Ready To End Your Codependency & Start Enjoying The Loving Relationships, Fulfilling Purpose, And Lasting Peace?
If you’re ready to end people-pleasing, proving your worth, and seeking approval to feel lovable, I can help.
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Marshall Burtcher – Your Guide Back To Knowing, Loving, and Being Who You Are
Are You A Codependent Who’s Been Struggling To:
- Build friendships that last?
- Have romantic relationships with people who are available and healthy?
- Struggling to let yourself succeed and prosper in your life?
- Feeling lost, stuck, or trapped in your efforts to “not be codependent”?
- Aching to feel safe and worthy to actually live your life?
Do You Believe It Is YOU That Is The Problem?
I felt the same way. I believed I was doomed to suffer, be alone, and live with the crippling loneliness, emptiness, and sadness.
I was wrong. Very wrong. Here’s why:
I learned after a lot of trial and error that three things were happening:
- I didn’t have the right knowledge at the right time in my journey
- I didn’t have the right tools for where I was in my healing journey
- I had the wrong kind of support for what I was facing
This started with having accurate knowledge about what was actually happening versus what others claimed was happening.
What most people are taught when it comes to codependency:
- It is a disease you have to cope with
- It is an addiction you have to cope with
- It is part of who you are (like an identity)
- It is permanent
Does this sound familiar?
If so, you’re not alone. I believed this was the truth for DECADES.
Then, out of desperation and a bit of rebellion, I dared to question those claims.
I asked…
“What if codependency was my strategy for surviving the chaos of abuse and neglect?
they were feeling and thinking what they were feeling and thinking, clarity came.
From clarity came hope.
From that hope came real change.
I want to help you experience real, lasting relief from your codependency,
So you can experience friendships, relationships, success, and peace in your life.
Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another.
I’ve developed a specific strategy from my own lived experience with codependency (from narcissistic abuse & parental neglect) that has helped over 700+ recovering codependents create healthy relationships, friendships, businesses, peace and rest in their lives.
I HELPED THEM ACHIEVE THAT THROUGH...
Students experience long-term well-being, happiness, new romance, marriage, better jobs, and more satisfaction – all because they had the right tools, the right support, and the right knowledge at the right time.
They followed a specific set of trainings that led them through restoring self-trust, taking back their personhood, discovering who they are, and building healthy, compatible relationships.
This approach targets core areas of one’s life and persona that were attacked and harmed through the abuse and neglect they experienced, including:
- Their experience of what is real
- Their emotional validity
- Their senses and personal awareness
- Their gut and intuition
- Their sense of personal power and legitimacy
- Their limits and boundaries
- Their personhood and sense of identity
- Their self-worth and value
The codependent impulses of people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, controlling outcomes, being a perfectionist, feeling on edge and “walking on eggshells” are transformed into peace, confidence, clarity, and love of Self.
All through having the right knowledge, the right tools, the right support, at the right time.
The System Creates:
- Six (6) in-depth sections focused on restoring safety emotionally & relationally, building concrete self-trust, healing the trauma-bond, discovering and anchoring to your inherent value, and creating happy, lasting friendships and relationships in your life
- Additional supporting courses to help meet needs, discovery nervous system soothing and care, and build relationship skills
The Right Tools & Practices Through:
- Somatic tools for soothing distress, pain, and anxiety
- Meditative tools for tuning into yourself so you can hear and know your own voice and value
- Practical exercises that help you get used to living from confidence
- Specialized trainings that help you apply specific skills that improve your life and happiness
The Right Support Through:
- Twice-A-Week Live Support Groups
- Twice-A-Week Homework/Study Hall Groups
- Online and Email support
The Right Time Through:
- Personalized guidance on what to study and practice and when
- Clear structure and order between courses so it is easier to grow, explore and succeed
I Have Two Intentions For You When You Join The Codependency Healing System:
My desire for you is to experience a happier life without having to resort to codependency to get love, get success, or to belong.
Because, when you don't know how to lovingly, confidently be who you are, create safe, trustworthy relationships, and build real success in your life...
