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Stop Trying To Heal Your Codependency & Do This Instead:

Retrain your nervous system and identity so that you end toxic relating cycles, self-abandonment, and reclaim your power, freedom, and peace - in 15 weeks or less

REDUCE DIFFICULTY, INCREASE EASE, ENJOY SUCCESS

Codependency is your nervous system reacting to toxic relationship systems by trying to please, appease, and regulate others.

This reaction was trained into your nervous system, your attachment system, and your identity due to what you’ve been through: the abuse, the neglect, and the harm you’ve endured.
 
This reaction is called “fawning”, and is the core cause of your survival tactics, like seeking approval, self-abandonment, hiding yourself from you and others, people-pleasing, perfectionism, tolerating toxic relationships, and even avoiding our own personal well-being and happiness.
 
It is why speaking up can be so scary, and why saying no comes with such intense guilt or dread.  Your body is trying to protect you from potential harm or neglect.
 
The cycle of unhealthy, narcissistic relationships is rooted in these attempts at protecting yourself.

The only way end codependency, attract healthy partners and friends, and enjoy the freedom to be YOU is to heal the root cause of codependency by restoring your power and authority in your emotional safety, belonging, and self-worth.

AS FEATURED ON...

Hi, I’m Marshall. I Was Hopelessly, Painfully Codependent.

I spent over 10 years desperately seeking a solution that would end my crippling people-pleasing, perfectionism, choosing unavailable partners and set me free to be myself and direct my life my way.
 
I’ve worked with 1000’s of codependents, people-pleasers, and perfectionists that struggled with the same challenge: letting go of the codependency that was hurting my friendships, my relationships, and my life.  I wanted to enjoy love in my relationships, like myself, trust myself, and enjoy my life. 
 
I developed FOUNDATION™: 15 Weeks To Freedom From Codependency first for me, specifically to  transform from the shame-filled, insecure, and scared to be myself version of me to the confident, curious, playful self I always have been. 

And Now I Lead Other Codependents Into Their Freedom, Peace, And Happier Alignment In Their Lives Through My 15-week nervous system and identity retraining process: FOUNDATION™

What is foundation™?

Freedom, Peace, And Less-Stress Relating Are In Your Grasp

FOUNDATION™ is a nervous system and identity retraining system that ends the subconscious need to please, to be perfect, to seek approval, or fixate on others feelings at the cost of your own peace, well-being, and satisfaction.

This is why for me and many of my clients and students, traditional approaches from therapy and other healing systems don’t work. 

The cause of codependency and the problematic patterns it perpetuates exist in the body’s nervous system and self-concept (aka identity). 

The nervous system controls how you react, who you are attracted to, and how you bond. Your identity controls how you speak up for yourself and your needs, what you prioritize in your life, and how you try to earn worth.  You are trapped in the painful cycles of shame, self-abandonment, and tolerance of unhealthy relationships until you know how to switch your nervous system from fear to authority and embody the identity of your true, whole self.

FOUNDATION™ will retrain your body to respond from self-authority instead of self-abandonment

Over 15 weeks, you are guided through specialized processes that restore the essential experiences of safety, belonging, and your aligned identity of real self-worth that was harmed through abuse and neglect, retraining your body to seek safety by choosing itself, speaking up, and to resource it’s worth from within.

Say goodbye to walking on eggshells, questioning your own sanity, or putting up with things that hurt or leave you empty and frustrated.

Say hello to feeling relief, energized, and free in your life. Saying no feels good.  Keeping boundaries is natural.  You are no longer second-guessing yourself.

You’re about to unlock the power of your nervous system & your identity to set you free permanently

WHAT IF I TOLD YOU THAT YOU CAN START FEELING CONFIDENCE & PEACE

WITHOUT years of expensive therapy...

You Can Stop…

  • Seeking external validation to feel safe
  • Feeling unworthy and unlovable
  • Hiding your brilliant, real self
  • Believing the self-defeating thoughts that bring so much doubt and anxiety
  • Overthinking and planning for every possible outcome
  • Feeling too much or not enough
  • Feeling lost as to who you are
  • Feeling blended up and lost in other people and relationships

And Start…

  • Feeling deep trust in yourself
  • Knowing and loving your worth
  • Showing and sharing your gifts, talents, thoughts, and brilliance
  • Believing in your desires, potential, and aspirations
  • Feeling truly lovable as you are
  • Trusting in your skills and capabilities
  • Distinguish yourself from others
  • Know your own feelings and wants
  • Own yourself again

