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Are you:

Seeking a proven path to freedom, peace, and well-being after codependency?

Seeking a low-cost, go-at-your-own-pace direction for your healing?

Ready to join my work and discover real healing and freedom from your codependency?

Check Out The Heal Codependency Self-Study System.

Keep On Reading To Learn How This Is Possible For You

Decoding Codependency Workshop: The Six Habits

This is for survivors of abuse and neglect that:

  • Don’t know why they keep doing codependent behaviors even though they “know better”
  • Don’t know what else to do and are seeking real solutions
  • Feel shame, confusion, and guilt for not being able to break the codependent habits they have

Date: Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Time: 11am and 6pm Mountain Time (taught twice)

Cost: Free

The Heal Codependency Self-Study System Is For Codependents Seeking:

  • To trust themselves again
  • Freedom from craving and aching for the toxic relationship
  • Sanity and clarity about what is real and actually happening
  • To know who they are, love who they are, and be confidently themselves
  • Build healthy relationships and keep them
 
And Want To:
 
  • Go at their own pace through independent study
  • Reduce cost without reducing results

The Self-Study System Achieves This By Getting You Into The Four Courses That Make Healing & Freedom From Codependency A Permanent Reality.

Those Four Courses Are:

  • The Self-Trust Course™
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy™
  • The Know Yourself Strategy™
  • The Relationship Strategy™
 

Each course takes you through healing your self-doubt, ending the trauma bond, restoring your true self, and building healthy, happiness relationships in your daily life.

This happens through these four steps:

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STEP ONE: HEALING SELF-TRUST

One of the first deep hurts codependents experience is the gaslighting and questioning of their emotions, their lived experiences, their capacities, and even their own right to exist.
 
This taught the codependent to doubt themselves, distrust themselves, and seek truth and authority outside their own awareness, wisdom, and senses. 
 
This leaves codependents highly vulnerable to manipulation, abuse, and harm.  Further, when the codependent is healing, they’re questioning and doubting their own realizations and changes, slowing down their own healing and keeping them hooked on external sources for validation.
 
This is why I start with healing your self-trust first.  This empowers your healing and helps you restore your sense of legitimacy, natural wholeness, and using your personal power for the benefit of your healing, happiness, and well-being.
 

Healing your relationship with self-trust must go gently, slowly, and at YOUR pace.

I help you do heal your self-trust through:

  • Trust in the legitimacy of your awareness
  • Trust in the validity of your senses
  • Trust in the legitimacy of your emotions
  • Trust in the validity of your perceptions and experience
  • Trust in the authenticity of your capacities and limits (aka boundaries)
  • Trust in the goodness and validity of your needs and wants
  • Trust in your Personal Power, choice, and action
  • Trust in your intuition, sense of things, and hunches
 

Students and clients leave this step feeling deeply clear and confident in the legitimacy and veracity of their lived experience and awareness.  Say goodbye to feeling crazy, confused, foggy, and uncertain.

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STEP TWO: HEALING THE FAWN RESPONSE

Fawning is a response your body has toward danger when that danger is a person.  It is where you try to please and appease the person in hopes they won’t harm you anymore and maybe even love you more.

This is especially present when the dangerous person is a parent or spouse whom you love. 

This causes the core codependency behaviors of people-pleasing, avoiding conflict, toxic accommodation and tolerance, fixing and enabling habits, perfectionism, and even a strong desire to merge with the dangerous person in order to feel whole, worthy, lovable, and complete.

When this inevitably fails, you are left with that gutting emotion of being discarded, unworthy, and unlovable.

I guide you through this pain using specific practices, including:
 
  • Body-based calming practices that help you feel safer and safer being in your present moment
  • Building emotional space and capacity to feel emotions, sooth your pain, and access your inner wisdom
  • Restore legitimacy to your experiences and feelings so you can detect boundaries, gut instinct, and your own voice again
  • Regulate and sooth distress and pain from loss, discard, and abandonment
  • Soothe and heal the emptiness and loneliness from neglect and being unseen and unmet by others and yourself
  • Identifying and neutralizing codependent fantasies
  • Identify and trust your lived experience
  • Restore sanity through identifying what is real
  • Restore your sense of personhood and personal power
  • Start nurturing your needs in healthy ways
 

This liberates you from the grip of euphoria, fantasy, and trauma bonding and anchors you back to your core self, power, and adulthood.

