Heal The Attraction To Toxic Relationships And Set Yourself Free For Healthy, Fulfilling Connection
Break free of chasing unavailable, harmful relationships and finally choose yourself with confidence and trust that you have options and opportunities for real, loving relationships
ENROLLMENT CLOSES SEPTEMBER 6th, 2025.
CLASS BEGINS SEPTEMBER 7, 2025 @ 3pm Mountain Time
End The Nightmare Of Limerence & Chasing Love And Start Trusting, Loving, And Choosing Yourself
Break free of chasing unavailable, harmful relationships and finally choose yourself with confidence and trust that you have options and opportunities for real, loving relationships
It's Not You. It's Intermittent Reinforcement
(Although I know it feels like its you!)
You’ve been wired to equate love with anxiety, intermittent highs, distress, and despair. This impulse is rooted in how your attachment system experiences vulnerability and emotional bonding.
This nearly automatic impulse to chase and try to get that other person to love you and choose you – especially after being given crumbs of attention and affection – can be maddening to stop.
Over 11 weeks, I train you and your nervous system to catch this impulse, interrupt it with soothing and care, root you in your worth and well-being, and embrace reality and genuine abundance, ending the tyranny of this impulse over your life and relationships.
Rewire the distress that you call "love" to grounded clarity and self-worth and finally be free of this destructive pattern in your life
Take Back Your Agency, Your Power, And Your Life & Thrive
Which is why this work is focused on:
- Rewiring your attachment system from anxious chasing to security and clarity
2. Rewiring your mind from fantasy and chasing their potential to sober relating based on facts and patterns
3. Rewiring your self-concept from “I’m unlovable” to “I’m deeply worthy and deserving”
This Ends The Pattern Of Unavailable Relationships And Pouring Yourself Into Unavailable People
You no longer seek approval or worthiness through special relationships or special attention
You enjoy rooted, loving friendships and relationships built on reality and patterns
Because you know how to catch your limerence, fantasy-making, and ground quickly into reality and see things with sober eyes
And all of this achieved through my gentle Get Sober Process
Simply rise and repeat and you’ll never fall for bread-crumbs again
Hi, I’m Marshall. And I Suffered With Limerence & Chasing Love For 20+ years
I was living out my love addiction, chasing after the affection and attention of emotionally unavailable and incompatible partners and friends.
I sought help, but the 12-step model and CBT approach only made things worse.
I discovered – out of desperation – the real cause: My attachment system was wired to be wounded through love. “Love = pain”.
This clarity helped me take the deep dive and actually heal that wounding. This journey taught me my 7-step process for healing trauma bonds and limerence.
Since 2018, I’ve taught over 300 people this process and seen this addiction resolve into confidence and self-worth within 6 months.
You can have this, too.
You And I Do This Together Live In:
Here's How We Will End This Painful Pattern In Your Life Together
Restoring Safety & Regulation To Support Your Healthy, Responsive Attachment System
Limerence and trauma bonds are the results of attachment systems that are wired for longing, fantasy, chase, and distress. This kind of configuration was created in one’s early years of childhood and is transformed into confidence and capacity through gentle practices of that soothe the pain, the intensity, and rewire love with calmness and gentleness.
Restoring A Loved-&-Worthy Root Self-Concept To Support Aligned Relationships
The relationships you choose is largely determined by your self-concept: what you believe you’re worthy of and not. You were wired to believe you must earn love and worth. We transform this into a concrete self-concept of inherent worth, love, and wholeness. You’ll never seek love or permission again.
Creating An Abundance-Based Relationship With Reality To Support Choice, Power, & Peace
You’ll take what you can get when you believe there isn’t an abundance of opportunity for healthy, lasting, satisfying relationships. This is the “Better-Than-Nothing” Trap. We gently expand your concept of what reality is into an inclusive, abundant experience where you begin to see and experience healthy options for you in your relationship desires.