Here's what you can expect from foundation

Done-with-you healing that sets you up for not just immediate relief -- but a foundation for long-term freedom, success, and peace

Relief From Anxiety And Rumination

Say goodbye to coping with the discomfort of anxiety and the busy mind that keeps you re-occupied looking for the next “shoe to drop”

Concrete Self-Confidence And Worth

You’ll stop seeking approval and struggling to love and believe in yourself when you know own your worth and can align with in seconds

Really Like And Love Of Yourself

Instead of trying to love or like yourself, you’ll know how to tap into those feelings and energy and enjoy i

Enjoy Internal Validation & Self-Trust

End the nightmare of self-gaslighting and know how to trust your experience, emotions, and needs and wants without external validation

Boundaries You Keep Because You Like Them

Gone are the days of bypassing your boundaries out of fear, fawning, or “being nice”.  Instead, you value your boundaries, trust them, and enjoy the benefits of peace and care they bring

Freedom And Peace With Yourself

You’ll know how trust yourself, your senses, and follow your own voice and direction

Crystal-Clear Processes And Tactics

No more guessing or wondering what to do when you’re confused, feeling shameful, struggling with anxiety, or caught in a codependent cycle

Community &
Belonging

You aren’t alone in this anymore.  We do the work together, amplifying your success and healing

Weekly Access To Coaching From Marshall

Got questions?  Need feedback?  Looking for guidance?  Join us every Sunday at 11am Mountain Time and get coaching!

GIVe YOURSELF THE TOOLS TO TAKE BACK POWER AND PEACE through...

FOUNDATION™

15 weeks - 3 Focuses - 2 hours A Week

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FOCUS ONE: RESTORE YOUR EMOTIONAL SAFETY IN 5 WEEKS

You'll...

  • Understand how to create a  lasting sense of emotional comfort, safety, and warmth in your body and mind
  • Soothe pain, hurt, fear, anxiety, shame, guilt, and feel sane again quickly and gently
  • Empower emotional peace, relief, confidence, and clarity that lasts
  • Engage life from emotional clarity and confidence easily

Giving You:

  • Real emotional relief from pain that haunts you
  • Comfort, peace, and rest you can trust
  • Peace of mind from the clarity and trust you have in your own perceptions, senses, intuitions, and desires
  • A felt-sense of safety
  • Less anxiousness about what others think about you, more confidence in being yourself
  • More safety speaking up
  • Less anxiety saying no
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FOCUS TWO: RESTORE YOUR SOCIAL BELONGING IN 5 WEEKS

You'll...

  • Understand how to build real belonging with yourself and others, creating a community you can rely on
  • Soothe attachment anxieties, loneliness, fear of rejection, and the discomfort of being alone
  • Empower real friendships, community, and belonging in your daily life so you can play and have support when you need it
  • Engage life through friendships, community, and play again

Giving You:

  • Fun and fulfilling friendships
  • Meaningful and compatible connections in your life
  • A sense of community
  • Romantic opportunities
  • Less loneliness and more belonging
  • More play and enjoyment in what matters to you
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FOCUS THREE: RESTORE YOUR INDEPENDENT SELF-WORTH IN 5 WEEKS

You'll...

  • Understand your actual, real worth and what is false worth
  • Soothe shame, guilt, low self-worth and internalized rejection
  • Empower your real worth and build deep trust in yourself
  • Engage your life by following the intuitive guidance your real worth brings you, creating more of what you desire

Giving You:

  • Relief from feeling worthless
  • Genuine love and like of yourself
  • Freedom from the intense, controlling fear of rejection, criticism, and loss
  • Confidence in yourself, your power, and your capability
  • Easier time getting what you want guilt and shame free
  • Freedom from people-pleasing and approval seeking
  • Relief from perfectionism
  • Access to your creativity, intuition, and desires
  • Your sense of self back

You get LIFETIME ACCESS TO:

COMPREHENSIVE TRAININGS

On-demand & Live Trainings

Each training is available in video and MP3 format for your ease of use. 15 trainings plus 4 bonus trainings are included.

Live classes are taught throughout the year on Sundays.  Check the date in the enrollment section to see when the next training series starts

Specialized Weekly Mastery Practices

Each training comes with a primary practice to use throughout the following week.  Practices take around 5 minutes a day to create lasting healing. Available in written and MP3 format

MP3 & Video Guided Practices & Tools

The practices you’re mastering come with MP3 guided versions to simplify the process and accelerate your healing and success

LIVE COMMUNITY & SUPPORT

WEEKLY LIVE COMMUNITY CALLS WITH MARSHALL

Get guidance, feedback, support, and answers each week from Marshall with our weekly Homework Hours Calls.  These happen on Sundays at 11am Mountain Time.

LIFETIME ACCESS TO THE COMMUNITY

Connect with fellow students and deepen your healing, growth, and mastery of your post-codependent life

MASSIVE LIBRARY OF PROVEN TOOLS & PRACTICES

Find meditations, tools and practices for practically any emotions, pain, or challenge you’re facing in your healing journey. Over 110+ tools available in the searchable library

AND SPECIALIZED BONUSES

THAW THE FREEZE THAT KEEPS YOU NUMB AND FROZEN

Begin to heal the freeze states that keep you frozen and fearful through gentle practices that help your body relax and thaw through this 4-module training. $297 value.

NURTURE BELONGING TO HEAL LONELINESS AND EMPTINESS

Heal loneliness, emptiness, and build warm connections through nurturing your 10 core emotional needs in this 8-module course. $497 value.

PRACTICE SESSIONS To Help You Master Your SKILLS FAST AND EASY

Follow along with pre-recorded practice sessions to see how the tools work, helping you grow your confidence and trust in your use of the skills you’re learning.  $997 value.

WHY FOUNDATION WORKS WHERE OTHER SYSTEMS FAIL

FOUNDATION Targets Codependency At The Root Cause

Your nervous system creates your codependency by switching into “Fawn Mode” when it encounters people, places, or things that overwhelm it’s sense of resourcefulness and safety, or threatens it’s sense of survival, belonging, or self-worth. 

Switching the nervous system’s fawning mode into advocacy and self-authority ends the impulses that drive your codependent behaviors. 

This is achieved through strategic, proven practices that restore safety in the body, soothing anxious thinking, building comfort and peace that you feel, and restoring energy and capacity to take up space and be yourself. 

You won’t need to people-please when you feel safe enough to speak up.  You’ll keep your boundaries when you feel worthy enough to have them.  All of this starts and ends with your nervous system.

FOUNDATION Teaches You Who You Are Beyond Codependency

Identity – who you think you are – is a primary reason you stay stuck in codependency.  “I am codependent” is an identity statement that re-affirms your sense of self, for example.

You must evolve into a new identity that is anchored in real, innate, invulnerable worth if you’re to transcend codependency entirely.

This is achieved through a specialized set of processes that unblend your identity from survival and codependency, and then anchor you in the identity of deep, infinite worth. 

This ends approval seeking, rejection avoidance, perfectionism, and ignites your purpose, intuition, and direction in your life. 

FOUNDATION Provides For Community Development & Support With Weekly Calls

Belonging is core to our ability to thrive in our individual lives.  We need a community and support structure to heal, experiment, and thrive.

Without such a community, we don’t develop our expertise in being ourselves and relating with others.

FOUNDATION leads you through restoring support community by providing weekly support calls AND guides you in generating your own communities for support and play in real life.

This ends loneliness and toleration of isolation and emptiness and brings back to your life a sense of belonging.  This helps end long relapses in codependency.

YOU’RE NOT TAKING A COURSE. 

YOU’RE GETTING RESULTS

You’re Seeking Results, Right?

9 out of 10 FOUNDATION students that consistently practice the processes they learn have reported significant success in:

  • Enjoying healthy, fulfilling relationships
  • Building friendships and deepen existing ones
  • Pursuing their desires in business and in their careers
  • Enjoying their hobbies again and invest in their sense of joy in life again
  • Leaving toxic relationships and discover freedom and peace again
  • Finding love again
  • Reducing their shame and self-doubt so much that they’re no longer hijacked by them
  • Raise their sense of worth so deeply they automatically believe in themselves
  • Finally speaking up for themselves and feel good about it
  • Keeping their boundaries without guilt or even fear
  • Feeling more freedom to be themselves

One out of 10 students require additional support via therapy before seeing results for themselves due to trauma that requires additional care.

YOUR SUCCESS IS INEVITABLE. 

HERE’S HOW

Success Is Yours When You Follow 4 Specific Steps:

Failure and fear of it is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.

There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:

  1. Step One: Watch the class recordings or attend the live trainings
  2. Step Two: Do the practices consistently (2 – 3 times a week, taking on average 20 minutes a week)
  3. Step Three: Get support and answers when you need it in the Student Community or Homework Support Calls
  4. Step Four: Go at your own pace as you have lifetime access to the trainings
 
Trusting these four steps has helped students increase their success 10-fold.

