
Moving Beyond Ill-intent
#thrivingbeyondcodependency #advancedemotionalcare What I share below is an advanced form of emotional relating. It is a work in progress in my own life, something I
#thrivingbeyondcodependency #advancedemotionalcare What I share below is an advanced form of emotional relating. It is a work in progress in my own life, something I
“Gotta be a better person…” No. Not for me, at least. I grew up under the concept that I was inherently sinful, bad, wrong, and
A thought on creating sanity for yourself: Once I stopped empathizing with the trauma I assumed was behind their abusive behaviors and making up stories
A late-night thinking: Good things in your life may feel scary or painful at first, especially if you’ve been trained by the reactions of people
Just pondering perfectionism a bit as I work on The Self-Trust Course… Its a bit ironic, don’t you think? Self-trust is, in a way, the
That’s not your job. That’s not even attainable. Because “enoughness” isn’t real. There’s compatibility and incompatibility. There’s fit and not-fit. There’s expansion and contraction. There’s
Self-trust is your first natural state. Self-doubt is alien to your actual nature. Self-doubt was placed there through the self-doubt of others, of whom received
A thought on parenting one’s self: Being boundaried means parenting your inner reactions. For example, a boundary I have been practicing is to not internalize
Another thought from my journey so far… Healing, for me, is about care and nurturing myself. This means there is pain. This means there are
Or has your dominant experience early on been that of criticism, rejection, being questioned, laughed at, dismissed, ignored, and not included because: I suspect you’re
This is an necessary category.
This is an non-necessary category.