YOU ARE SUPPORTED THROUGH:
STRATEGIC TRAINING & PRACTICES
On-demand & Live Trainings
Each training is available in video and MP3 format for your ease of use. Live attendance is included forever
Specialized Weekly Mastery Practices
Each training comes with a primary practice to use throughout the following week. Practices take around 5 minutes a day to create lasting healing. Available in written and MP3 format
MP3 & Video Guided Practices & Tools
The practices you’re mastering come with MP3 guided versions to simplify the process and accelerate your healing and success
COUPLED WITH LIFETIME ACCESS TO
LIVE GROUP SUPPORT & TOOLS
WEEKLY LIVE COMMUNITY CALLS WITH MARSHALL
Get guidance, feedback, support, and answers each week from Marshall with our weekly Homework Hours Calls. These happen on Sundays at 11am Mountain Time.
LIFETIME ACCESS TO THE COMMUNITY
Connect with fellow students and deepen your healing, growth, and mastery of your post-codependent life
MASSIVE LIBRARY OF PROVEN TOOLS & PRACTICES
Find meditations, tools and practices for practically any emotions, pain, or challenge you’re facing in your healing journey. Over 110+ tools available in the searchable library
AND SPECIALIZED BONUSES TO DEEPEN YOUR HEALING
THAW THE FREEZE THAT KEEPS YOU NUMB AND FROZEN
Begin to heal the freeze states that keep you frozen and fearful through gentle practices that help your body relax and thaw through this 4-module training. $297 value.
PRACTICE SESSIONS To Help You Master Your SKILLS FAST AND EASY
Follow along with pre-recorded practice sessions to see how the tools work, helping you grow your confidence and trust in your use of the skills you’re learning. $997 value.
RESULTING IN...
Relief From Anxiety And Craving Them
Say goodbye to coping with the discomfort of anxiety and the busy mind that keeps you pre-occupied with them
Concrete Self-Confidence And Worth
You’ll stop seeking approval and struggling to love and believe in yourself when you know own your worth and can align with in seconds
Really Like And Love Of Yourself
Instead of trying to love or like yourself, you’ll know how to tap into those feelings and energy and enjoy i
Enjoy Internal Validation & Self-Trust
End the nightmare of self-gaslighting and know how to trust your experience, emotions, and needs and wants without external validation
Boundaries You Keep Because You Like Them
Gone are the days of bypassing your boundaries out of fear, fawning, or “being nice”. Instead, you value your boundaries, trust them, and enjoy the benefits of peace and care they bring
Freedom And Peace With Yourself
You’ll know how trust yourself, your senses, and follow your own voice and direction
YOUR SUCCESS IS INEVITABLE.
HERE’S HOW
Success Is Yours When You Follow 4 Specific Steps:
Failure and fear of it is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.
There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:
- Step One: Watch the class recordings or attend the live trainings
- Step Two: Do the practices consistently (2 – 3 times a week, taking on average 20 minutes a week)
- Step Three: Get support and answers when you need it in the Student Community or Homework Support Calls
- Step Four: Go at your own pace as you have lifetime access to the trainings
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS…
#1: How Long Is This Course & When Are The Live Classes?
Course Details:
- This course includes lifetime access to the live trainings and the recordings of those classes
- Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
- Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
- Course Length: 11 total modules. Go at your own pace in taking each module
- Unlimited, Life-time Access: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 and never expire
- Class Day & Time: Sundays at 3pm Mountain Time starting May 11, 2025
#2: How Much Time Do I need to do this program?
Around 2 hours per WEEK is the average successful students report
#3: What If I Get Overwhelmed?
This one is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.
There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:
- Step One: Watch the class recordings or attend the live trainings
- Step Two: Do the practices consistently (2 – 3 times a week, taking on average 20 minutes a week)
- Step Three: Get support and answers when you need it in the Student Community or Homework Support Calls
- Step Four: Go at your own pace as you have lifetime access to the trainings
#4: What If I’m Different, & Can’t Succeed Because There’s Something That Prevents Me?
This is a common illusion of trauma and neglect. It is created when we do not see others struggling like ourselves very often or frequently. We tend to conclude that something in us is causing all these painful patterns and experiences.
What I’ve found when I’ve encountered this in myself is that I’m looking for reassurance that I’ll be helped if something doesn’t make sense or work.
This is my commitment to you: If a tool or concept doesn’t make sense to you or work, reach out and we’ll figure out what is happening.
You can do that through the weekly support calls I offer or via email.
#5: What If I Do It All & Nothing Changes?