RESULTS FROM EVERY DAY PEOPLE JUST LIKE YOU…

Here’s a few examples of healing and freedom my students have created for themselves

Melanie experienced big relief from shame spirals and big growth in her self-trust and worth, granting her peace of mind, closer friendships, and the emotional confidence to pursue her dreams of travel

Sonia found freedom from the deep wound of “not being enough” and took back her power and worth from abuse and discard, flourishing in her business and personal life

Alex broke free of a tormenting trauma bond that kept him trapped for years, restoring deep peace and confidence in who he is and what he wants

Korinna escaped an abusive relationship, healed, and met the love of her life

GET YOUR MONEY'S WORTH FROM ALL YOUR PAST THERAPY & STUDY!

The Skills You’ve Learned & The Knowledge You’ve Gained Comes Alive When Your Foundation of Safety, Belonging, And Independent Self-worth Is Solid

Does it sometimes feel like you’ve wasted a lot of time and money on therapy and self-help to end up no where better in your life?

This is happening because your body doesn’t feel safe enough to use those skills and that knowledge yet.

Watch yourself, your skills, your growth come alive when your body feels safe enough to express itself and handle what happens.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS…

#1: How Much Time Do I need to do this program?

Around 2 hours per WEEK is the average successful students report

#2: What If I Get Overwhelmed?

This one is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.

There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:

  1. Step One: Watch the class recordings or attend the live trainings
  2. Step Two: Do the practices consistently (2 – 3 times a week, taking on average 20 minutes a week)
  3. Step Three: Get support and answers when you need it in the Student Community or Homework Support Calls
  4. Step Four: Go at your own pace as you have lifetime access to the trainings
 
Trusting these four steps has helped students increase their success by 200%.

#3: What If I’m Different, & Can’t Succeed Because There’s Something That Prevents Me?

This is a common illusion of trauma and neglect.  It is created when we do not see others struggling like ourselves very often or frequently. We tend to conclude that something in us is causing all these painful patterns and experiences.

What I’ve found when I’ve encountered this in myself is that I’m looking for reassurance that I’ll be helped if something doesn’t make sense or work.

This is my commitment to you:  If a tool or concept doesn’t make sense to you or work, reach out and we’ll figure out what is happening. 

You can do that through the weekly support calls I offer or via email.

#4: What If I Do It All & Nothing Changes?

I have seen a few students not make progress.  This happened because of specific factors happening for them, including:

  • Unstable home or work environment that was keeping them feeling unsafe
  • Other conditions that were interfering, such as borderline personality, or massive trauma that was keeping them frozen
  • Needed the personal help of a therapist as they did this work (I always recommend having a therapist with *any* work if at all possible)
 

If these are factors in your life currently, please take time to resource what you need in each of those.  My work and trainings will help in addition to those resources.

#5: Is This A Replacement For Therapy?

This is not a replacement for professional therapy.  It is a supportive structure and process that can amplify the results your therapy efforts.  This program has been taken by and approved by therapists and psychologists.  Feel free to consult with your therapist before joining!

#6: What Kind Of Processes Are Included?

The practices and processes use somatic and cognitive practices to help retrain your body and mind to work in harmony.

#7: “How Do I Know This Is A Good Fit For Me?”

This Is Designed For Individuals That:

  • Identify with being a people-pleaser and seek love through approval
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • Struggle to create healthy relationships, trust, and connection
  • That are seeking to have relationships and friendships that are satisfying
  • That are seeking more purpose and prosperity in their life
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back

There Are Pre-requesites To Join:

  • Consider therapy as a support for any individual challenges that may arise
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

#8: I’ve Got A Concern, Hesitation, Doubt, Or Question Keeping Me From Enrolling, Marshall. How Can I Get Your Input On It?

Click below to email me your question and I’ll get back to you promptly (usually within 24-48 hours).

LET’S ROLE PLAY FOR A MOMENT

Scenario #1: You’ve Got A Conflict You Need To Confont

You know you need to face this.  You need to speak up.  The pain and frustration has gotten loud.
 
But instead of caving into the fear and anxiety and avoiding the conflict, you find yourself feeling more clear, open, and confident than anxious, guilty, or fearful.
 
You notice the anxiety growing and quickly soothe it, taking a deep breathe and focusing on warmth within yourself.
 
A thought of being “too much” crosses your mind.  Instead of feeling shame increase, you pivot to your real worth and feel a calming, anchoring sensation take over.
 
Your mind is clear and you’re ready to handle whatever comes of this confrontation. 
 

What would shift in your life if you experienced conflict this way?

 
FOUNDATION™ will guide you into being this powerful, confident, clear version of yourself.

