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What Will You Do With Your Life When Codependency No Longer Controls You?

Introducing:

The 15-week experience where you end the self-doubt, self-hate, and spark your natural self-love, belonging, and emotional peace

Hi, I’m Marshall. I Was Hopelessly Codependent.

I spent over 10 years seeking a solution that would set me free from anxiety, shame, and self-doubt, that would teach me how to love myself, and would help me build connection and belonging in my life.
 
I’ve also worked with over 1000 codependents who’ve found liberation and peace after decades of codependency.  You, I, and them all faced the same aggravating, heart-breaking cycle of getting our hopes up, having aha’s!, only to find ourselves relapsing in our codependent survival behaviors.
 
After a decade of this painful cycle, I discovered…

Therapy and self-help did not understand what codependency *actually* is.

Most therapists, coaches, mentors, and codependents think that codependency is what needs to be healed, stopped, transcended, etc…

This is false.  Here’s why:

Codependency is the SYMPTOM, not the problem.

What you’ve been through has trained your body and brain to respond to relationships with people, places and things with a specific dominant reaction.

This dominant reaction is called, “fawning.”

What is fawning?

It is the impulse to please another or appease them so you can feel safe, feel connection, and even have a sense of identity.

It shows up as:

  • Intense feelings of affection towards people after they stop hurting you
  • A sensation of getting small and submissive in response to someone’s attention or action towards you
  • An impulse to please, appease, or regulate them emotionally so you feel safer and lovable
  • A sense of connection when they approve of you or you make them feel good
 
To exit codependency, you need a foundation that restores your innate power in:
 
  • Emotional care
  • Social Belonging
  • Independent Self-worth
 
I lead you in tapping into this in-born power and use it to enjoy real belonging, real worth, and real peace in your daily life.

IF YOu'RE NOT EXPERIENCING...​

  • An expanding sense of relief from anxiety on a consistent basis…
  • A growing sense of confidence in your capabilities to care for yourself…
  • A reduction in your emotional pain’s intensity, duration, and frequency…
  • An increasing sense of trust in yourself…
  • A deepening experience of your sovereign worth…
  • A growing physical sense of peace…
  • An increasing feeling of power in your life…
  • More ease in speaking up for yourself…
  • Feeling like you deserve to exist…
  • Understanding your needs and wants and feeling worthy to have them met…

IT ISN'T BECAUSE...

  • You’re unworthy
  • You’re stupid or incapable
  • You’re fated or destined to be this way
  • You’re not allowed or deserving
  • You’re not enough
  • You’re not trying hard enough
  • You have a lesson to learn from all this
  • You’re not lovable or whole
  • You’re missing some secret factor others have
  • There’s something wrong with you or broken in you

The truth is...

  • To feel and enjoy regular peace…
  • To be unburdened from the past and the pain…
  • To enjoy confidence and trust in yourself…
  • To have those loving relationships and friendships you desire…
  • To feel like you belong and are wanted…
  • To know and follow your purpose…
  • To actually love and like yourself…

You need a PROCESS that is built specifically FOR YOU AND WHAT YOU FACE

General therapy and self-help are not enough for codependents, people-pleasers, or perfectionists seeking to actually heal and thrive in their daily lives.

Codependents have specific needs that require a specific, step-by-step process to actually feel worth, feel peace, feel safe. Only when this process is used will a codependent feel safe enough to speak up, keep their boundaries, handle the discomfort of disappointing others, all while keeping themselves.

If You've been stuck in repeating loopS of...

  • Trying this thing and that thing to heal but feeling no different and no change…
  • Buying another book, course, or taking on another coach of therapist and not getting results…
  • Overwhelm at the amount of knowledge you feel you need to learn in order to heal…
  • Being paralyzed by fear of failure or doing the wrong thing…
  • Not knowing what to do, how to do it, and when to do it…

IT IS NOT YOU!

Your success in healing doesn’t depend on how smart you are,  how much knowledge you have, or even your effort.

The fact is, you cannot successfully heal when you do not have the proper knowledge, proper tools, the proper support in the CORRECT order.

You see, healing from codependency requires a specific recipe of knowledge, practices, and support to emerge.

This recipe is designed to generate a sense of safe-enoughness to heal.

This is what my trainings are designed to create.

All The Struggle...

All the pain…

All the shame…

All the sleepless nights…

All the tension and anxiety in the body…

All the constant seeking for answers…

All the trying to do better…

It has all been because you’ve lacked the right knowledge, practices, support, and structure – not worthiness. Not capability.  Not desire.  Not effort.

