Hi, I’m Marshall. I Was Hopelessly, Painfully Codependent.
You’re not alone. I used to feel like I was drowning in anxiety and panic about my choices. I frequently felt:
I Thought There Was Something Wrong With Me
I grew up in ambiguity about my feelings, wants, and needs, and especially if it was ok to voice them or follow them. Sometimes I was praised for doing that, and other times I was labeled selfish, mean, self-centered because I chose something another didn’t like.
This created a massive confusion in my mind and body about trusting my own sense of things, values and preferences.
This pattern of “darned if you do, darned if you don’t” was so constant, I felt crazy and concluded something was wrong with me.
If You’re Nodding Your Head or Thinking, “This Sounds Like Me”, You’re Not Alone…
This kind of confusion is created by the ever-moving goal posts of dysregulated adults in our childhood.
We are not guided to sense into, discover, or trust our senses, awareness, and the values that emerge through that connection.
Instead, we’re taught to obey (or else), to be invisible, to be “nice”, and to follow them rather than lead ourselves.
What you needed was proper guidance and modeling of values-directed living.
Instead of using your feelings or fears to decide your choices, you tune inward to your values and intuition, seeing how they inform you about the options before you.
Put another way, you choose based on how a person, place, or thing aligns with who you are and what really matters to you – NOT WHAT PLEASES THEM.
Go From “I don’t know what to choose” to “My direction is clear”
Results that you like depend on the direction you choose. Direction depends on clarity about your options. Clarity depends on you knowing the rules that govern your personal well-being and happiness.
This kind of deep clarity emerges when you know and feel your Internal Compass. Your compass is comprised of 3 elements:
Compass Element #1: Internal Attunement. Each of us are born with an internal guidance signal that tells you what is aligned for you and what is not. I call this “The Governing Principle”. Students experience their Governing Principle as peace, success, satisfaction, or surprise in their lives.
Compass Element #2: Guiding Values. Your values aren’t something you choose. They are rules that you discover for governing your choices, actions, and direction. These are discovered in two ways: Somatic patterns and Life patterns. We look at the results you’re getting as well as what you sensed in these areas to reveal the actual principles that matter to you.
Compass Element #3: Values-Led Action. Values only work when you consciously apply them to your life and are loyal to them despite the outcome. This way life can reveal the necessary truth needed for you to choose wisely for your own well-being, peace, and fulfillment. When you master this loyalty, your life takes on peace, clarity, and ease like you’ve not yet known.
These three elements create your Internal Compass – the deep clarity about what matters to you, what is aligned (and is not), and reveals the direction that has the most integrity to your life’s well-being (and yes, sometimes it will be a direction we do not like or want, but is truly what is healthy for us).
You Deserve A Life Operating From Clarity, Confidence, And Peace, Not Confusion, Anxiety, or Self-doubt.
I help you experience these results quickly in your daily life through my 8-module training, “COMPASS – 8 Weeks To Value-Driven Clarity, Direction, and & Peace”.
This step focuses on generating your inner ear – listening to your signals and discerning them. This will help you:
This transforms into lasting peace and soothing when you know how to:
This step guides you in detecting and recognizing the principles that *actually* matter to you. You’ll discover them through:
This will result in you understanding:
This step is where your biggest challenge and growth emerge – living in strong loyalty to your discovered values and principles. This step will help you understand and master:
This results in you:
No more wondering what the right choice is. No more questioning if you’re wrong or missing something. Lots more confidence, trust, and clarity
You know what your yes is and your no is. You can detect alignment fast. You know there’s compatible options
No more questioning. No more anxiety or insecurity in your choices. Instead, direction that takes you where you want to go because you know what fits and doesn’t.
Because you’re choosing based on patterns, principles, and results – rather than emotions and hope – you enjoy healthier, more fulfilling relationships
You know who belongs in your life and who doesn’t – AND WHY. This makes building and keeping satisfying friendships easier and actually enjoyable!
You understand that purpose is actually you living out your aligned values and taking on the opportunities that show up with that alignment, creating fulfillment
These factors ensure you’ll be able to succeed in the course and get the most out of your time and investment.
Happens on Sundays at 11am Mountain Time.
This course is 12 modules in length.
Each training is available in video and MP3 format for your ease of use. Live classes are on Sundays at 3pm Mountain Time starting September 21st, 2025
Each training comes with a primary practice to use throughout the following week. Practices take around 5 minutes a day to create lasting healing. Available in written and MP3 format
The practices you’re mastering come with MP3 guided versions to simplify the process and accelerate your healing and success
Connect with fellow students and deepen your healing, growth, and mastery of your post-codependent life
Find meditations, tools and practices for practically any emotions, pain, or challenge you’re facing in your healing journey. Over 110+ tools available in the searchable library
Follow along with pre-recorded practice sessions to see how the tools work, helping you grow your confidence and trust in your use of the skills you’re learning. $997 value.
Class recordings are made available by 8am the next day.
You get LIFETIME ACCESS to both the RECORDINGS and the live classes for this course.
YOUR SUCCESS IS INEVITABLE.
HERE’S HOW
Success Is Yours When You Follow 4 Specific Steps:
Failure and fear of it is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.
There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS…
#1: How Much Time Do I need to do this program?
Around 2 hours per WEEK is the average successful students report
#2: What If I Get Overwhelmed?
This one is the most common challenge we each face when changing *anything* in our lives.
There are four steps to take that ensure your success with my work:
#3: What If I’m Different, & Can’t Succeed Because There’s Something That Prevents Me?
This is a common illusion of trauma and neglect. It is created when we do not see others struggling like ourselves very often or frequently. We tend to conclude that something in us is causing all these painful patterns and experiences.
What I’ve found when I’ve encountered this in myself is that I’m looking for reassurance that I’ll be helped if something doesn’t make sense or work.
This is my commitment to you: If a tool or concept doesn’t make sense to you or work, reach out and we’ll figure out what is happening.
You can do that through email.
#4: What If I Do It All & Nothing Changes?
I have seen a few students not make progress. This happened because of specific factors happening for them, including:
If these are factors in your life currently, please take time to resource what you need in each of those. My work and trainings will help in addition to those resources.
#5: Is This A Replacement For Therapy?
This is not a replacement for professional therapy. It is a supportive structure and process that can amplify the results your therapy efforts. This program has been taken by and approved by therapists and psychologists. Feel free to consult with your therapist before joining!
#6: What Kind Of Processes Are Included?
The practices and processes use somatic and cognitive practices to help retrain your body and mind to work in harmony.
#7: “How Do I Know This Is A Good Fit For Me?”
This Is Designed For Individuals That:
There Are Pre-requesites To Join:
#8: I’ve Got A Concern, Hesitation, Doubt, Or Question Keeping Me From Enrolling, Marshall. How Can I Get Your Input On It?
Click below to email me your question and I’ll get back to you promptly (usually within 24-48 hours).
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