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Ready For Lasting Freedom From The Grip Of Self-Doubt, Shame, & Codependency?

And if you’re currently in therapy, you can experience deep, lasting relief right now.

If you want to break free of people-pleasing, paralyzing self-doubt, and feeling lost, I can help.

Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You

Being happy again (or for the first time!) is not only possible, it is PROBABLE when you have the right:

  • Knowledge
  • Tools & Practices That Put That Knowledge To Use
  • Support To Handle The Journey

 

This is what the Happiness After Codependency Membership creates for you.

For Survivors Who’ve Been Struggling To Get Free Of Codependency’s Grip, Who Have Been Stuck In Therapy, Or Feeling Defeated In Their Efforts…

It Isn’t You.

Its…

The Wrong Knowledge At The Wrong Time

The Wrong Tools And Practices Being Applied To The Challenges You Face

The Wrong Kind Of Support For What You Face

Self-Trust Is About Reconnection With Your Inner Self & Your Innate Realness And Validity

I saw and experienced this in my own journey out of being trauma-bonded and drowning in codependent hopelessness.
 
I saw it in my friends, family, and my first clients and students.
 
I also saw what was working…

It started with having accurate knowledge about what was happening to them and what they were going through.

When they understood why they were feeling and thinking what they were feeling and thinking, clarity came. 

From clarity came hope.

From that hope came real change.

Lasting healing depends on having the right knowledge, the right tools, and the right support at the right time.

This means you are given structured, focused work and practices that address what is really happening emotionally, mentally, and psychologically.

This means you have safe shelter where you are seen, heard, and valued.

This means you are assisted in the journey of when and how to do what is best for you in that moment.

Basically, you are no longer going at this alone.  You are following a proven path with active support, input, and care.

This is what it takes to thrive beyond codependency.

And I provide all this through the “Happiness After Codependency Membership”.

I want to help you experience real, lasting relief from your codependency...

And more peace, clarity, and confidence in being who you are...

Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another

I’ve developed a specific strategy from my own lived experience with codependency (from narcissistic abuse & parental neglect) that has helped over 700+ recovering codependents experience confidence and safety being who they are.  I believe you will experience the same…

INTRODUCING THE HAPPINESS AFTER CODEPENDENCY MEMBERSHIP

Survivors experience long-term well-being, happiness, new romance, marriage, better jobs, and more satisfaction – all because they had the right tools, the right support, and the right knowledge at the right time.

They followed a specific set of trainings that led them through restoring self-trust, taking back their personhood, discovering who they are, and building healthy, compatible relationships.

This approach targets core areas of one’s life and persona that were attacked and harmed through the abuse and neglect they experienced, including:

    • Their experience of what is real
    • Their emotional validity
    • Their senses and personal awareness
    • Their gut and intuition
    • Their sense of personal power and legitimacy
    • Their limits and boundaries
    • Their personhood and sense of identity
    • Their self-worth and value

 

The codependent impulses of people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, controlling outcomes, being a perfectionist, feeling on edge and “walking on eggshells” are transformed into peace, confidence, clarity, and love of Self.

All through having the right knowledge, the right tools, the right support, at the right time.

The Membership Creates:

The Right Knowledge Through:
 
  • 4 in-depth courses focused on restoring Self-Trust, Healing the Trauma Bond, Discovering Yourself, And Creating Happy Relationships (of all types)
  • Additional Supporting Courses to help meet needs, discovery nervous system soothing and care, and build relationship skills
 

The Right Tools & Practices Through:

  • Somatic Tools for soothing distress, pain, and anxiety
  • Meditative tools for tuning into yourself so you can hear and know your own voice and value
  • Practical exercises that help you get used to living from confidence
  • Specialized trainings that help you apply specific skills that improve your life and happiness

The Right Support Through:

  • Twice-A-Week Live Support Groups
  • Twice-A-Week Homework/Study Hall Groups
  • Online and Email support

The Right Time Through:

  • Personalized guidance on what to study and practice and when
  • Clear structure and order between courses so it is easier to grow, explore and succeed

I Have Two Intentions For You When You Join The Happiness After Codependency Membership:

1) That you experience the power of having active support in your journey
 
AND
 
2) You experience real change in your personal daily life as you learn the knowledge and apply it to your life through the proven practices that put that knowledge to work for you

My desire is that you experience your happiness and well-being without having to be codependent.

Because, when you don't know how to care for your needs, your emotions, or how to safely be yourself...

You lapse back into people-pleasing

You seek out familiar kinds of relationships

Repeat old wounds and traumas

Condemn yourself and lose faith in yourself

Turn away healthy friendships and relationship opportunities

Suffer in isolation and loneliness

You can be free to be yourself.
 
You can feel confident, safe, and at peace being the person you are.
 
All you need is the right knowledge, the right tools, and the right support, at the right time.