The resources you’ve turned to for help were not equipped for what you need.  They failed. Not you.

Is it time to give up blaming yourself and, instead, experience the power you have right now to heal and grow and finally leave the insecurity, the shame, the anxiety behind?

You will THRIVE when you have...

  • The knowledge that helps you comprehend what you’ve been through and why your mind and body are doing what they are doing
  • The practices that guide you into power over those reactions, your emotions, your needs and help you generate your own peace, confidence, worth, and power in your life
  • The support that helps you fill in the gaps, adjust the knowledge and practices to your needs, and creates a safe space to grow, experiment, and succeed
  • The proper order of knowledge and practices that helps you feel safer and powerful in your healing and growth

GET REAL TRANSFORMATION IN YOUR SELF-WORTH, PERSONAL POWER, BELONGING, AND EMOTIONAL PEACE

Healing for real starts with having four specific elements in place:

  • Correct knowledge
  • Correct practices
  • Correct support
  • Correct order
 

These four factors generate the necessary safety your therapy and self-help has failed to guide you in generating.

And here’s how you and I create this together…

INTRODUCING....

ENJOY PEACE, BELONGING, AND FREEDOM

End The Repeating Loops That Keep You Hopeless And Frustrated By Mastering The Practices That Result In You Enjoying More Peace, Belonging, And Self-Worth

Master your ability to feel more confidence, more safety, more worth any time, any place

FOUNDATION™ makes this journey gentle, simple, and effective through simple daily practices and instruction you can do anytime

YOU WILL LEARN EXACTLY HOW TO:

  • Soothe and release anxiety quickly
  • Feel into and experience your real worth and your realness as a person
  • Be able to keep your boundaries and follow through on your desires
  • Trust yourself again
  • Soothe your pain, anxiety, shame, guilt, and fear within minutes rather than suffering for hours or days
  • Love yourself and feel that love for yourself naturally
  • Feel safe again with relaxation, peace, and being at rest
  • Start playing again
  • Know your needs and get them met
  • Build healthy, fun communities into your life
  • Release the cage of shame and guilt so you can be yourself more
  • Take up space and own your right to exist
  • Enjoy the freedom of being yourself despite other people’s points of view

REAL RESULTS FROM REAL STUDENTS…

Here’s a few examples of healing and freedom my students have created for themselves

Melanie experienced big relief from shame spirals and big growth in her self-trust and worth

Sonia found freedom from the deep wound of “not being enough” and took back her power and worth from abuse and discard

Alex broke free of a tormenting trauma bond that kept him trapped for years

Korinna escaped an abusive relationship, healed, and met the love of her life

Real freedom and peace requires the right knowledge, tools, and support in the right order.  FOUNDATION™ delivers this.

Results like these happen when you know what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. You can spend decades (like I did) figuring this out or save yourself time, money, pain, and energy by following my proven trainings

WILL THIS WORK FOR ME??

FOUNDATION™ is designed for codependents, perfectionists, and people-pleasers who are ready to experience the healing, freedom, and peace they’ve been seeking.

 

It doesn’t matter if you’ve failed to see results on therapy or self-help.  Those failed because they lack what is *actually* necessary to heal codependency – not because you didn’t try hard enough.

 

You succeed when you have the right knowledge, tools, structure, and support.

 

That’s what FOUNDATION brings you.

My students include:

Codependents in therapy

People-pleasers that can’t help themselves

Perfectionists that don’t know any other way

Conflict avoidant (aka nice people)

Self-help consumers seeking structure, support, and clarity

And…

Working Professionals

Stay-at-home Moms

Teachers

Accountants

Architects

Business Owners

Entrepreneurs

Comedians

And if you’re not sure FOUNDATION will work for you, let’s find out for sure. Send me your question or concern by clicking below:

FEELING SAFE, FEELING WORTHY, FEELING TRUST IN YOURSELF EMERGES WITHIN A MATTER OF WEEKS WHEN YOU HAVE THE RIGHT SYSTEM

And MORE importantly, you’ll be taking on life using skills that create and sustain a life that FEELS GOOD.

Here’s what a life that feels good looks like:

Trust yourself and pursue your wants and desires because you feel worthy, whole, and deserving

Feeling a sense of belonging because you love and like who you are, and can choose quality community and friends

Emotional peace because you feel love for yourself, are free of the weight of shame and guilt, and trust yourself more

FOUNDATION™ is 15 specialized trainings that lead you across the gap from codependency into your advocacy and self-authority

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You'll...