I have seen a few students not make progress. This happened because of specific factors happening for them, including:
- Unstable home or work environment that was keeping them feeling unsafe
- Other conditions that were interfering, such as borderline personality, or massive trauma that was keeping them frozen
- Needed the personal help of a therapist as they did this work (I always recommend having a therapist with *any* work if at all possible)
If these are factors in your life currently, please take time to resource what you need in each of those. My work and trainings will help in addition to those resources.
#6: Is This A Replacement For Therapy?
This is not a replacement for professional therapy. It is a supportive structure and process that can amplify the results your therapy efforts. This program has been taken by and approved by therapists and psychologists. Feel free to consult with your therapist before joining!
#7: What Kind Of Processes Are Included?
The practices and processes use somatic and cognitive practices to help retrain your body and mind to work in harmony.
#8: “How Do I Know This Is A Good Fit For Me?”
This Is Designed For Individuals That:
- Identify with being a people-pleaser and seek love through approval
- That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
- That doubt their feelings and senses
- That wonder what is real
- That feel unreal or invisible
- Struggle to create healthy relationships, trust, and connection
- That are seeking to have relationships and friendships that are satisfying
- That are seeking more purpose and prosperity in their life
- That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
- That want themselves back
There Are Pre-requesites To Join:
- Consider therapy as a support for any individual challenges that may arise
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
#9: I’ve Got A Concern, Hesitation, Doubt, Or Question Keeping Me From Enrolling, Marshall. How Can I Get Your Input On It?
Click below to email me your question and I’ll get back to you promptly (usually within 24-48 hours).
What's The Investment?
$997...
(not really)
Only $797
Only $349 Till August 1st, 2025
ENROLL BELOW FOR...
ENROLLMENT CLOSES SEPTEMBER 6th, 2025.
CLASS BEGINS SEPTEMBER 7, 2025 @ 3pm Mountain Time
TOTAL VALUE: $7,576
List Price: $1297
NORMALLY $497
EARLY ENROLLMENT IS OPEN: $349
Lifetime Access To:
- The Live Trainings: Lifetime attendance to live classes ($1297 value)
- The On-demand Trainings: 24/7 on-demand access to the recordings ($497 value)
- The THAW Trainings ($297 value): Begin to thaw the freeze reflex that keeps you procrastinating, paralyzed, and locked in fatigue
- Lifetime Access To Weekly Support via Homework Hours ($2997 value): Weekly help and support as you move through the on-demand trainings; happens on Sundays at 11am Mountain Time
- Practice Sessions Library ($997 value): Practice the skills you’re learning each with with Marshall
- The BE Calm System ($297 value)
- The Codependency Healing Meditations & Tools Library ($197 value)
- Lifetime access to the Student Community ($997 value)
*Payment plans available via Klarna and Affirm on the enrollment page
TAKE CONTROL AND SHAPE YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR PERSONAL SATISFACTION AND JOY
TOTAL VALUE: $36,308
List Price: $7000
Lifetime Access For $2000
This is exclusively for the recovering codependent, people-pleaser, or perfectionist that is hungry to create and enjoy satisfaction, success, and peace in…
… their relationships
… their money and finances
… their life purposes
… their dreams
… their friendships
… daily life
And they want the hands-on, live mentorship, guidance, and support to help them achieve this, keep this, and enjoy this.
COURSE DETAILS
CLASS DETAILS
- This course includes live trainings and lifetime access to the recordings of those classes
- Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
- Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
- Course Length: 11 total modules. Go at your own pace in taking each module
- Unlimited, Life-time Access: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 and never expire
GO AT YOUR OWN PACE
- 24/7 Access To The Recordings: Watch at anytime, at your own pace. You can watch the video or listen via MP3.
- Less Than 30 Minutes A Week For The Practices: The secret to success with my work is doing the practices. The classes teach you why you do the practice. Do the practices and you will succeed.
- 24/7 Access To The Recordings: Watch at anytime, at your own pace. You can watch the video or listen via MP3.
COURSE FEATURES
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- Includes PDF guides and MP3 recordings of tools and classes
- Unlimited access to class recordings
- Unlimited support via email and the online student support community
COURSE PREREQUISITIES
There are prerequisites to attend this course:
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
WHO IS MARSHALL?
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.