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STEP THREE: DISCOVERY OF WHO YOU ARE

Codependency emerges when we don’t have a solid sense of real Self. 

This step helps you discover who you are through understanding your:

  • Innate Value as a person and a being
  • True Voice as a person and an authority in your life
  • Genuine Vision of who you are and what you desire in your world
 

I help you achieve this through very specific practices, including:

  • The Innate Value Retrieval Practice
  • The Innate Value Activation Practice
  • The Innate Value Rooting Practice
  • Tuning In Your Voice Practices
  • The Lensing Practice
  • The Presence With You Practice
  • Intuition Listening Practice
 

This is how you come to know, love, and live who you really are.

 

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STEP FOUR: CREATE HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS

This is where you graduate from codependency and build interdependency in healthy, compatible, happy relationships of any kind (friendship, romantic, and so forth).

I help you achieve this by teaching you how to:

  • How to detect and build on organic compatibility using my WHAT-HOW-WHO Model of relating
  • Build relationships on consent and privilege, eliminating the toxic habit of entitlement and obligation
  • Navigate building secure attachment and bonding through recognition, reassurance, and safe conflict and communication
  • Build conflict habits that create understanding, intimacy and outcomes that serve all involved
  • Build communication habits that create comprehension, clarity, and care
 

This is how you come to experience relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued.

Come Join Us In The Adventure Of Discovering Happy, Healthy Relationships, Fulfilling Purpose, Peace and Prosperity After Narcissistic Abuse, Neglect, And Codependency

Experience Real Healing, Real Change, And More Life You Like Living

THESE FOUR STEPS ARE TAUGHT THROUGH THESE FOUR COURSES:

COURSE ONE

$750.00 value

The Self-Trust Course guides you through restoring your first natural state: Trusting Yourself.
  
This is critical to healing codependency, as self-trust helps us:
 
  • Regain our ability to believe our lived experience
  • Reconnect to our emotions, reactions, and the wisdom they have for us
  • Acknowledge and follow our own values, self-sense, and intuition
  • Restore boundaries and our personal sovereignty
 
This course is 12 modules in length.

 

COURSE TWO

$497.00 value

The Heal Yourself Strategy™ guides you through restoring safety, sanity, and sovereignty after narcissistic abuse, neglect, or chronic codependency through parentification.
  
This essential step helps you:
 
  • Start to build real, lasting, reliable safety emotionally, physically, and relationally
  • Detect and break through fantasy and codependent distortions
  • Detect and embrace reality
  • Break the trauma bond through restoration of safety, thawing freeze, and re-engaging your healthy aggression as you step out of fawning
  • Understand and nurture your core emotional need
  • Regulate and sooth your attachment distress
  • Recognize, embrace, and occupy your Personhood, personal authority, sovereignty, and take back your power
 

This course is 22 modules in length.

COURSE THREE

$1250.00 value

The Know Yourself Strategy™ guides you through discovering your own value, voice, and vision for your life and who you are.  This results in you knowing, loving, and living YOU.
  
This step is your transition from codependency into your Personhood. 
 
You learn and master:
 
  • Detecting your own voice from out of the mess of programming and other people’s input
  • Detecting and following YOUR yes and no impulses
  • Coming to feel, trust, and follow your own Innate Value
  • Being able to create clarity, answers, and direction in your life
  • Taking up the space of being you in bold, secure fashion.  You feel safe being yourself
  • Come to like, love, and trust yourself more
 

This course is 13 modules in length.

COURSE FOUR

$1500.00 value

The Relationship Strategy™ guides you creating organically compatible relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued for who you are.
  
This is where you graduate from codependency into interdependency.
 
You will learn and master:
 
  • How to detect and build on organic compatibility using my WHAT-HOW-WHO Model of relating
  • Build relationships on consent and privilege, eliminating the toxic habit of entitlement and obligation
  • Navigate building secure attachment and bonding through recognition, reassurance, and safe conflict and communication
  • Build conflict habits that create understanding, intimacy and outcomes that serve all involved
  • Build communication habits that create comprehension, clarity, and care
 

This course is 12 modules in length.

YOU'RE SUPPORTED THROUGH EACH COURSE WITH...

UNLIMITED EMAIL SUPPORT

EMAIL GUIDANCE AND SUPPORT

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  I know it was for me. Knowing I could email my mentor at any time, even years later, for guidance and help brought me a sense of peace and support in my healing.

