Are you being replaced or being kept?
One of the things from my abuse that haunt me still is the “you’re replaceable” message I received growing up. In the Consumer-Supply relationship, the
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Category: Acceptance
Are you mimicking?
Mimicking. It is one of the superpowers of codependency. It is born out of desperation to get some sense of control over one’s environment and
Relief by letting others choose not to like or accept me
This is one of the odd, yet powerful, gains of Personal Sovereignty: the right of others to choose what and who they like and want
Being limited and flawed is essential to intimacy
[Being limited and flawed is essential to intimacy] Never thought you’d hear that, I bet. Have you noticed that people who project or attempt to
Make Gratitude Safe Again
[Make Gratitude Safe Again] Gratitude is often used to smother disappointment, hurt, loss, and grief. Our genuine feelings go unaddressed and acknowledged when we’re told,