You lapse back into people-pleasing
You seek out the old pattern of toxic relationships
Repeat old wounds and traumas
Condemn yourself and lose faith in yourself
Turn away healthy friendships and relationship opportunities
Suffer in isolation and loneliness
I struggled for decades with feeling safe and confident in myself, even after years of trauma therapy and deep work on my codependent impulses…
Once I learned what I teach in the Codependency Healing System, I no longer needed to be codependent.
Teaching this is one of my most favorite activities I do.
Because it creates change so quickly and deeply for survivors like you and I.
Join the 700+ students who have experienced my trainings and experience for yourself more freedom, peace, and care.
Come Join Us In This Adventure
Experience Real Healing & Lasting Freedom & The Prosperity In Relationships And Life It Creates
The Codependency Healing System Guides You In Creating Three Specific Outcomes In Your Daily Life:
OUTCOME ONE: FEEL SAFE PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND RELATIONALLY
The nausea, the pounding heart, the sense of panic and distress, the gutting sensation – these are all results of what I call “attachment distress”.
This distress results from having your sense of connection and access to the other person threatened or actually severed.
This leaves you feeling shattered, lost, emptied, and frozen.
I guide you through warming, thawing, and then healing this distress using specific practices, including:
- Somatic grounding practices
- Building emotional space and capacity to feel
- Bringing legitimacy to your experiences and feelings
- Regulating and comforting your distress and pain at losing them or feeling separated from them
- Restoring trust in your lived experience
- Help you pop the codependent fantasies and connect with reality
- Take back and occupy your Personhood
This liberates you from the grip of the trauma bond and the core codependency survival response called “Freeze-Fawn”.
OUTCOME TWO: KNOWING, LOVING, AND BEING WHO YOU ARE
Codependency emerges when we don’t have a solid sense of real Self.
This step helps you discover who you are through understanding your:
- Innate Value as a person and a being
- True Voice as a person and an authority in your life
- Genuine Vision of who you are and what you desire in your world
I help you achieve this through very specific practices, including:
- The Innate Value Retrieval Practice
- The Innate Value Activation Practice
- The Innate Value Rooting Practice
- Tuning In Your Voice Practices
- The Lensing Practice
- The Presence With You Practice
- Intuition Listening Practice
This is how you come to know, love, and live who you really are.
OUTCOME THREE: HAPPY, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
This is where you graduate from codependency and build interdependency in healthy, compatible, happy relationships of any kind (friendship, romantic, and so forth).
I help you achieve this by teaching you how to:
- How to detect and build on organic compatibility using my WHAT-HOW-WHO Model of relating
- Build relationships on consent and privilege, eliminating the toxic habit of entitlement and obligation
- Navigate building secure attachment and bonding through recognition, reassurance, and safe conflict and communication
- Build conflict habits that create understanding, intimacy and outcomes that serve all involved
- Build communication habits that create comprehension, clarity, and care
This is how you come to experience relationships where you feel seen, loved, and valued.
THESE OUTCOMES ARE CREATED THROUGH SIX GENTLE HEALING FOCUSES:
Notice: Contents of the course are subject to change at anytime
YOU ARE SUPPORTED & GUIDED THROUGH EACH FOCUS WITH:
HERE'S HOW:
LIVE MENTORING HOURS™ ($4999/yr)
UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK LIVE SUPPORT CALLED, "LIVE MENTORING HOURS"
Live Mentoring Hours is your chance to get custom coaching from Marshall at any time in your journey through the trainings.
Live Mentoring Hours includes:
- Access to the Live Mentoring Hours Vault. Watch over 2 years worth of custom trainings for past students
- Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours) that happen on Tuesdays @6PM MDT and Thursdays @ 11am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
- You’re no longer doing it alone. You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
*Guaranteed for a minimum of 12 months
HOMEWORK HOURS™ ($3000/yr)
UNLIMITED ACCESS TO TWICE-A-WEEK HOMEWORK STUDY GROUPS
Do course homework in the warmth and presence of others students and Marshall.
