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STOP GUESSING IN YOUR DATING. START KNOWING.

Are You Dating Again After A Toxic, Narcissistic Relationship?

Are You Wondering What You Can Do To Make Sure You Choose Healthy Opportunities?

You're Not Alone! And I Discovered Through My Own Dating Experience The Essentials You Need To Know...

STOP GUESSING IN YOUR DATING. START KNOWING.

Are You Dating Again After A Toxic, Narcissistic Relationship?

Are You Wondering What You Can Do To Make Sure You Choose Healthy Opportunities?

You're Not Alone! And I Discovered Through My Own Dating Experience The Essentials You Need To Know...

Here's The Situation...

You're Ready To Start Dating Again But...

You’re nervous and unsure how to date without getting sucked into another abusive, painful relationship.

Further, you may not be sure what to even look for that would tell you if the person you’re seeing is healthy, safe and a good risk for you to take.

This makes dating scary, foreboding, and even paralyzing to the point you don’t take the risk.

What If You Could Be In Control Of Your Dating Life This Time?

Yep.  Control.  In the driver’s seat.  You’d finally be the one with the advantage that gives you a sense of security, confidence and insight into what was happening.

You’d be able to:

And THAT is what I will teach you in DATING 101 For Ex-Codependents™

WHO'S YOUR MENTOR?

Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.

Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.

I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.

My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desparately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.

I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first.  Without being loved, I was no longer lovable.

 

This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.

The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded.  I call it, “The Discard Trauma”.

Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness, some for the first time, with my unique systems of healing.

Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency in your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.

WHO'S YOUR MENTOR?

Hi! I’m Marshall Burtcher.

Before I found my freedom from codependency, I was suffering in a nightmare of cyclical abuse with my parents, stuck in a dead-end marriage, and barely coping with my shame, panic, and trauma.

I found myself on the edge of suicide, trying to run from the monsters in my head and the voices that told me I was worthless, harmful, and I deserved all the crazy-making, emotionally harmful behavior I’d lived with for over 30 years.

My codependency had led me to destroy my marriage, my financial security, and my friendships because I felt so entirely unworthy and so desparately needed others to validate me so I could feel worthy.

I believed that to be lovable, I must be loved first.  Without being loved, I was no longer lovable.

This changed when I took a leap of faith and decided that codependency and my toxic behaviors were a result of my experience, not the expression of who I am.

The healing that occurred within a year of that choice was so profound that I became an advocate for a new point of view: that codependency was a survival response to the threat of being discarded.  I call it, “The Discard Trauma”.

Fast-forward from 2008 to today and I have helped over 750+ people find happiness, some for the first time, with my unique systems of healing.

Today I’m a proud father of 2, a fun boyfriend, and a mentor that is obsessed with eliminating codependency in your world and making happiness a day-to-day reality for you.

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This Is The Process I Personally Use In Dating and The Same Process Responsible Helping Hundreds Of My Students Discover Lasting, Healthy Relationships

This Is The Process I Personally Use In Dating and The Same Process Responsible Helping Hundreds Of My Students Discover Lasting, Healthy Relationships

Introducing...

A DATING STRATEGY MADE FOR EX-CODEPENDENTS

Codependency and narcissistic abuse brought with it profound neglect of how to identify healthy people and cultivate healthy connection with them. 

This also makes most modern dating approaches ill-suited for the specific needs ex-codependents have, including:

  • How to keep yourself while building a connection
  • How to advocate for your needs
  • How to identify signals of  healthy and unhealthy behavior, love, and attachment
  • To feel safe
  • To say no and yes freely
  • A map for what to expect and anticipate

DATING 101 gives you this roadmap and wisdom so your dating is safe, fulfilling, and ultimately successful.

DATING 101 PUTS YOU IN CONTROL

GAIN CONTROL THROUGH:

Mastering the 4 Principles of Safe, Confident Dating (follow these and you'll never date a dud or a narc ever again)

Identifying and Avoiding The 4 Major Pitfalls (Avoid these and you'll land a solid, healthy, fulfilling partner)

Applying the Date-To-Discover Method (No more guess, feeling rushed, or pushing things. Instead, the relationship can grow organically and safely)

Navigating The 4 Phases of Dating Successfully and Consciously (Know where you are and what to expect as you date)

Understanding How Emotionally Available (or not) Your Prospect Is (Say hello to emotionally warm and available options!)