  • Understand how to create a sense of emotional comfort, safety, and warmth
  • Soothe pain, hurt, fear, anxiety, shame, guilt, and feel sane again
  • Empower emotional peace, relief, confidence, and clarity
  • Engage life from emotional clarity and confidence

Resulting In:

  • Real emotional relief from pain that haunts you
  • Comfort and soothing when anxiety shows up
  • Peace of mind from the clarity and trust you have in your own perceptions, senses, intuitions, and desires
  • More rest, openness, and lightness in your body
  • Emotional freedom and peace
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You'll...

  • Understand your actual, real worth and what is false worth
  • Soothe shame, guilt, low self-worth and internalized rejection
  • Empower your real worth and build deep trust in yourself
  • Engage your life by following the intuitive guidance your real worth brings you, creating more of what you desire

Resulting In:

  • Relief from feeling worthless
  • Genuine love and like of yourself
  • Freedom from the intense, controlling fear of rejection, criticism, and loss
  • Confidence in yourself, your power, and your capability
  • Easier time getting what you want guilt and shame free
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You'll...

  • Understand how to build real belonging with yourself and others, creating a community you can rely on
  • Soothe loneliness, fear of rejection, and the discomfort of being alone
  • Empower real friendships, community, and belonging in your daily life so you can play and have support when you need it
  • Engage life through friendships, community, and play again

Resulting In:

  • Fun and fulfilling friendships
  • Meaningful and compatible connections in your life
  • A sense of community
  • Romantic opportunities
  • Less loneliness and more belonging
  • More play and enjoyment in what matters to you

 TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR PEACE AND FREEDOM BY JOINING TODAY

TIME FOR SOME BLUNT CAKE (aka Real Talk)

Knowledge does not create healing (this is why all those books and youtubes haven’t worked).

Trying to figure it out on your own risks leaving you lost, scared, and frustrated because of the inevitable knowledge and practice gaps that come with that.

My students have grown friendships, relationships, passions, and desires in their life because they know how to care for their needs and wants without codependency.

This happened as a direct result of what they learned in FOUNDATION.

They signed up because therapy wasn’t working and figuring it out was digging a deeper hole in their self-worth, peace, and bank account.

You have two choices…

CHOICE ONE: Keep trying to figure it out on your own and keep struggling

CHOICE TWO: Start enjoying relief, peace, and even power in your life within just a few classes from now

FOUNDATION is built on proven strategies that heal the root cause of codependency

HERE'S WHAT IS INCLUDED IN FOUNDATION™

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You Get...

  • Unlimited access to the ON-DEMAND RECORDINGS in video and MP3 formats: Attend live classes when you like and go at your own pace with the on-demand recordings
  • Unlimited Access to the Facebook Student Community: Ask Marshall questions and get answers!  All of this is kept private to the group!
  • Unlimited Support via the Facebook Student Community: Ask questions, get support, and celebration in your journey
  • Unlimited access to the NURTURE Course ($497 value): Take your healing, trust, and belonging deeper

SPECIALIZED BONUSES TO ACCELERATE YOUR HEALING

EXCLUSIVE BONUSES INCLUDE….

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BE CALM: RAPIDLY SOOTHE YOUR ANXIETY

($297 value)

Learn how to rapidly reduce anxiety, stop panic attacks, shutdown overwhelm, and build deeper peace and safety emotionally in your daily life

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TOOLS AND MEDITATIONS DESIGNED SPECIFICALLY FOR HEALING CODEPENDENCY

($197 value)

Gain access to over 200+ tools, meditations, practices, and guides to amplify your healing, freedom, peace, and joy in your daily life

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HEAL YOUR LONELINESS AND EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

($497 value)

Learn how your loneliness was created and how to gently transform it into warmth, belonging, and connection over 8 weeks of on-demand training

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GET SUPPORT VIA THE STUDENT COMMUNITY

($997 value)

Get lifetime, unlimited access to the secure Facebook Student Community and get support, guidance, and celebration from Marshall and other students as you build your freedom & peace

To Succeed, You Only Need To Do Four Things:

  1. Watch the class recordings
  2. Do the practices consistently (2 – 3 times a week, taking on average 20 minutes a week)
  3. Ask questions in the Student Community and get support there
  4. Go at your own pace as you have lifetime access to the trainings

Do this and you will start experiencing relief, peace, and healing.

IS THIS A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?