This allows you to ask questions, share homework with others, and enjoy companionship.
Homework Hours details:
- Access to the twice-a-week live group support (aka Live Mentoring Hours) that happen on Tuesdays @5PM MDT and Thursdays @ 10am MDT (Mountain Time, Boise Idaho)
- You’re no longer doing it alone. You’ve got the support of Marshall and the Community at your back each step of the way
LIVE & ON-LINE COMMUNITY (Priceless)
UNLIMITED ACCESS TO THE COMMUNITY
Taking the leap on your own healing is scary. I know it was for me. What made the difference is a warm, supportive community that I could turn to with my questions, my needs for understanding and support, and guidance.
I provide you with this support through:
- Weekly check-ins via email on your progress
- Email support from my staff and I (usually a 48-hour turn around)
- Access to the private and secure Community™ of 2500+ survivors making their way through the same journey as yourself
- Twice-a-week live group support to give you the personal touch you deserve and need in your journey
COURSE FEATURES:
CLASS INFORMATION:
- 39+ recorded trainings from the live classes (guiding you through the 6 focuses outlined above)
- Classes are 2 hours each
- Homework is around 20-30 minutes per class
- Lifetime/unlimited access to recordings
COURSES COME WITH:
- Video and audio versions of the trainings
- Printable PDF homework guides and class slides
- Follow-along MP3 and video versions of tools and practices that guide your healing and growth
- Online access via PC or Smartphone (use the Kajabi App for smartphone use)
TIME INVESTMENT:
- Module trainings average about 2 hours in length
- Trainings come with printable PDF version of the slides for note taking
- Homework is 60 minutes a week on average
- It is always go-at-your-own-pace
- 39 core trainings, 6+ advanced trainings
37 Classes Taught Over A 10-Month Period. Here's Why:
REAL HEALING REQUIRES EXPERIENCE, SPACE, AND DISCOVERY. TIME IS ESSENTIAL TO THAT HAPPENING.
In my early days of healing, I was seeking the quick-fix, the magic bullet, the 6-week-and-I’m-healed solution.
I spent 6 years of my life chasing that fantasy and over 10K in courses.
Only to discover that this was part of my codependency. I was avoiding the real work of feeling into my reality, knowing myself, and becoming loving to myself.
Instead, I was treating myself like an object. I wasn’t healing because I cared about myself. I was healing so I could get love, be perfect, and get the outcomes that would make me feel worthy.
The real healing started when I stopped running from my pain and turned towards the work through sincere dedication to knowing, loving, and being myself.
This is when I gave up my concern about how much time it would take to heal and began treating my healing as a lifestyle.
This is where the magic started happening for me. As I did the work, I discovered the healing I’d been seeking.
You will be discovering who you are for the rest of your life.
FURTHER, GIVING YOURSELF TIME ALLOWS YOU TO MASTER:
- Regulating and soothing your nervous system and emotions
- Discerning and connecting to yourself and following your wisdom
- Get the experience necessary for making your healing and growth stick
- Build connections that are reliable, caring, and available
- Discovering your healing at deeper levels organically
AND PREVENT:
- Self-sabotage by trying to get things done FAST
- Overwhelm in trying to master everything NOW
- Burn-out and confusion caused by bouncing around different courses, trainings, and focuses
TIME IS YOUR ALLY IN YOUR HEALING
IS THIS COURSE A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?
The Codependency Healing System Is Designed For Individuals That:
- Identify with being a people-pleaser and seek love through approval
- That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
- That doubt their feelings and senses
- That wonder what is real
- That feel unreal or invisible
- Struggle to create healthy relationships, trust, and connection
- That are seeking to have relationships and friendships that are satisfying
- That are seeking more purpose and prosperity in their life
- That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
- That want themselves back
There are Pre-requesites To Join The System:
- Must be in therapy, seeking a trauma therapist, or be willing to if recommended by Marshall
- Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
ENROLLMENT INFORMATION
ENROLLMENT INFORMATION
ENROLLMENT IS CLOSED.
REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
WHO IS MARSHALL?
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.