This is what I provide you when you enroll:  lifetime access to email support from me, Marshall Burtcher.

ON-LINE COMMUNITY

COMMUNITY FEEDBACK AND SUPPORT

Taking the leap on your own healing is scary.  What makes the difference is a warm, supportive community that students could turn to with questions, needs for understanding and support, and guidance.

Marshall provides you with this support through:

  • Email support from my staff and Marshall (usually a 48-hour turn around)
  • Access to the private and secure Community™ of fellow survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself

UPGRADE OPTION: LIVE SUPPORT

Choose "Live Support Edition" Below When You Enroll

LIVE MENTORING HOURS™ ($4999/yr)

GET UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK LIVE SUPPORT CALLED, "LIVE MENTORING HOURS" WITH THE "LIVE SUPPORT" UPGRADE

Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings. 

Live Mentoring Hours includes:

    • Access to the Live Mentoring Hours Vault.  Watch over 2 years worth of custom trainings for past students
    • Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours)  that happen on Tuesdays @6PM MDT and Thursdays @ 11am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
     
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*Guaranteed for a minimum of 12 months

HOMEWORK HOURS™ ($3000/yr)

GET UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK HOMEWORK STUDY GROUPS WITH THE "LIVE SUPPORT' UPGRADE (info below)

Do course homework in the warmth and presence of others students and Marshall.

This allows you to ask questions, share homework with others, and enjoy companionship.

Homework Hours details:

    • Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours)  that happen on Tuesdays @5PM MDT and Thursdays @ 10am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
    • You’re no longer doing it alone.  You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
     
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COURSE FEATURES:

COURSES COME WITH:

  • Video and audio versions of the trainings
  • Printable PDF homework guides and class slides
  • Follow-along MP3 and video versions of tools and practices that guide your healing and growth
  • Online access via PC or Smartphone (use the Kajabi App for smartphone use)

TIME INVESTMENT:

  • Module trainings average about 2 hours in length
  • Trainings come with printable PDF version of the slides for note taking
  • Homework is 60 minutes a week on average
  • It is always go-at-your-own-pace
  • No live instruction is included. Everything is prerecorded.

ARE THESE COURSES A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?

These Courses Are Designed For Individuals That:

  • Are willing to do the work in a self-study, independent fashion
  • Identify with being a codependent, people-pleaser, fixer, “nice”, or over-achiever
  • That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
  • That doubt their feelings and senses
  • That wonder what is real
  • That feel unreal or invisible
  • That are struggling to get process in their own therapy and healing
  • That are seeking more peace, freedom, and happiness
  • That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
  • That want themselves back

There Are Prerequisites For These Courses:

  • Must be in therapy, seeking a trauma therapist, or willing to find one if Marshall advises it
  • Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
  • Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
  • Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
  • Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
  • Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course

GET THE HEAL CODEPENDENCY SELF-STUDY SYSTEM TODAY FOR:

SOLO SELF-STUDY SYSTEM

$ 997
00
Lifetime Access
  • The Self-Trust Course™
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy™
  • The Know Yourself Strategy™
  • The Relationship Strategy™
  • The Support Courses
  • Lifetime Email and Online Community Support
  • Lifetime Access To The Recorded Classes

LIVE-SUPPORT EDITION

$ 1497 Lifetime Access
  • Twice-A-Week Live GROUP Support On Tuesdays & Thursdays
  • Twice-A-Week Live HOMEWORK Support On Tuesdays & Thursdays
  • The Self-Trust Course™
  • The Heal Yourself Strategy™
  • The Know Yourself Strategy™
  • The Relationship Strategy™
  • The Support Courses
  • Lifetime Email and Online Community Support
  • Lifetime Access To The Recorded Classes

REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.

REAL PEOPLE SHARING THEIR JOURNEY

WHO IS MARSHALL?

I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING  TO BE THEMSELVES.

After 25 years of codependency and 13 years of freedom from it, I’ve experienced a lot of emotional, relational, and mental terrain that come with knowing, loving, and living who you are.
 
I’ve built healthy, secure intimate and platonic relationships, resilient self-worth, self-trust, and peace in my personal life after a life of trauma, depression, social isolation, and failed relationships.
 
Today, I help survivors experience for themselves peace, love, connection, and the joy of knowing, loving, and living who they are.