Scenario #2: Rejection Possibility Ahead!

You’re meeting someone new.  Maybe it’s a date.  Or a job interview.  Or you’re about to ask for a raise at work.
 
Normally, hot discomfort would start to bubble in your stomach or chest days before this meeting.  You’d feel your heart start to pound louder.  You’d start to ruminate on all the possibilities, amplifying your anxiety and insecurity.
 
But this time it is different.  You notice how quickly you intervene with your anxiety and bring soothing to your mind and body. 
 
You notice that you’re feeling a calmness in my belly and relaxation in your chest.  Your sense of worth is anchored within you.  You’re not wondering what it means about you if you get rejected. 
 
Instead, you’re curious about what this will show you about how *they* fit in your life.
 
You notice a sensation of confidence and power growing.  “I have this. This is working for me.”
 
You deserve to experience this kind of confidence and worth consistently in your life.
 
This is who you become when you have emotional safety, belonging, and independent self-worth.

THIS ISN’T ABOUT TAKING A COURSE…

This Is About Creating A New Way Of Living Where You Enjoy The Peace & Freedom That Comes From Being Yourself

What shifts when you consider, just for a moment, that you’re here to learn how to live in a new way that creates the freedom, peace, and relief you’re seeking?

This is a key shift in making *any* work in growing yourself actually *work*.

You see, you’re not enrolling in a course.

You’re enrolling in a process in order to create freedom in your life, relief in your life, healing in your life, love in your life.

That is what makes FOUNDATION™ effective.

It isn’t a course.  It is a paradigm that creates peace, confidence, trust, self-worth, and freedom to be one’s self reliably, consistently, and permanently.

Your role is to practice the skills I teach you, get support when you need it, and enjoy the fruits of your efforts.

REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

ENROLL BELOW

TOTAL VALUE: $7,576

List Price: $1297

EXCLUSIVELY PART OF THE HEAL & GROW SYSTEM

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TOTAL VALUE: $7,576

List Price: $1297

ENROLL FOR $897 or $497 - Which Ever Works With Your Budget

Lifetime Access To:

  • The Live Trainings: The Foundation Trainings (15+ modules) ($1297 value)
  • The On-demand Trainings: 24/7 on-demand access to the recordings ($497 value)
 
Exclusive Bonuses
 
  • The THAW Trainings ($297 value): Begin to thaw the freeze reflex that keeps you procrastinating, paralyzed, and locked in fatigue
  • Weekly Support via Homework Hours ($2997 value): Weekly help and support as you move through the on-demand trainings; happens on Sundays at 11am Mountain Time
  • Nurture ($497 value): Heal the emptiness and loneliness that comes from emotional neglect
  • Practice Sessions Library ($997 value): Practice the skills you’re learning each with with Marshall
  • The BE Calm System ($297 value)
  • The Codependency Healing Meditations & Tools Library ($197 value)
  • Lifetime access to the Student Community ($997 value)

*Payment plans available via Klarna and Affirm on the enrollment page

REDUCED PRICING AVAILABLE

REDUCED PRICING IS AVAILABLE FOR:

  • Single-Parent Households
  • Individuals that make less than 50K a year
  • The spouse or partner control the finances
  • Financial hardship
 
Click below to request reduced pricing.

TAKE CONTROL AND SHAPE YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR PERSONAL SATISFACTION AND JOY

TOTAL VALUE: $36,308

List Price: $7000

Lifetime Access For $2000

This is exclusively for the recovering codependent, people-pleaser, or perfectionist that is hungry to create and enjoy satisfaction, success, and peace in…

… their relationships

… their money and finances

… their life purposes

… their dreams

… their friendships

… daily life

And they want the hands-on, live mentorship, guidance, and support to help them achieve this, keep this, and enjoy this.

COURSE DETAILS

CLASS DETAILS

    • Class Access: Live And On-demand 24/7
    • Course Length: 15 modules
    • Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
    • Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
    • Unlimited, Life-time Access: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 and never expire
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GO AT YOUR OWN PACE

    • 24/7 Access To The Recordings: Watch at anytime, at your own pace. You can watch the video or listen via MP3 
    • Less Than 30 Minutes A Week For The Practices:  The secret to success with my work is doing the practices.  The classes teach you why you do the practice.  Do the practices and you will succeed.
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COURSE FEATURES

    • Includes PDF guides and MP3 recordings of tools and classes
    • Unlimited access to class recordings and to live classes when taught
    • Unlimited support via email and the online student support community
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STUDENT REVIEWS OF MY WORK