Bluntcake: People-pleasing sabotages connection and belonging
Note: Bluntcake episodes are more direct and firm information that can be confronting, especially when looking at one’s own behaviors. Please check in with your
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Why You Care About What Other People Think And What To Do About It
You can listen to the Podcast and YouTube version here: “I’m not supposed to care what people think” Do you try to get yourself to
Is it fawning or is it love?
The fawn response can induce feelings of affection within a survivor towards an abuser or threat. These feelings motivate the survivor to appeal and please
Confusing Attraction With Knowing Them…
Another thought: A tell-tale signal of euphoria and fantasy is confusing attraction for knowing who someone is. This happened to me frequently (and sometimes still
On entitlement thinking…
For me, identifying and removing my internalized, unconscious entitlements is a work I spend a fair bit on. I do this when sensing into my
Do People with Toxic Behaviors Deserve Compassion?
I got this question from a few of y’all thanks to the posts as of late and it is an important one. I also am
Why You Can’t “Work Out” A Toxic Relationship
We often make the mistake of assuming all relationships start off with the same premise. This is understandable since we tend to give people the