 hours per module; one module per week)
- Each module includes a 2-hour training & weekly practices for homework
- Weekly practices take around 20 minutes on average a day
- Classes are provided in video and audio (mp3) format
- NEXT LIVE CLASS DATES: August 15, 2022 through September 19th, 2022
The Training Outline:
Module One:
Topic: Decoding Your Codependency & Mapping New Responses
Module Two:
Topic: Identifying Your Fantasies And Connecting To Reality
Module Three:
Topic: Soothing The Fawn Response
Module Four:
Topic: Taking Back Your Power
WHO THIS IS FOR
This Course Is Designed For Individuals That:
- Identify with being a codependent
- That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
- That doubt their feelings and senses
- That wonder what is real
- That feel unreal or invisible
- That are struggling to get process in their own therapy and healing
- That are seeking more peace, freedom, and happiness
- That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
- That want themselves back
There are Pre-requesites To Attend This Course:
- Must be in therapy or seeking a trauma therapist
- Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
IF THIS IS YOU, ENROLL BELOW:
LIFETIME ACCESS
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TRAINING ONE: UNDERSTAND YOUR CODEPENDENT IMPULSES
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TRAINING TWO: END THE FANTASY, CONNECT WITH REALITY
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TRAINING THREE: SOOTHE THE FAWN RESPONSE
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TRAINING FOUR: TAKE BACK YOUR POWER
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FFC Workshop: The 4 Essential Concepts & Practices Training
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RapidHEAL Healing Guides ($197 value)
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Complete Guide With All Practices And Tools
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Video & MP3 Versions Included
AND INCLUDES THESE COURSES FOR DEEPER HEALING:
NURTURE: Helps You Identify And Nurture Your Needs ($497)
HEAL: Guides You In Healing The Impact Of Abusive Relationships ($997)
THRIVE Strategy™: Trainings On Relationship, Mental, and Emotional Skills ($997)
ALL FOR:
REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
REAL PEOPLE SHARING THEIR JOURNEY
WHO IS MARSHALL?
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.