Here's How DATING 101 Works​

You Get 4 In-depth Trainings:

Class One: You Come First

You will understand if you’re ready to date or not, how to confront the Codependent Fantasy, and address the “Bare-minimum” problem in your relationship maps and expectations, and how to address Pitfall #1: What Am I Ignoring?

Class Two: Patterns Tell The Truth

You will be able to discern patterns of behavior, understand if someone is truth-worthy or not, and identify healthy and unhealthy patterns through my set of Pattern Questions and worksheets to reveal the truth, and address Pitfall #2: Undo Tolerance

Class Three: Keeping Yourself

You’ll be able to determine if you’re losing yourself in the relationship, get yourself back into your territory, and discern between Connection and Enmeshment quickly , as well as Pitfall #3 (yep, not gonna give this one away).

Class Four: Discovery Before Commitment

This shift is critical to your success in dating. I show you how to make that happen by understanding the 4 Phases of Dating as well as confronting the biggest Pitfall you’ll face (Pitfall #4: Rushing)

This Is All Delivered To You Through:

Four 2-Hour Trainings

Get the expert mentorship you need to navigate your dating experience.  Over the course of 4 workshops, you will learn what to look for, when to call it quits, and more.

Specialized Guides & PDFs

Get out of the fog of “not being sure” and make sense of what you’re experiencing with my guides and assessments.

30 Days of Live Q&A Support ($399 value)

You will understand if you’re ready to date or not, how to confront the Codependent Fantasy, and address the “Bare-minimum” problem in your relationship maps and expectations, and how to address Pitfall #1: What Am I Ignoring?

Results From Students

My Students Report:

She Found Real Love & Marriage

Tobhiyah came to me seeking brilliance and freedom from past trauma of abandonment and neglect.  Within a few months, she met her future husband and has gone on to create a thriving marriage and business.

She Found Romance, Love, and A Thriving Business

Dorann believed she’d never heal and never find real, healthy love.  But through the processes of RapidHEAL™, she discovered how wrong she was.  Today she’s happily married to a healthy, loving man an has a thriving wedding business.

She Found A Man That's Into Who She Is

Sondra was lost in trying to define a concrete direction after her divorce from a narcissistic spouse.  Using the Dating 101 approach, she found a man that she adores and that adores her

You Can Do This, Too...

I've Got Your Back & Support You Through...

Life-time Access to My 24/7 Private, Secure Community

Ask your questions, get answers from myself and other students, experience understanding and connection, and build friendships.

90 Days of Email Support

Hit reply on any course email, and myself or my team will get back to you within 48 hours.  We want you to succeed so we have your back in this journey!

Normally, it is $297, But Today You Get All This For...

LIFETIME ACCESS

$ 125
00
LIFETIME
  • 4 In-depth 2-hour Trainings
  • The 4 Principles Of Safe, COnfident Dating
  • How To Avoid The 4 Major Pitfalls
  • How To Date To Discover
  • The "Voice Of Desire" Bonus Class
  • How To Expose Emotionally Unavailable Prospects
  • 30 Days of Live Q&A Support
  • Lifetime Access FOREVER AND EVER
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208.918.0907, Experts@freetheself.com, or Contact Us Here:

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LIFETIME ACCESS

$ 125
00
LIFETIME
  • 4 In-depth 2-hour Trainings
  • The 4 Principles Of Safe, COnfident Dating
  • How To Avoid The 4 Major Pitfalls
  • How To Date To Discover
  • The "Voice Of Desire" Bonus Class
  • How To Expose Emotionally Unavailable Prospects
  • 30 Days of Live Q&A Support
  • Lifetime Access FOREVER AND EVER
POPULAR

Got a Question? Reach Out:
208.918.0907, Experts@freetheself.com, or Contact Us Here: