LIVE CLASSES START July 9, 2023
ENROLLMENT CLOSES IN
Stop Fixing Yourself And Actually Heal
… Even if your therapy or self-help efforts have failed you in the past.
With the right knowledge, practices, and support, you can experience actual peace and healing in your traumas and hurts.
The Live Class Details:
- 8 Weeks of Core Training
- Class Is Sundays at 12pm Mountain Time
- 24/7 access to recordings & all future live trainings
LIVE CLASSES START July 9, 2023
ENROLLMENT CLOSES JULY 7, 2023
Stop Fixing Yourself And Actually Heal
… Even if your therapy or self-help efforts have failed you in the past.
With the right knowledge, practices, and support, you can experience actual peace and healing in your traumas and hurts.
The Live Class Details:
- 8 Weeks of Core Training
- Class Is Sundays at 12pm Mountain Time
- 24/7 access to recordings & all future live trainings of these trainings
Scroll Below To Enroll
It Isn't Your Fault You've Not Healed
Many of us struggle to see results in our efforts to heal and find peace, especially in therapy and self-help. We tend to blame ourselves, thinking we’ve not done enough, or we’re stupid, or it isn’t in the cards for us.
If this is you, you need to hear this…
This is a knowledge and execution problem.
Hi! I'm Marshall Burtcher
Mentor & Teacher In Healing Codependency
I had a fundamental misunderstanding of what healing really was and what was needed.
Most therapists, coaches, mentors, and survivors think healing is about fixing one’s pain through correcting how they think and feel about what they went through.
Reality is this:
Real healing is the result of resolving the impulses in the body.
And this requires you to understand how to create a warm, safe-enough witness for your pain to find its path to resolution and closure.
This is what I help you do.
I want to help you experience real, lasting peace...
And more joy, peace, and safety being you...
Like most things, we either learn from personal experience or learn it from another
I’ve learned over the past 15 years of personal trauma healing and pain healing what is required to bring warmth, care, and healing to one’s pain. It is my desire for you to experience this, too.
I achieve this through…
I have three intentions for you when you join the Actually Heal Trainings:
I want you to leave these trainings feeling tangible change in your efforts, confidence in your organic healing ability, and feeling hope and power in your healing work
Come Discover Real Healing
Experience More Peace, More Warmth, More Resolution
I will guide you in making that your reality through these 8 core trainings:
THE 8 CORE TRAININGS + ONGOING PROCESSING PRACTICES
TRAINING ONE: WHAT IS FIXING AND WHAT IS REAL HEALING
I show you what is really going on when we’re healing, the invisible loop that as at play, and how to nurture your actual healing through the Curiosity-Inquiry-Care framework.
TRAINING TWO: CAPACITY AND REAL HEALING
You will learn how capacity directs your healing, how to nurture your capacity at the level of the body, and how to begin navigating your healing efforts with more care. You will heal for you, not for the expectations of others or some arbitrary timetable.
TRAINING THREE: BELIEVING YOURSELF AGAIN
You cannot heal what you do not believe deserves healing. Further, if you do not believe your feelings, pain, needs, wants, and lived experience to be valid and real, your healing efforts will fail.
I teach you how to restore trust and belief in the validity of your pain, emotions, and lived experience. This allows your healing to take root in your body and mind, manifesting in more peace and clarity.
TRAINING FOUR: ASPECTS OF SELF & INNER REALITY
Your pain is carried by internal parts or “aspects of self”. These are inward versions of you that lived through the experience and carry the thoughts, feelings, needs, and wants you had at the time of pain and trauma.
When these parts have a shared relationship to a concept (for instance, relationships, love, or money), they create a complex interconnection that must be cared for in order for you and they to experience actual healing. I call these “Constellations”.
You will learn how to discern your inward aspects of Self, begin to care for them, and then identify and navigate trauma constellations. This will create deep, direct healing and growth while eliminating the frustrations caused by the illusion of “setbacks” and “back to square one” thinking.
TRAINING FIVE: INQUIRY - UNDERSTANDING YOUR INNER SELVES
You will learn how to inquire about what your body and Aspects of Self need in the healing work that is happening. You’ll learn how to hear their responses and implement them as best you’re able.
You will learn how to approach these parts and yourself with warmth, concern, and generosity. This creates a deepening sense of care, rootedness, and healing of inward lonenliness.
TRAINING SIX: WARM WITNESS & CARE
Healing requires what I call “The Warm Witness”. A warm witness is a person that is present and aware of your lived experience and what you’re feeling and facing. They receive all this with gentleness, warmth, care, and concern.
You will learn how to cultivate your own internal Warm Witness and begin using that witness in your curiosity, inquiry, and care practices.
This will create deeper healing, shelter, and nurture, producing more peace, more clarity, and more self-confidence.
TRAINING SEVEN: UNTANGLING YOURSELF FROM THE MEANING AND THE PAIN
You will learn how to shift from believing that your pain or trauma was caused by something in you to understanding and viewing it as an experience you went through.
This will help you liberate your sense of worth from the judgments of the pain and release any significance that was applied to the pain and events that keeps you stuck reliving them within your body’s reality.
TRAINING EIGHT: PUTTING THIS INTO PRACTICE - DIRECTED EMOTIONAL PROCESSING
You will learn how to implement everything you’ve learned in the previous seven modules by using Marshall’s mind-body processing method called “Directed Emotional Processing”.
You will leave this training having experienced this simple emotional processing style, along with ongoing live group processing sessions to help you master it in your own healing work.
ONGOING GROUP PROCESSING SESSIONS
You will be supported in implementing what you’ve learned through twice-a-week live group processing sessions that happen on Sundays at 7pm Mountain Time.
This is an ongoing class for as long as you have your membership.
COURSE DETAILS
LIVE CLASS DATES AND TIMES
- Live Class Start Date: Sunday, July 9, 2023 through August 27, 2023
- Course Length: 8 total modules. Go at your own pace in taking each module
- Class Time: Sundays, 12pm Mountain Time
- Class Length: 1-2 hours per class
- Homework Time Investment: 20-60 minutes (varies per training)
- Access To Recordings And Future Live Sessions: Access to class recordings are provided in video and audio (mp3) format and are available 24/7 for as long as you have an active membership
- You do not have to attend the live classes to succeed!
COURSE FEATURES
- Includes PDF guides and MP3 recordings of tools and classes
- Access to class recordings and to live classes when taught
- Support via email and the online student support community
- You do not have to attend the live classes to succeed!
COURSE PREREQUISITIES
There are Prerequisites to attend this course:
- Must either be in therapy, seeking a trauma therapist or be willing to find one if advised
- Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
- You must have an active Heal Your Codependency Membership (more on this below)
ENROLL BELOW
ENROLLMENT CLOSES IN:
ENROLL BELOW!
Enrollment Option One: Get Just The Live Course (Plus Recordings) ($297)
The Course-Only Option Includes:
- Unlimited access to the live classes when being taught
- Unlimited access to the recordings
- The course guide
- Unlimited access to The Codependency Healing Meditations and Tools Library
- Option to upgrade to the Heal Your Codependency Membership at anytime
- Click me to enroll in the course-only option
Notice! This Option Does NOT Include:
- Twice-a-week live support calls
- Twice-a-month live practice sessions
- Twice-a-month live pain and emotion processing sessions
- The Codependency Healing System – The Live sessions and recorded sessions
- The Live Specialized Focus Trainings
Enrollment Option Two: Get Course & The Membership That Gives You Live Support, Deeper Training, And More
- Twice-a-week live support calls
- Twice-a-month live tools and concepts practice sessions
- Twice-a-month live pain and emotion processing sessions
- The Codependency Healing System – The Live sessions and recorded sessions
- The Live Specialized Focus Trainings
- Click me to enroll in the membership
- Click here for more details about the membership: Membership details
CHOOSE WHAT FITS YOUR NEEDS
JUST THE
COURSE
Access To Live & Recorded Classes Only
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UNLIMITED Live Attendance To The Live Classes When Taught
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Recordings
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UNLIMITED Email Support And Community Forum Support
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP: FOREVER ACCESS
Save $1000s-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Monthly Breakthrough Trainings ($997)
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UNLIMITED Live Attendance To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing System ($2000)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS to The Actually Heal System ($997)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP:
YEARLY ACCESS
Save $700 a year
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Save $700 a year
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Live Attendence To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
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The Codependency Healing System ($997)
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The Actually Heal System ($997)
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Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
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Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
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The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
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The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
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The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
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The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
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The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP:
MONTHLY ACCESS
Normally $125 a Month
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Live Attendance To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
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The Actually Heal System ($997)
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The Codependency Healing System ($997)
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Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
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Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
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The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
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The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
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The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
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The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
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The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
GET DEEPER RETURNS FROM YOUR MONEY, TIME, AND EFFORT INVESTMENT WITH THE HEAL YOUR CODEPENDENCY MEMBERSHIP
Heal Together. Thrive Together.
Feeling alone, isolated, frustrated, and unclear about what to do next were the traps that consistently kept me and my students from succeeding in experiencing real, actual, lasting change in my life.
Change like:
- Real, meaningful friendships
- Lasting, safe romantic relationships
- Real peace and feeling safe in my life
- Trust and love of myself
- Less anxiety, panic, and fawning
- More confidence, play, and joy
We need each other in order to succeed. This is because codependency is a relationship trauma, so healing it and thriving into our lives also happens in relationship – specifically community relationships.
The Heal Your Codependency Membership is your pathway to freedom from the pain, the panic, the isolation, and frustration of healing and growing alone.
THE MEMBERSHIP FEATURES
The Membership Guides Your Healing With 8 Core Features:
Feature One: Live Guidance & Involvement Of Marshall Burtcher
Feature Two: The Actually Healing Trainings
Feature Three: The Codependency Healing System
Feature Four: Twice-a-Week Live Support Calls
Feature Five: Twice-a-Month Directed Emotion Processing Sessions
Feature Six: Twice-a-Month Specialized Focus Trainings
Feature Seven: Twice-a-Month Facilitation Practices
Feature Eight: A Living Community That Supports You
Let’s look at each feature below:
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE ONE:
Marshall Burtcher's Personal Involvement
I am personally involved in the Communities, teach the live trainings, and run the support calls. You will get to ask questions, practice tools, and get support from me personally as you grow and heal.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE TWO:
THE ACTUALLY HEAL TRAININGS
This in-depth healing system trains you in:
- Brining curiosity and care to your pain and trauma
- Bringing peace and resolution to long-standing pain and trauma
- Reconnecting with your inner parts of yourself and helping nurture them into peace and well-being
- Restoring self-trust through believing the validity of your own lived experiences, emotions, and pain
- Eliminating the Fixing Habit
- Navigating the Healing Loop so you succeed faster in your healing
This is achieved through eight specialized trainings that are taught live by Marshall Burtcher two-to-three times a year.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE THREE:
THE CODEPENDENCY HEALING SYSTEM
This comprehensive system guides you in mastering:
- Nervous system care and nurturing
- Emotional care and soothing
- Self-trust
- Personal power
- Healthy, safe relationships and friendships
- Healing gaslighting and trauma bonds
- Restoring one’s sanity
- Knowing your real worth, loving yourself, and being who you are fear-free
This is achieved through a specialized 5-focus system of trainings that are taught live by Marshall Burtcher (class starts every August). Those focuses are:
- Focus One: Restoring Emotional Safety
- Focus Two: Restoring Your Sanity
- Focus Three: Restoring Your Personal Power
- Focus Four: Restoring Your Indomitable Worth
- Focus Five: Restoring Relationships
Live classes start every August.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE FOUR:
THE TWICE-A-WEEK LIVE SUPPORT CALLS
Now you can call in and get real-time support from Marshall and other students as you do the work.
Every Tuesday and Thursday, you are invited to attend live support calls.
There are two types of calls:
- Homework Support: Get questions about homework answered, do the homework together, and practice tools and concepts with Marshall and other students
- Live Mentoring: Bring your daily life challenges, celebrations, and discoveries and share them here. You will get support from Marshall and other students
Yes, you get support both in the homework and with your daily life.
The current call schedule is:
- Homework Support: Tuesdays 5pm and 10am Mountain Time via ZOOM
- Live Mentoring: Tuesdays 6pm and Thursdays 11am Mountain Time via ZOOM
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE FIVE:
THE TWICE-A-MONTH DIRECTED EMOTION PROCESSING GROUP SESSIONS
Knowledge is not enough to embody and your deep, healthy self. Nor are practices and tools.
You need a process that helps you integrate and bring to rest the deep pain and hurts that drive your people-pleasing, perfectionism, insecurity, shame, and guilt.
The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions gently guide you through connecting with your inner reality, caring for the pain there, and emerging with more peace.
These sessions take place on Sundays at 7pm, often twice a month (schedule varies based on need and other requirements) via ZOOM.
Sessions are recorded.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE SIX:
THE SPECIALIZED FOCUS GROUP TRAININGS
Take your healing and mastering deeper with these custom trainings designed to help advance your freedom, peace, and power in your personal life.
The Specialized Focus Trainings are developed in response to the needs students express and innovative trainings Marshall develops to help you thrive.
Classes include topics like:
- Dating
- Communicating Clearly
- Resolving Conflict
- Play
- Building Friendships
- Money
These classes are offered on Mondays at 7pm Mountain Time through the month (usually 2 times a month) via ZOOM.
Trainings are recorded.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE SEVEN:
THE FACILITATIONS
No longer do you need to wonder if you’re doing a practice correctly, or have to do it alone.
The Facilitations Sessions focus on a particular tool or practice you’re mastering and we do it together. These are recorded and added to the library to support your further mastery.
These sessions take place on Sundays at 7pm Mountain Time twice a month via ZOOM.
MEMBERSHIP FEATURE EIGHT:
LIVING COMMUNITY
Discover friendships, support, and play in the Communities.
Communities are where you and others can connect over mutual interests, challenges, as well as get support for the specific work you’re doing in a particular course.
Communities include:
- Course-specific Communities
- Topic or Interest Communities*
- Support Specific Communities (such as ADHD, Aging, Neurodiversity, Race, etc)*
- User-created-and-operated Communities (such as knitting, puzzles, etc)*
Connect with and build friendship with fellow students.
* Currently in development and may not be immediately available
THE RULES AND VALUES OF THE MEMBERSHIP
VALUES OF THE MEMBERSHHIP
- Inclusivity: We are an inclusive community, supporting the LGBTQIA community, Transgendered individuals, neurodivergent individuals (Autism, ADHD, etc), and minorities. Respect the pronouns of those that specify their pronouns
- Kindness: Speak kindly and directly with others. No shaming, gossiping, or putting down others
- Positive Intent: Assume positive intent on the part of others, as the majority of persons do not have ill intent in their actions, even if it is a painful impact
- Boundaries: Stay in your lane and do not try to fix or coach others
RULES OF THE MEMBERSHIP
Generally, these rules are here as a means of creating structure and clarity about expectations. It is rare that there is a conflict in these areas.
- Political, religious, and spiritual discussion is not allowed unless it is in a spiritual, political, or religious group. These types of groups are currently not available in the Communities
- Bigotry will not be tolerated
- Racism will not be tolerated
- Harassment of any type (sexual, religious, racial, etc) will not be tolerated
- Emotional, verbal, or online harassment, abuse, or intimidation will not be tolerated
- Proselyting or preaching will not be tolerated
- Communication and other rules are outlined here: Community Rules
- Resolve conflicts, disagreements, or misunderstandings between each other with care. Do not involve Marshall or his staff in personal conflicts with other students.
IS THIS MEMBERSHIP A GOOD FIT FOR YOU?
The Heal Your Codependency Membership Is Designed For Individuals That:
- Identify with being a people-pleaser and seek love through approval
- That struggle with trusting their own perceptions of reality
- That doubt their feelings and senses
- That wonder what is real
- That feel unreal or invisible
- Struggle to create healthy relationships, trust, and connection
- That are seeking to have relationships and friendships that are satisfying
- That are seeking more purpose and prosperity in their life
- That want to be themselves without fear, guilt, or shame
- That want themselves back
There Are Pre-requesites To Join The Membership:
- Must either be in therapy, seeking a trauma therapist, or be willing to if recommended by Marshall
- Must be in or seeking a support community online and in real life
- Willing to do the work and take it at their own pace
- Understand there is no quick-fix or instant healing; it takes persistence and curiosity instead
- Understand that Marshall is not a therapist; he’s a trauma-informed coach and mentor
- Agree to 100% responsibility for the actions and choices you take in this course
ENROLL BELOW
ENROLLMENT CLOSES IN:
ENROLL BELOW!
COURSE-ONLY EDITION
Access To Live & Recorded Classes Only-
UNLIMITED Live Attendance To The Live Classes When Taught
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Recordings
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UNLIMITED Email Support And Community Forum Support
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP: FOREVER ACCESS
Save $1000s-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Monthly Breakthrough Trainings ($997)
-
UNLIMITED Live Attendance To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing System ($2000)
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS to The Actually Heal System ($997)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
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UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
-
UNLIMITED ACCESS To The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP:
YEARLY ACCESS
Save $700 a year
-
Save $700 a year
-
Live Attendence To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
-
The Codependency Healing System ($997)
-
The Actually Heal System ($997)
-
Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
-
Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
-
The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
-
The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
-
The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
-
The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
-
The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
MEMBERSHIP:
MONTHLY ACCESS
Normally $125 a Month
-
Live Attendance To All Live Classes Of Included Courses
-
The Actually Heal System ($997)
-
The Codependency Healing System ($997)
-
Twice-A-Week Live Mentoring Support ($2000/yr)
-
Twice-A-Week Live Homework Support ($497/yr)
-
The Facilitations Sessions ($497)
-
The Directed Emotion Processing Sessions ($997)
-
The Specialized Focus Trainings ($2000)
-
The Bonus Course Library (HEAL, NURTURE, Thrive Strategy) - $2000
-
The Codependency Healing Tools & Meditations Library ($197)
ENROLLMENT CLOSES IN:
The Heal Your Codependency Membership
Discover Real Love, Purpose, And Peace After Abuse And Neglect
ENROLLMENT IS CURRENTLY CLOSED.
GET ON THE WAIT LIST TO GET EARLY OPPORTUNITIES TO ENROLL!
ANSWERS TO COMMON QUESTIONS
Is Live Attendance In The Codependency Healing System Included?
Will This Interfere With Therapy?
The trainings and practices in the Heal Your Codependency Membership are designed with personal therapy in mind. It is built around the principles that the student leads their therapy.
The courses involve tools that are oriented to the somatic, or felt-sense part of reality and experience, and included cognitive reframing practices using questions, exploration, and experience.
Will I Be Required To Complete Everything In A Specific Amount Of Time (or, Is it REALLY Go At Your Own Pace?)
All trainings and courses are go-at-your-own-pace.
Is There A Refund Or Guarantee Period?
Refunds are available only for 14 days for the Forever Access Program and Yearly/Annual Membership.
Refunds are issued within 14 days of enrollment. Beyond that, all sales are final.
There are no guarantees, as results are dependent on you doing the work. However, we commit to helping you identify additional resources if needed for your success with this work. This may include referrals to therapists or specialists. Costs for these services are not included in your enrollment. Those costs will be your responsibility.
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REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
REAL PEOPLE. REAL RESULTS.
WHO IS MARSHALL?
I MENTOR CODEPENDENTS WHO ARE SEEKING TO BE THEMSELVES.