This Is Designed For Individuals That:

  • Identify with being a people-pleaser and seek love through approval
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • Struggle to create healthy relationships, trust, and connection
  • That are seeking to have relationships and friendships that are satisfying
  • That are seeking more purpose and prosperity in their life
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back

There Are Pre-requesites To Join:

  • Consider therapy as a support for any individual challenges that may arise
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

ENROLL BELOW:

Normally $697 USD

Pay In Full: $497 USD

Pay In Full : $349 USD

Lifetime Access To:

  • The Foundation Trainings (15+ modules) ($997 value)
  • Specialized Focus Course: The Nurture Course ($497 value)
  • Lifetime access to the recordings and live classes
  • The BE Calm System ($197 value)
  • The Codependency Healing Meditations & Tools Library ($197 value)
  • The Practice Session Library ($497 value)
  • Student Community ($997 value)
 

PAY IN FULL

Normally $1297 USD

ENROLLMENT CLOSED

EXCLUSIVE PAY-IN-FULL BONUSES:
 
  • The Self-Trust Course ($1250 value): Heal the distrust and restore trust your senses, perceptions, intuition, and more
  • The THAW Trainings ($297 value): Begin to thaw the freeze reflex that keeps you procrastinating, paralyzed, and locked in fatigue
  • Special price of $497 ($100 savings)
 

Lifetime Access To:

  • The Foundation Trainings (15+ modules) ($997 value)
  • Homework Hours: Weekly help and support as you move through the on-demand trainings
  • Practice Sessions: Practice the skills you’re learning each with with Marshall
  • Calls happen on Sundays at 12pm and 1pm Mountain Time starting October 13, 2024
  • Specialized Focus Course: The Nurture Course ($497 value)
  • Lifetime access to the recordings and live classes
  • The BE Calm System ($197 value)
  • The Codependency Healing Meditations & Tools Library ($197 value)
  • The Practice Session Library ($497 value)
  • Student Community ($997 value)
 

ENROLLMENT CLOSED

ACCELERATE YOUR HEALING, PEACE, AND FREEDOM WHILE SAVING YOU MONEY, TIME, AND STRESS

OVER $18,500+ In Value

This Is For The Individual That Wants:

  • All the necessary trainings to successfully end codependency and enjoy a life of fulfilling relationships, purpose, and prosperity, including:
  • Unlimited, lifetime access to FOUNDATION: VIP Edition
  • Unlimited, lifetime access to The Codependency Healing System
  • Unlimited, lifetime access to The TRANSFORMATION System
  • One Round of ACCELERATE is included ($1500)
  • Unlimited, lifetime access to weekly live homework and practice calls to help them succeed in having the results they want in their lives
  • Unlimited, lifetime access to weekly support calls with Marshall
  • Click below to learn more about what comes with the bundle!
 

COURSE DETAILS

CLASS DETAILS

    • Class Access: On-demand 24/7
    • Course Length: 15 modules
    • Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
    • Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
    • Unlimited, Life-time Access: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 and never expire
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GO AT YOUR OWN PACE

    • 24/7 Access To The Recordings: Watch at anytime, at your own pace. You can watch the video or listen via MP3 
    • Less Than 30 Minutes A Week For The Practices:  The secret to success with my work is doing the practices.  The classes teach you why you do the practice.  Do the practices and you will succeed.
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COURSE FEATURES

    • Includes PDF guides and MP3 recordings of tools and classes
    • Unlimited access to class recordings and to live classes when taught
    • Unlimited support via email and the online student support community
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ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS

Do I Get The Recordings?

Yep! You get 24/7 access to the On-Demand Edition which has all the recordings for the classes in video and MP3 format.

Is There A Test Drive Of The Classes?

You can watch a 18-minute sample from a live class below.  It includes a content section, then homework descriptions.  It has been edited to preserve the privacy of the students in the class.

Video below:

Will This Interfere With Therapy?

The trainings and practices in FOUNDATION are designed with personal therapy in mind.  It is built around the principles that the student leads their therapy.

The courses involve tools that are oriented to the somatic, or felt-sense part of reality and experience, and included cognitive reframing practices using questions, exploration, and experience.

Is There A Sample Of The Homework?

Yes, I do.  You can download the homework sample by clicking below:

Is There A Refund Or Guarantee Period?

No refunds are granted for any reason.

Will I Be Required To Complete Everything In A Specific Amount Of Time (or, Is it REALLY Go At Your Own Pace?)

All trainings and courses are go-at-your-own-pace, so you can go as slow as you want.

Got A Question Not Answered Here?  Click Below & Send It To Us!

STUDENT REVIEWS OF MY WORK

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.