If you’re ready to end people-pleasing, proving your worth, and seeking approval to feel lovable, I can help.
Marshall Burtcher – Your Guide Back To Knowing, Loving, and Being Who You Are
Are You A Codependent Who’s Been Struggling To:
Do You Believe It Is YOU That Is The Problem?
I felt the same way. I believed I was doomed to suffer, be alone, and live with the crippling loneliness, emptiness, and sadness.
I was wrong. Very wrong. Here’s why:
I learned after a lot of trial and error that three things were happening:
This started with having accurate knowledge about what was actually happening versus what others claimed was happening.
What most people are taught when it comes to codependency:
Does this sound familiar?
If so, you’re not alone. I believed this was the truth for DECADES.
Then, out of desperation and a bit of rebellion, I dared to question those claims.
“What if codependency was my strategy for surviving the chaos of abuse and neglect?
they were feeling and thinking what they were feeling and thinking, clarity came.
From clarity came hope.
From that hope came real change.
Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another.
I’ve developed a specific strategy from my own lived experience with codependency (from narcissistic abuse & parental neglect) that has helped over 700+ recovering codependents create healthy relationships, friendships, businesses, peace and rest in their lives.
Students experience long-term well-being, happiness, new romance, marriage, better jobs, and more satisfaction – all because they had the right tools, the right support, and the right knowledge at the right time.
They followed a specific set of trainings that led them through restoring self-trust, taking back their personhood, discovering who they are, and building healthy, compatible relationships.
This approach targets core areas of one’s life and persona that were attacked and harmed through the abuse and neglect they experienced, including:
The codependent impulses of people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, controlling outcomes, being a perfectionist, feeling on edge and “walking on eggshells” are transformed into peace, confidence, clarity, and love of Self.
All through having the right knowledge, the right tools, the right support, at the right time.
The System Creates:
The Right Tools & Practices Through:
The Right Support Through:
The Right Time Through:
I Have Two Intentions For You When You Join The Codependency Healing System:
My desire for you is to experience a happier life without having to resort to codependency to get love, get success, or to belong.
I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident in myself, even after years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…
Once I learned what I teach in the Codependency Healing System, I no longer needed to be codependent.
Teaching this is one of my most favorite activities I do.
Because it creates change so quickly and deeply for survivors like you and I.
Join the 700+ students who have experienced my trainings and experience for yourself more freedom, peace, and care.
The nausea, the pounding heart, the sense of panic and distress, the gutting sensation – these are all results of what I call “attachment distress”.
This distress results from having your sense of connection and access to the other person threatened or actually severed.
This leaves you feeling shattered, lost, emptied, and frozen.
I guide you through warming, thawing, and then healing this distress using specific practices, including:
This liberates you from the grip of the trauma bond and the core codependency survival response called “Freeze-Fawn”.
Codependency emerges when we don’t have a solid sense of real Self.
This step helps you discover who you are through understanding your:
I help you achieve this through very specific practices, including:
This is how you come to know, love, and live who you really are.
This is where you graduate from codependency and build interdependency in healthy, compatible, happy relationships of any kind (friendship, romantic, and so forth).
I help you achieve this by teaching you how to:
This is how you come to experience relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued.
Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings.
Live Mentoring Hours includes:
*Guaranteed for a minimum of 12 months
Do course homework in the warmth and presence of others students and Marshall.
This allows you to ask questions, share homework with others, and enjoy companionship.
Homework Hours details:
Taking the leap on your own healing is scary. I know it was for me. What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.
I provide you with this support through:
In my early days of healing, I was seeking the quick-fix, the magic bullet, the 6-week-and-I’m-healed solution.
I spent 6 years of my life chasing that fantasy and over 10K in courses.
Only to discover that this was part of my codependency. I was avoiding the real work of feeling into my reality, knowing myself, and becoming loving to myself.
Instead, I was treating myself like an object. I wasn’t healing because I cared about myself. I was healing so I could get love, be perfect, and get the outcomes that would make me feel worthy.
The real healing started when I stopped running from my pain and turned towards the work through sincere dedication to knowing, loving, and being myself.
This is when I gave up my concern about how much time it would take to heal and began treating my healing as a lifestyle.
This is where the magic started happening for me. As I did the work, I discovered the healing I’d been seeking.
You will be discovering who you are for the rest of your life.
The Codependency Healing System Is Designed For Individuals That:
There are Pre-requesites To Join The System:
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.