I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident, even after 10 years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…

Once I learned what I teach in the Membership, I no longer needed to be codependent. 

My self-trust as allowed me to experience resilient peace, confidence, and freedom of being myself. 
 
My nervous system’s soothing allowed me to face discomfort and take risks that brought me more happiness
 
The love and like I have for myself allowed me to feel the freedom of being myself without significant concern about what others thought.

Teaching this is one of my most favorite activities I do.

Because it creates change so quickly and deeply for survivors like you and I.

Join the 700+ students who have experienced my trainings and experience for yourself more freedom, peace, and care.

Come Join Us In This Adventure

Experience The Power Being Really YOU

Here's what The Happiness After Codependency Membership Gets You:

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STEP ONE: GENTLE WARMING OF SELF-TRUST

Codependency tends to compel a person to jump in 100%.  This comes from the all-or-nothing, black-or-white binary thinking that trauma activates in the brain (btw, this isn’t a bad thing. It’s kept you alive!).

This often shows up as, “I’m gonna totally trust myself 100% now!” or “I’m gonna totally accept myself 100% now”.

This habit is one of the first major roadblocks to experiencing lasting freedom.

I get you around this through a my approach called, “Bit-by-Bit”. 

The “Bit-by-Bit” Approach helps you gently experience new things in small quantities.  This makes it safer for your nervous system and your body, and results in deeper, faster shifts than you’d otherwise experience.

This applies deeply to building self-trust.

Right now, it is likely that trusting yourself feels unsafe, scary, and even painful.  This is warranted and reasonable to feel.  Your dominant experience of trusting yourself has resulted in being harmed, gaslit, abandoned, rejected, and more.

Healing your relationship with self-trust must go gently, slowly, and at YOUR pace.

I help you do this through:

  • Guided mp3 practices with the Bit-by-Bit Approach built in
  • Single-focused practices for each module so you only focus on one thing at a time
  • Gentle go-at-your-pace trainings and course design

 

I use these principles to guide you in experiencing trust in 6 core aspects of your life:

  • Trust in the legitimacy of your awareness
  • Trust in the validity of your senses
  • Trust in the legitimacy of your emotions
  • Trust in the validity of your perceptions and experience
  • Trust in the authenticity of your capacities and limits (aka boundaries)
  • Trust in the goodness and validity of your needs and wants
  • Trust in your Personal Power, choice, and action
  • Trust in your intuition, sense of things, and hunches

 

Students and clients leave this step feeling deeply clear and confident in the legitimacy and veracity of their lived experience and awareness.  Say goodbye to feeling crazy, confused, foggy, and uncertain.

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STEP TWO: HEALING THE TRAUMA BOND

When one does not believe the legitimacy and realness of their wholeness and completeness, they feel:

  • Unreal
  • Empty
  • Numb
  • Lost
  • Confused
  • Isolated
  • Broken
  • Unworthy
 

Restoring one’s self-trust is dependent on one coming to understand, care for, and nurture their emotional reality.

I lead my students into loving care for their lived experiences and emotional reality through helping them trust again in their Natural Completeness (aka the wholeness that is our natural state of being).

This allows you to move deeper in self-trust and further out of self-doubt, distrust, and being dependent on the other for your sense of reality, safety, and legitimacy.

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STEP THREE: DISCOVERY OF WHO YOU ARE

Self-trust is deepened through a two practices:

  • Legitimacy Amplification
  • Integral Behavior

These two practices guide the student in rooting their sense of self in Self-Trust and then aligning their choices and actions with the wisdom they become aware of.

An example:  Student becomes aware that they need to say no to someone’s request.  They apply trust to their sense of No, leaning into trusting their sense more than the other person’s perspective or reaction.  They then do the action of saying no and receive the outcome, trusting further that their choice is best regardless of what happened.

These two practices are applied to:

  • One’s capacities and limits (aka boundaries)
  • One’s Personal Power (choice and action)
  • One’s wants and needs
  • One’s reactions and responses to their experiences
  • One’s intuitions and hunches
  • One’s inspirations and desires

Students experience deep, concrete confidence in their personal beingness as they witness the long-term powerful results of joy, well-being, peace, and prosperity that result from Self-Trust.

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STEP FOUR: CREATE HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS

Self-trust is deepened through a two practices:

  • Legitimacy Amplification
  • Integral Behavior

These two practices guide the student in rooting their sense of self in Self-Trust and then aligning their choices and actions with the wisdom they become aware of.

An example:  Student becomes aware that they need to say no to someone’s request.  They apply trust to their sense of No, leaning into trusting their sense more than the other person’s perspective or reaction.  They then do the action of saying no and receive the outcome, trusting further that their choice is best regardless of what happened.

These two practices are applied to:

  • One’s capacities and limits (aka boundaries)
  • One’s Personal Power (choice and action)
  • One’s wants and needs
  • One’s reactions and responses to their experiences
  • One’s intuitions and hunches
  • One’s inspirations and desires

Students experience deep, concrete confidence in their personal beingness as they witness the long-term powerful results of joy, well-being, peace, and prosperity that result from Self-Trust.

THE MEMBERSHIP DETAILS

Investment Details:

    • Monthly Enrollment:  $97 a month;  $47.00 a month hardship option available
    • Yearly Enrollment: $897 a year
    • Unlimited Enrollment: $2000.00 once.  Gets you access to ALL my courses past, present, and future

What You Get Access To:

    • All Members Get: The Self-Trust Course, The Heal Yourself Strategy,
    • Yearly Enrollment: $897 a year
    • Unlimited Enrollment: $2000.00 once.  Gets you access to ALL my courses past, present, and future

The Course Modules

This course comes in two sections; this allows the student to effectively pace their own growth and healing while also being guided by Marshall.

 

SECTION ONE: FOUNDATIONS

Module One:
Topic: Origins Of Your Self-Doubt & Codependency

Module Two:
Topic: Warming Up To Self-Trust

Module Three:
Topic: Cultivating Self-trust in Your Self-Awareness

Module Four:
Topic: Cultivating Self-trust in Your Capacities And Boundaries

Module Five:
Topic: Cultivating Self-trust in Your Senses & Sensations

Module Six:
Topic: Cultivating Self-trust in Your Emotions & Reactions

Module Seven:
Topic: Cultivating Self-trust in Your Perceptions & Lived Experience

Module Eight:
Topic: Integration Of Discoveries

 

SECTION TWO: ADVANCED APPLICATION OF SELF-TRUST

Module One:
Topic: Self-Trust In Your Personal Power & Responsibility

Module Two:
Topic: Self-trust In Your Needs & Wants

Module Three:
Topic: Self-trust In Your Personal Sovereignty & Being

Module Four:
Topic: Self-trust In Your Natural Rhythm & Pace

Module Five:
Topic:  Self-trust In Your Intuition & Self-sense

Module Six:
Topic:  Integration & Next Steps

 

AND INCLUDES UNLIMITED ACCESS TO:

LIVE MENTORING HOURS™ ($4999/yr)

UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK LIVE SUPPORT CALLED, "LIVE MENTORING HOURS"

Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings. 

Live Mentoring Hours includes:

    • Access to the Live Mentoring Hours Vault.  Watch over 2 years worth of custom trainings for past students
    • Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours)  that happen on Tuesdays @6PM MDT and Thursdays @ 11am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
     
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*Guaranteed for a minimum of 12 months

HOMEWORK HOURS™ ($3000/yr)

UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK HOMEWORK SUPPORT

Do course homework in the warmth and presence of others students and Marshall.

This allows you to ask questions, share homework with others, and enjoy companionship.

Homework Hours details:

    • Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours)  that happen on Tuesdays @5PM MDT and Thursdays @ 10am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
     
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*Guaranteed for a minimum of 12 months

LIVE & ON-LINE COMMUNITY (Priceless)

UNLIMITED ACCESS TO THE COMMUNITY

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me.  What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

I provide you with this support through:

  • Weekly check-ins via email on your progress
  • Email support from my staff and I (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of 2500+ survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself
  • Twice-a-week live group support to give you the personal touch you deserve and need in your journey

WHO THIS IS FOR

This Course Is Designed For Individuals That:

  • Identify with being a codependent
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • That are struggling to get process in their own therapy and healing
  • That are seeking more peace, freedom, and happiness
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back

There are Pre-requesites To Attend This Course:

  • Must be in therapy or seeking a trauma therapist
  • Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

IF THIS IS YOU, ENROLL BELOW!

ENROLLMENT IS OPEN

73 out of 75 seats are open.

$750 for new students.

$450 for existing students.

Enrollment closes January 21, 2022 @ 11pm

Live classes start January 17, 2022

Enroll by clicking here:

73 OUT OF 75 SPOTS OPEN

Starts January 17, 2022
$ 750 Lifetime Access
  • The Self-Trust Course
    ($750)
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy ($497)
  • Unlimited Access To All Live & Recorded Editions
  • The 5 Support Courses (HEAL, Thrive Strategy, Reclaiming Innocence, RapidHEAL Guides, NURTURE)
  • Unlimited Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support
  • Unlimited Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support
Live Course

NEW STUDENTS

EXISTING STUDENTS

Only students of The Heal Yourself Strategy™, The Know Yourself Strategy™, And The Relationship Strategy™ qualify for student pricing

ENROLLMENT IS CURRENTLY CLOSED

Enrollment Opens 4 Times A Year.

Check Here For The Current Enrollment Periods: The Course Calendar

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REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

REAL PEOPLE SHARING THEIR JOURNEY

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.